Great Expectations – Are They Ruining Your Romance

Todays article Great Expectations – Are They Ruining Your Romance? is about high hopes for today and big dreams for the future which aint wrong as long as we share  those dreams and hopes with our partner. If we both have the same expectations and goals we will be happy. That issue is also a little philosophical, some of us are very satisfied with less then others who expect more. On a personal level it is not wrong to have expectations on your partner as long as you also live up to them yourself by giving what you want and by being loving and kind yourself. Have a nice reading and a happy day!

Blessings

It’s great to have high expectations of what life is going to be like when you’re sharing it with the person who is the love of your life. Unfortunately, many people have dreams and expectations that are simply unobtainable. Whether it comes from reading romance novels where the hero also realizes the error of his ways and gives in to the heroine’s every whim, or, on the other side of the coin, from watching rap videos where women are throwing themselves at the feet of men ready to cater to their every whim.

As a society, we’re giving mixed messages between fantasy and reality and it’s ruining more than its fair share of romances. If your relationship is becoming a bitter disappointment because it isn’t meeting up to your expectations here are a few things it might help you to remember.

Stop Comparing Your Relationship to Others

Whether you’re comparing your relationship to real relationships other people have (what you see of those relationships anyway) or something in novels or on television screens, you’re doing your relationship a huge disservice. Reality can never live up to fiction and you’re only seeing the public side of other relationships. You’re not privy to what’s going on behind closed doors.

Establish Realistic Expectations

The truth is that we all have expectations of life that rarely live up to reality. When it comes to relationships, learning to compromise and have expectations that are more realistic can make a world of difference when it comes to how happy you are with your partner. Both of you have areas where there is room for improvement. Identify them and make changes where appropriate.

Learn to Speak Up When It’s Important

The other problem regarding expectations arises when you fail to speak up when something is really important to you. Your partner can’t meet your needs if he or she isn’t aware of them. You must speak up and let your partner know what’s going on in your head and in your heart. You can’t hold the other person in the equation responsible for unknown variables. It’s not fair to either of you or your relationship.

It doesn’t seem like such a big deal at first glance. However, adjusting your expectations just a little bit, in order to meet your partner in the middle, can make a world of different to your happiness with the relationship and with your partner.

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Planning That First Trip Away Together

God day to you this sunday, todays article Planning That First Trip Away Together is about one of the best things for a relationship to grow. Getting away together in a new and relaxing environment could really boost your life together and swipe the stress away. You really owe it to yourself and your partner this and if you cant afford it there may be possibilities for a mini vacation nearby to a beautifyl and calm place. Read on and have a lovely sunday.

All the best

There comes a time in most relationships where the couple decides to go away together for the first time. This is a very exciting time in the relationship and will need a bit of careful planning in order to make everything perfect on this first outing. There are some things that need to be taken into consideration before making this inaugural trip together.

The first thing that must be considered is whether or not you’ve taken things to the level of sleeping together. If that’s the case, then you’ll probably want to get a room together somewhere really nice such as a quaint inn or bed and breakfast. These are usually much more romantic than a huge resort where there will most likely be hundreds of people staying. So, for this first trip away, it’s generally better to opt for a quieter environment. It will help you to spend some true quality time together.

On the other hand, if the two of you haven’t begun sleeping together and this trip is to be that special moment when you move things to the next level, you’ll want to plan things a bit differently. First of all, make your reservations at a place that’s a little off of the beaten path. Try out a romantic cabin where it will be just the two of you and you won’t have to worry about Housecleaning knocking on your door very early in the morning. If you can’t find one of those, do some research and see if you can find a small hotel in a romantic setting. You just want to be somewhere that you’re not disturbed by lots of other people being around.

There are some unique bed and breakfasts around that you can find if you just make a few inquiries and perform a bit of research. These are the ones that don’t have all of their rooms under one roof. You can find everything from an actual cave to tree houses and a few other things in between. Any of them will be great for you to enjoy your first sexual encounter with each other. While you may have to cook for yourselves or go out to restaurants, there will at least be fully stocked pantries and refrigerators.

Of course, when you’re planning your first trip away that will also be your first sexual encounter together, there will be different types of clothing other than the type you will take if you’re going to be staying in separate rooms. So pack accordingly. Obviously, you’ll want sexy lingerie and some more seductive outfits if you’re planning for this trip to also contain The Big Night. If you’re not going to be sleeping together, you can pack some attractive outfits that will generate some interest that can just keep building.

Something else you may want to consider is just how much time you’ll be spending outside of the accommodations. If you plan to do some site seeing, it’s good to research the area before making a reservation. On the other hand, if you’re going to be having that “first time” together, you probably don’t care so much about the surroundings.

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