Dont Be A Relationship Doormat

Todays article Dont Be A Relationship Doormat is very important to read. If you are in a bad relationship that you has been used to you may think you deserve to be treated bad. Usually we have great respect for each other in the beginning of a relation but unfortunately that could fade away as time goes by. I think that love and respect should go hand in hand. It is when we start taking each other for granted the risk for disrespect start to enhance. 

Yours Sincerely

All relationships tend to start off with a lot of love, lust and respect. It’s only after couples have been together for a while that they start to go downhill because the real traits of the partners start to come out. Many of these couples split up and go their own ways to brighten or ruin the lives of new people. Sadly, a high percentage of some people decide to remain in those relationships because of not knowing how to handle abusive partners. Those people become relationship doormats and it’s a hard pattern to break.

You may not even realize that you’ve turned into a doormat even though you’ve got friends and family members that are trying to tell you the truth. Some of the signs that you’ve become a relationship doormat include but aren’t limited to:
You’re constantly being cheated on: This is something that many women continue to tolerate even though it’s one of the most hurtful and disrespectful things that a man can do to them. They choose to turn their backs on the situation or they simply decide to stay in the relationship even though it’s pretty obvious that it’s not a loving and devoted one on both sides.

He always chooses his friends over you: Friends are great for everyone to have and it’s also good to hang out with them periodically. But if your man is constantly blowing off spending time with you in favor of playing with his friends, he has a warped sense of devotion. He’ll probably want your attention when he comes home from that night out with the boys all drunk and horny, though.

He makes fun of you or criticizes you in front of others: If it seems that you never do anything right when it comes to your man and he does nothing but tell you how stupid you are or incompetent you are, he probably does it in front of other people, too. This shows the blatant disrespect he has for you. Also, he can’t love you if he’s constantly finding fault with everything you do.
He rarely has sex with you and when he does, it’s all about him: That’s what you call an inconsiderate and selfish jerk. Why are you with this guy?

He’s hurting you physically: If this is happening to you, it’s time for you to move on. Nothing is worse than this because you can become severely damaged or worse when you’re physically abused. So many women will remain in this type of situation for various reasons, but it’s wrong and dangerous.
These are just some of the signs that you’ve become a doormat in a relationship that’s never going to be a happy one unless you decide to stand up for yourself. Of course, then you’ll probably have to leave this horrible boor that you’ve attached yourself to but it will definitely be worth it in the end. The only way you’re going to be happy is to meet the man that will cherish you and love you the way you’re meant to be. Don’t allow yourself to be a doormat. If you do, you’ll never be as happy as you could be. There are professional help to get and i can from my own experience recommend T W Jacksons The Magic Of Making Up which has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries to get back together or to mend a broken heart and find love again. Follow the link below to read more about The Magic of Making Up.

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Dont Depend On Someone Else To Make You Happy

Dont Depend On Someone Else To Make You Happy is so true. Hapiness comes from inside. When you are in love everything seems perfect and you are happy all the time but the hapiness emanate from you. Have you ever noticed that when you smile people smile back, it is almost magnetic.  When you show hapiness you also get that same thing back, what you give is what you get. So lets give the world your smile today and make it a happier place.

Have a Great Day

Too many people these days depend on whether or not they’re in a relationship to decide if they’re happy or not. This is one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make for both yourself and the future of your relationship. You’ll find out rather quickly that if you rely on the actions of your partner to “make” you happy that your emotions will stay in constant movement much like riding a roller coaster.

Couples in successful relationships understand this concept. They don’t depend on each other for their own personal happiness. Instead, each of them do things that they enjoy and makes them happy independently of each other. This is the key to true personal happiness. Do what you like and get involved in things that make you feel good and energetic. Don’t expect your partner to figure out how to keep you happy. That never works out.

Granted, if you and your partner aren’t happy being together, or one of you has done something to damage the relationship, it’s no surprise that you’ll feel unhappy about this. However, it’s the event that’s made you sad or angry, not your partner. Your partner isn’t a mind reader and cannot tell exactly what they need to be doing at all times so that you’ll never be unhappy. That’s not realistic and people that hook up with someone just because they believe this is what will give them the happiness that they’ve been missing out on will be sorely disappointed.

Couples that are independently happy typically end up making each other happy as partners. Neither of them has anything to prove and simply don’t spend a lot of time sitting around questioning whether or not they’ve making their partner happy. They just enjoy feeling happy and let things take their natural course. That’s the way to keep your relationship moving in the right direction.

Someone that’s so emotional that they take every little comment their partner makes to heart is never going to be completely happy. These are the people that are continuously waiting for their partner to notice things such as a new hairstyle or outfit. When the partner doesn’t immediately acknowledge the change, it’s blown all out of proportion. Give your partner time to assess the new you and make the appropriate comments.

Stop assuming things regarding your partner. Even though both of you have a lot in common, you’re not always going to move totally in synch with each other. Give your partner room to breathe and accept it when they grant you the same. It’s healthy to lead a life outside of the relationship as long as it’s not interfering with the core of the relationship. You’re the only one that can make you happy. Sure, you can say that you’re happy to be with someone, or even that your partner makes you happy. However, what that doesn’t mean is that you’re totally depending on your partner to keep the happiness alive within you. Make yourself happy and the rest will all fall right into place.

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Married And Happier Than Ever…

Thanks Tdub, I listened to a couple of your emails and used them with my former ex and now we are married and happier than ever you are a God and I owe a lot of this to you.

Thanks man.

John

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hey Tdub! how’s it goin’? i watched your video, and i must say, it’s the most *and you’re the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.

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