Dont Depend On Someone Else To Make You Happy is so true. Hapiness comes from inside. When you are in love everything seems perfect and you are happy all the time but the hapiness emanate from you. Have you ever noticed that when you smile people smile back, it is almost magnetic. When you show hapiness you also get that same thing back, what you give is what you get. So lets give the world your smile today and make it a happier place.
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Too many people these days depend on whether or not theyre in a relationship to decide if theyre happy or not. This is one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make for both yourself and the future of your relationship. Youll find out rather quickly that if you rely on the actions of your partner to make you happy that your emotions will stay in constant movement much like riding a roller coaster.
Couples in successful relationships understand this concept. They dont depend on each other for their own personal happiness. Instead, each of them do things that they enjoy and makes them happy independently of each other. This is the key to true personal happiness. Do what you like and get involved in things that make you feel good and energetic. Dont expect your partner to figure out how to keep you happy. That never works out.
Granted, if you and your partner arent happy being together, or one of you has done something to damage the relationship, its no surprise that youll feel unhappy about this. However, its the event thats made you sad or angry, not your partner. Your partner isnt a mind reader and cannot tell exactly what they need to be doing at all times so that youll never be unhappy. Thats not realistic and people that hook up with someone just because they believe this is what will give them the happiness that theyve been missing out on will be sorely disappointed.
Couples that are independently happy typically end up making each other happy as partners. Neither of them has anything to prove and simply dont spend a lot of time sitting around questioning whether or not theyve making their partner happy. They just enjoy feeling happy and let things take their natural course. Thats the way to keep your relationship moving in the right direction.
Someone thats so emotional that they take every little comment their partner makes to heart is never going to be completely happy. These are the people that are continuously waiting for their partner to notice things such as a new hairstyle or outfit. When the partner doesnt immediately acknowledge the change, its blown all out of proportion. Give your partner time to assess the new you and make the appropriate comments.
Stop assuming things regarding your partner. Even though both of you have a lot in common, youre not always going to move totally in synch with each other. Give your partner room to breathe and accept it when they grant you the same. Its healthy to lead a life outside of the relationship as long as its not interfering with the core of the relationship. Youre the only one that can make you happy. Sure, you can say that youre happy to be with someone, or even that your partner makes you happy. However, what that doesnt mean is that youre totally depending on your partner to keep the happiness alive within you. Make yourself happy and the rest will all fall right into place.
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Thanks Tdub, I listened to a couple of your emails and used them with my former ex and now we are married and happier than ever you are a God and I owe a lot of this to you.
Thanks man.
John
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Well, My ex and I are talking a little bit more now. He text me yesterday and said that he missed me. He also told me he still loves me. And we have a date this Friday
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hey Tdub! hows it goin? i watched your video, and i must say, its the most *and youre the most* informative person i know when it comes to what to do about a break up.
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