Handle Your Relationship with Love and Care

It is very unusual for a couple to never have conflicts or disagreements. However, the way to solving a problem in your relationship is to understand the problem beforehand and try to prevent it from happening at all. 

If you want to have a successful marriage or relationship and keep your lovelife going, you need to understand your partner from another perspective. Below is a list of the main relationship issues that many couples go through.

Communication 

Whether you know it or not, the root cause of many broken relationships is simply a lack of communication. Communication with your loved one doesnt need to be a dreaded task, sometimes just sprinkling a little bit of love on him/her is a good thing. 

Maybe they have come back from a hard day’s work or a bad day even. When it is like this, only you can help take away all the pain and give your loved one the love they need and deserve. Sometimes the communication gap has been there for so long it can be difficult trying to break the ice. If you are in a situation like this, it may help to try one or more of the following suggestions: 

Set a date to go out with your loved one. Ask them what suits them best, and book a table at their favorite restaurant. You could even spend time at home and just have a really healthy talk. But if you do not set a specific time and date, your special evening may never happen.

If you live together, try to limit your TV watching time. Generally, if youre focused on watching a TV show, youre not focused on bonding with your partner.

Turn your phones off or set them to vibrate mode so nothing interrupts the time youre spending together. 

Love and care

If you have kids, you should probably wait until after you put them to bed or maybe send them over to a friends house or ask a relative to watch them for you. 

If you think your conversation could escalate to a fight or raised voices, it may be better to choose a public location like a restaurant, where there is less chance that anyone will create a scene. That way, you can easily talk things out in a quiet manner, and that can lead to a healthy conversation. 

Always make sure when your partner is talking that you let them talk without interrupting. If this happens often in your relationship then maybe it is time for you to lay some rules down and change things. 

When your partner is talking and you are having a healthy discussion, do not fidget because this only shows that you are not at all interested. Your body language should show your partner that you are truly interested in what he/she is saying. 


Tips to solve problems 

Be truthful about everything that is going on with you. Two people want to be together because they think they can be truthful and trust one another. Be very careful about breaking your loved ones trust because once broken it is very difficult to regain. 

Sometimes money or financial issues is the main cause of conflict in your relationship. You probably share bills and expenditures with each other and something may have happened that has caused it to become a problem. It doesnt have to be a bad thing to share your money with your partner.


Try being there for one another; love is not just about being there only in the good times, but also in the bad. Love takes away all pain, just show some love wherever necessary and your relationship will bloom like a beautiful, healthy flower. 

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Common Relationship Issues and How To Fix Them

Rarely do couples ever avoid their fair share of bumps in the road during their relationship journey. If you can identify what specific relationship issues may be headed your way ahead of time, you will gain a greater chance of avoiding them altogether.

Successful couples have effectively learned how to deal with the inevitable ups and downs that every relationship goes through. In other words, they know how to keep their love life alive. 

When the going gets tough, they dont give up. Theyve figured out how to tackle both big and small problems along with how to handle complex issues certain days present. 

Many simply learn from trial and error, watching other loving couples, attending counseling and seminars, or reading self-improvement articles and books.

Relationship Issue #1: Poor Communication

Seemingly, all relationship issues derive from poor communication skills on some level. Its impossible to communicate with your partner if you are reading the paper, watching television, or checking your smartphone.

Strategies for Poor Communication

- If you and your partner find it difficult to talk about certain issues without your voices rising, go to a public place together to talk such as a park, coffee shop, or library. Neither of you will yell in public due to embarrassing yourselves - right?

- Establish some boundaries. Try not to interrupt your partner while they are speaking. Also, try to avoid using accusatory phrases such as "you never" or "you always".

- Use your body language to illustrate youre paying attention. Refrain from checking your phone, biting your nails, and not looking the other person in the eye while theyre talking. 

Common Relationship Issues and How To Fix Them 

Occasionally nod so your partner knows they have your full attention and youre listening to what theyre saying. 

Reiterate some of their words if you like. By repeating back their exact sentence, it shows youre not only listening, but you understand them as well.

Relationship Issue #2: Problems in the Bedroom

Even deeply caring couples who truly love one another can be sexually mismatched. In addition to finding themselves on different carnal planes, these problems get even worse when they are coupled with a lack of education and sexual self-awareness.

However, couples should never simply throw in the towel when it comes to sexual intimacy. Sex has the capability to bring couples closer together while releasing certain hormones that support the body both mentally and physically along with keeping the lovers chemistry in good health.

Strategies for Problems in the Bedroom

- Arrange intimate sexual time for you and your partner. If you have to, mark it on a calendar and make an appointment. Yes - its that important.

Couples with children should elicit the help of family and friends to watch the kids every other weekend. When theres a sex date scheduled on the calendar, its exciting since it builds the anticipation factor. 

Also, changing things up in the bedroom can make it a bit more stimulating and fun. Find other places to have sex besides the bedroom - perhaps the laundry room or the hallway? The more unusual, the better.

- Both you and your partner could create a sex list. Make a list of everything that turns you on, or could potentially turn you on. Then exchange lists with your partner to create interesting scenarios that both of you can experience and enjoy.

- Employ the help of an experienced sex therapist if you are having a difficult time mending your sexual relationship issues.

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