Hi all beloved readers! Todays article is about dating and named Blind Dates And Honesty which can be both exciting and frightening. In todays hightech environment it is common to get in contact with someone online. Taking that next step and meet your sweet is a little like gambling. My advice is to get in touch over the phone and at least talk to each other before the blind date. The voice tell you a lot about the person.
To Your Success in Love
Everyone hates to hear those dreaded words, the blind date, coming out of someones mouth. How many times has a relative or friend come up to you and insist that they know someone who would be perfect for you in every way, but you have never met them before? This is one of those things that people try to talk their way out of every chance they can. No one wants to go out on a date with someone they havent even seen before and, while that might sound superficial to a lot of people, its a bit more common than you would think.
Think about it this way: you arent going to purchase a car that you have never seen, heard run, or test driven, are you? Of course not, as that would be suicidal as far as your financial aspects are concerned. You have no idea what condition that car is going to be in, and that goes the same way for the blind date that someone is trying to set you up with. You just have to be honest with them and yourself, and tell them that you dont date anyone that you havent met before in public.
You need to make sure that the two of you are compatible in more than just one way. Sure, they may be really nice, but if you arent attracted to them, then there really isnt a way that its going to work out. You might end up being great friends and all, but that isnt going to help you with a relationship of a romantic nature. If you do get forced into a blind date and you arent attracted to them, then you need to tell them upfront so that there isnt any confusion later on.
Yes, its probably going to hurt that persons feelings to be told that you arent attracted to them in a physical manner, but its much better to hurt their feelings early on rather than leading them on and taking a chance to really upset them. Instances like that can have some pretty dangerous consequences if you arent careful, and that is why its always a good option to just avoid blind dates altogether or do your best to be as honest as you can at the very start of the date. Just make sure that you are tactful with the way you let them down.
There are those occasions when a blind date is the perfect way of finding the one person you are meant to be with. Those moments are rare, at best, but everyone has heard the tale of someone in their family meeting someone on a blind date that ended up in 50 plus years of happiness. It may not work out that way for you every time, but you could be the next rarity in the relationship world, and that would change your life forever. Whether you like them or not, blind dates can, sometimes, at least be worth a shot.
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