Dont Be A Relationship Doormat

Todays article Dont Be A Relationship Doormat is very important to read. If you are in a bad relationship that you has been used to you may think you deserve to be treated bad. Usually we have great respect for each other in the beginning of a relation but unfortunately that could fade away as time goes by. I think that love and respect should go hand in hand. It is when we start taking each other for granted the risk for disrespect start to enhance. 

Yours Sincerely

All relationships tend to start off with a lot of love, lust and respect. It’s only after couples have been together for a while that they start to go downhill because the real traits of the partners start to come out. Many of these couples split up and go their own ways to brighten or ruin the lives of new people. Sadly, a high percentage of some people decide to remain in those relationships because of not knowing how to handle abusive partners. Those people become relationship doormats and it’s a hard pattern to break.

You may not even realize that you’ve turned into a doormat even though you’ve got friends and family members that are trying to tell you the truth. Some of the signs that you’ve become a relationship doormat include but aren’t limited to:
You’re constantly being cheated on: This is something that many women continue to tolerate even though it’s one of the most hurtful and disrespectful things that a man can do to them. They choose to turn their backs on the situation or they simply decide to stay in the relationship even though it’s pretty obvious that it’s not a loving and devoted one on both sides.

He always chooses his friends over you: Friends are great for everyone to have and it’s also good to hang out with them periodically. But if your man is constantly blowing off spending time with you in favor of playing with his friends, he has a warped sense of devotion. He’ll probably want your attention when he comes home from that night out with the boys all drunk and horny, though.

He makes fun of you or criticizes you in front of others: If it seems that you never do anything right when it comes to your man and he does nothing but tell you how stupid you are or incompetent you are, he probably does it in front of other people, too. This shows the blatant disrespect he has for you. Also, he can’t love you if he’s constantly finding fault with everything you do.
He rarely has sex with you and when he does, it’s all about him: That’s what you call an inconsiderate and selfish jerk. Why are you with this guy?

He’s hurting you physically: If this is happening to you, it’s time for you to move on. Nothing is worse than this because you can become severely damaged or worse when you’re physically abused. So many women will remain in this type of situation for various reasons, but it’s wrong and dangerous.
These are just some of the signs that you’ve become a doormat in a relationship that’s never going to be a happy one unless you decide to stand up for yourself. Of course, then you’ll probably have to leave this horrible boor that you’ve attached yourself to but it will definitely be worth it in the end. The only way you’re going to be happy is to meet the man that will cherish you and love you the way you’re meant to be. Don’t allow yourself to be a doormat. If you do, you’ll never be as happy as you could be. There are professional help to get and i can from my own experience recommend T W Jacksons The Magic Of Making Up which has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries to get back together or to mend a broken heart and find love again. Follow the link below to read more about The Magic of Making Up.

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Blind Dates And Honesty

Hi all beloved readers! Todays article is about dating and named Blind Dates And Honesty which can be both exciting and frightening. In todays hightech environment it is common to get in contact with someone online. Taking that next step and meet your sweet is a little like gambling. My advice is to get in touch over the phone and at least talk to each other before the blind date. The voice tell you a lot about the person.  

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Everyone hates to hear those dreaded words, the blind date, coming out of someone’s mouth. How many times has a relative or friend come up to you and insist that they know someone who would be perfect for you in every way, but you have never met them before? This is one of those things that people try to talk their way out of every chance they can. No one wants to go out on a date with someone they haven’t even seen before and, while that might sound superficial to a lot of people, it’s a bit more common than you would think.

Think about it this way: you aren’t going to purchase a car that you have never seen, heard run, or test driven, are you? Of course not, as that would be suicidal as far as your financial aspects are concerned. You have no idea what condition that car is going to be in, and that goes the same way for the blind date that someone is trying to set you up with. You just have to be honest with them and yourself, and tell them that you don’t date anyone that you haven’t met before in public.

You need to make sure that the two of you are compatible in more than just one way. Sure, they may be really nice, but if you aren’t attracted to them, then there really isn’t a way that it’s going to work out. You might end up being great friends and all, but that isn’t going to help you with a relationship of a romantic nature. If you do get forced into a blind date and you aren’t attracted to them, then you need to tell them upfront so that there isn’t any confusion later on.

Yes, it’s probably going to hurt that person’s feelings to be told that you aren’t attracted to them in a physical manner, but it’s much better to hurt their feelings early on rather than leading them on and taking a chance to really upset them. Instances like that can have some pretty dangerous consequences if you aren’t careful, and that is why it’s always a good option to just avoid blind dates altogether or do your best to be as honest as you can at the very start of the date. Just make sure that you are tactful with the way you let them down.

There are those occasions when a blind date is the perfect way of finding the one person you are meant to be with. Those moments are rare, at best, but everyone has heard the tale of someone in their family meeting someone on a blind date that ended up in 50 plus years of happiness. It may not work out that way for you every time, but you could be the next rarity in the relationship world, and that would change your life forever. Whether you like them or not, blind dates can, sometimes, at least be worth a shot.

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