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Sunday, May 8, 2016

Handle Your Relationship with Love and Care

It is very unusual for a couple to never have conflicts or disagreements. However, the way to solving a problem in your relationship is to understand the problem beforehand and try to prevent it from happening at all. 

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If you want to have a successful marriage or relationship and keep your lovelife going, you need to understand your partner from another perspective. Below is a list of the main relationship issues that many couples go through.

Communication 

Whether you know it or not, the root cause of many broken relationships is simply a lack of communication. Communication with your loved one doesnt need to be a dreaded task, sometimes just sprinkling a little bit of love on him/her is a good thing. 

Maybe they have come back from a hard day’s work or a bad day even. When it is like this, only you can help take away all the pain and give your loved one the love they need and deserve. Sometimes the communication gap has been there for so long it can be difficult trying to break the ice. If you are in a situation like this, it may help to try one or more of the following suggestions: 

Set a date to go out with your loved one. Ask them what suits them best, and book a table at their favorite restaurant. You could even spend time at home and just have a really healthy talk. But if you do not set a specific time and date, your special evening may never happen.

If you live together, try to limit your TV watching time. Generally, if youre focused on watching a TV show, youre not focused on bonding with your partner.

Turn your phones off or set them to vibrate mode so nothing interrupts the time youre spending together. 

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If you have kids, you should probably wait until after you put them to bed or maybe send them over to a friends house or ask a relative to watch them for you. 

If you think your conversation could escalate to a fight or raised voices, it may be better to choose a public location like a restaurant, where there is less chance that anyone will create a scene. That way, you can easily talk things out in a quiet manner, and that can lead to a healthy conversation. 

Always make sure when your partner is talking that you let them talk without interrupting. If this happens often in your relationship then maybe it is time for you to lay some rules down and change things. 

When your partner is talking and you are having a healthy discussion, do not fidget because this only shows that you are not at all interested. Your body language should show your partner that you are truly interested in what he/she is saying. 


Tips to solve problems 

Be truthful about everything that is going on with you. Two people want to be together because they think they can be truthful and trust one another. Be very careful about breaking your loved ones trust because once broken it is very difficult to regain. 

Sometimes money or financial issues is the main cause of conflict in your relationship. You probably share bills and expenditures with each other and something may have happened that has caused it to become a problem. It doesnt have to be a bad thing to share your money with your partner.


Try being there for one another; love is not just about being there only in the good times, but also in the bad. Love takes away all pain, just show some love wherever necessary and your relationship will bloom like a beautiful, healthy flower. 

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Sunday, May 1, 2016

How To Tell If Youre Ready To Move In Together

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How To Tell If Youre Ready To Move In Together is a good check list for you who are about to take the final step in moving in together. It is kind of romantic to plan a houshold together but it could also be a little frightening. When we live together on a daily basis we will learn to know much more about eachother and our habits. That should not be a problem but if you have lived alone for a long time it may need some effort to adjust yourself to another person. Naturally there will be some different opinions about things but everything will work out just fine when there is love in the air!
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One of the trickiest things in a relationship is knowing when it’s time to move in together. You may wonder if there’s a cap on how long you should date before approaching this huge step. There are other things involved such as his temperament as well as yours and the question of whether or not they’ll mesh well together under the same roof. Yes, it seems that there are several variables to consider when it comes to making that all important decision of moving in together.
It used to be in many years past that moving in with someone without benefit of marriage was considered to be a mortal sin. With religion less a part of things now and practicality more involved, more and more couples are choosing to live together before deciding to marry. It’s not unusual at all for many couples to cohabitate for a while and then decide they’re not meant to be together. It’s definitely easier to dissolve a live in relationship than it is a legal one.
However, if you’re trying to decide if it’s time to move in with someone that you’re romantically involved with; there are a few ways to tell if the time is right or not. For one thing, you’re rarely apart except for jobs or other necessary events. He’s either at your house or you’re at his. In fact, both of you have started keeping personal items such as tooth brushes, razors and extra clothes at each other’s homes. It’s obvious that a couple like this doesn’t need the extra space of maintaining separate residences.
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Another thing that may help you know if you’re ready to live with someone or not is the distance between your two homes. If there’s a decent amount of miles to drive to see each other, you’ll probably find that weekends are spent at one or the other’s residence because it’s too far to drive back and forth in one day. Then, you start to miss each other through the week because you only have phone and/or computer contact until the next weekend arrives.
Of course, there are the feelings that you get when you’re with each other as well as when you’re away from each other. Sometimes you really do just know when something is right to do. This is the one that usually tips the scales in favor of taking up residence together. You both just love the idea of going to sleep curled up together each night and waking up together every morning. There’s something to look forward to at the end of the day when you come home to each other. These are the biggest reasons for taking the relationship to the next level and moving in together.
Whatever reasons you may have for making this huge decision, if it’s the right one, you’ll both feel it from the very first night you spend together as co-renters. Not only that, but it will most likely be the beginning of a lifelong journey together.
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NEW! Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

If you’ll take my hand, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…

The Secret you need to know to get your lover back! From the man that has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries to get back together again!

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Saturday, April 30, 2016

6 Ways to Let Him Know How Much You Care

Youve been in a relationship long enough to actually know that your boyfriend is your perfect soul-mate. Or maybe youre married to the most caring man and want to show him how much you also care.

In either situation, youre convinced beyond a reasonable doubt that hes the right man for you and youre ready to spend the rest of your life with him. If thats the case, then here are 6 ways to let him know how much you care:

1. Cook a meal for him 

This idea may be old fashioned, but every man adores a woman who can cook. The fact that you are willing to sacrifice your time to prepare a home-made meal makes it pretty obvious that you care. All you have to do is to find a good recipe and use it to prepare something special for him.

You can start preparing the meal before he arrives, just make sure the food doesnt get cold before he gets home. If he enjoys wine, another thoughtful touch would be to get him a favorite bottle to complement the dinner. Make the dinner experience even more special by adding candlelight and soft background music for a more romantic ambiance.

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2. Give him some space 

This may sound a little surprising, but most men enjoy having some time and space to themselves occasionally. As much as youd love to spend more time with your man, it creates a healthier relationship when you recognize and accept that he actually needs to spend some time on his own or with his friends.

Its important to know your man well enough to be there whenever he needs you, but try to keep yourself away when he needs to spend some time on his own. Let him have his spare time, and if possible, use that time to do something for yourself; get a massage or go out and have some fun with your girl friends.

3. Really listen to him when he talks 

Some women find it hard to keep their mouth shut when theyre having a conversation with their man. This is because a woman will almost always have something to talk about.

Men, on the other hand, typically dont talk as much. So when they do speak, you can show him how much you care and respect what he has to say by keeping quiet, listening attentively and offering relevant comments.



4. Dont be afraid to say "Im sorry" 

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in your relationship is being unwilling to admit when youre wrong. We all make mistakes, and by owning up to them rather than trying to hide them, it lets your partner know that its okay for him to make mistakes too. It will instill trust and respect for you in your man, and your relationship will become even stronger.

5. Embrace his shortcomings 

One of the best ways to show someone you care is to make sure they know that you love them exactly as they are, "warts and all", as they say.

That just means you acknowledge their flaws but accept them anyway and love them unconditionally. Its important that your man knows that you love him for who he is and not for who you want him to be.

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6. Give him a "just because" gift 

Being the lady in a relationship doesnt mean youre the only one who appreciates gifts. Surprise him from time to time with something you know he likes. Listen carefully, he probably leaves plenty of clues by talking about things hed like to have.
You dont have to wait for a special holiday to give him a "just because" gift, and they dont have to be expensive. The realization that you cared enough to give him a gift for no other reason than because you love him will mean the world to him.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine…
What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…
I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…
More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…
Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

WARNING: Unconventional Methods!

At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear…he DOES IT… And next thing you know… he’s back home, laying back on the couch and watching HOUSE with his fiance on Monday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don’t believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt…
I mean, what’s a more valuable experience?…Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy’s girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivvies out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I don’t know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now, if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have “relationship troubles” too? If you do…I think I can help…

Here’s how I can help you…

If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can’t talk too or be with everyone, I just don’t have enough time…but I have
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Thursday, April 14, 2016

The Very Best Skin Care Secrets You Should Know


Nutritious skin is about over merely a pretty face. The health of your skin affects your whole body and you must pay attention to it. The guidelines we are likely to go over below will assist you come up with healthful beautiful skin for every single a part of your body.
Corn flour is a great and handy tool to your skin! It dries out oils and leaves the skin browsing smooth and not greasy. To make an at house exfoliant mask, get two or three tablespoons of corn flour and mix it with 1 egg white. Wash off right after 15 minutes.
Be sure to consist of plenty of "great" oils in your diet regime to maintain your skin, hair and nails moisturized. Use olive oil in salad dressings. Get flax seed oil and fish oil in capsule form. Use sunflower oil or peanut oil in cooking. All of these oils are healthful and assist have your skin nourished.
You may make a gentle homemade exfoliate on your oily skin. You will need lemon juice and sugar for this recipe. Get yourself a bowl as well as the ingredients. Mix a couple teaspoons with the lemon juice then create a little bit of sugar to the bowl. Get a cotton ball and dip it in your exfoliate. Gently scrub your face with it within a circular motion.
In an effort to protect your skin, eat a lot more tomatoes. A British study just recently discovered that individuals who ate tomato paste daily had milder sunburns. It is thought the lycopene contained in tomatoes aids to protect the skin. So next time you will be eating an excellent Italian dinner, tell yourself you might be performing it for your skin!
Most salon and spa supply stores carry economical alum blocks, which are little bricks of alum and potassium phosphate that retail for less than five dollars. Use this convenient substance as an all-natural underarm deodorant, remedy for small cuts and nicks, or even as an overnight treatment for minor acne blemishes.
You may want to switch up your facial cleanser during the wintertime if you use a gel cleanser within the winter time. Gels will be great for summertime if your skin is greasier but going for any creamier facial cleanser may add moisture to your skin which is good for dried out winter season skin.
The assistance about skin care that preceded is going to assist you maximize the length of time you retain your youthful, healthful skin throughout your life. Implement these tactics to your daily skin regimen and you also is going to be thankful for your rest of your life which you took the time to care on your skin.     
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Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Skin Care Ideas Which Could Work For Anyone


Consuming the time for you to get educated about skin care today is planning to show to the rest of your life. In case you adequately care on your skin now, you will be planning to have a healthy and youthful complexion for great longer as you grow some older. The tips that stick to will assist you get the info you must take care of your skin.
If youre outside through the winter season several months, remember to wear gloves on your hands. The cold could cause the skin on your own hands to dry out, crack and split. The cracks could be painful and will become infected. A good quality pair of gloves can protect your hands on the cold.
Continually buy all-natural and/or hypoallergenic items for shaving sensitive skin. Avoid merchandise that have alcohol, methyl paraben, butyl paraben, or sodium laurel sulfate. All of these chemicals are harsh and will disrupt the protective coating on your own skin. Also steer clear of merchandise labeled as "antibacterial"???. These, way too are harsh and damaging to sensitive skin.
If the skin is not within the top condition, think of making use of vitamin E. When applied topically vitamin E can soothe dry, rough skin. When taken orally the vitamin is a strong antioxidant that could neutralize the damaging effects of absolutely free radicals, molecules which damage collagen leading to dry skin and wrinkles.
Do not neglect the parts of your body which you do not consider that frequently. Regions of your body that you might want to moisturize and exfoliate that you do not remember are elbows, knees, heels, and neck. Also remember to place sunscreen about the tops of your feet!
One of the better things it is possible to do to enhance the health and style of your skin, and also decrease the appearance of wrinkles, will be to make certain you are obtaining sufficient high quality sleep every single night. Getting eight hours of beauty sleep will minimize stress levels and have your skin looking fantastic.
Even though your skin does not appear dirty, make time to cleanse it two times per day. Your skin is exposed to outside pollutants everyday in addition to develop and oxidization of skin oils. Avoid damaging the skin by using lukewarm water when showering or washing your face and use a really gentle cleanser no less than once all through the day.
Be sure to get during the schedule and do not skip steps in your skin care. In the event you follow a schedule it will make it easier to have up the regimen. Sunscreen can also be important to be able to prevent advanced or early aging of skin. You only get a single set of skin, so be sure to generate the most effective of it!     
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Sunday, March 27, 2016

Its Over So Get Over It

So you are sitting in a dark room with a tub of ice cream in your lap and tissues piled up next to you on the bed because you found out he was talking to his ex on Facebook. That is something that happens to a lot of people these days, especially when you consider how popular social sites have become. But that doesn’t mean you have to let it take you into a pit of despair. Sure, its going to hurt for a bit but you will eventually get over him and move on with your life like it never happened.

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Moving on from a relationship is a hard thing to do most of the time. Even when your partner has done something so completely stupid that you have no issues walking out the door, the days that follow will be filled with sleepless nights and all the good memories that the two of you shared together. Guys and gals alike will go through things like this at the end of a relationship no matter what happened to cause it to end. The bad thing is that there is no one set way of making things return to normal.



Some people may think going out to parties and drinking a lot will help them move on with their lives. For some of them, it might help, but everyone knows that when you start drinking to forget something like a relationship, you end up doing something even more stupid than you did to end it all. The fact is you will try to get even with that person by sleeping with someone you never would have slept with if you were sober, and that is not the way to go about things.

You have to look at the end of your relationship much like a death in the family; you have to give yourself the time you need to mourn and grieve for what has been lost before you can find the willpower to recover from it. If you allow yourself to slowly come to the realization that what you had is gone and in the past, then you can move forward and find a new path that you can walk down. Hopefully, this time it will be with someone that ends up being a lot better than the idiot you just caught talking to his ex on Facebook.

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Now that may not seem like a very constructive way of handling things to most people, but the truth is everyone handles things like this differently. The one thing you don’t want to do is go out and do something stupid that you are going to regret later on. You can go out with your friends and have some fun, but don’t get so drunk that you cant remember which members of the football team you went home with. That is counterproductive and can end up causing even more problems in your life than just sitting at home eating ice cream with a close friend and thinking about how you are going to get through all of this.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine…
What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.
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Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…
I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…
More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…
Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

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