Are Your Friends Poison to Your Relationship

Sometimes, friends can get in the way of your relationship in a really big and lethal way. Its hard to find balance between life, love, family, and friends. Everyone wants a little bit of your time. 

You must work to find that perfect balance without inadvertently placing your relationship on the back burner. Keeping a safe line of demarcation between friends and your lover, can be a crucial secret for long-term success in your relationship and/or marriage. These small changes will make a big difference.

Stop Telling Your Best Friend Everything

While she is your best friend and you want to share the ups and downs of your life with her, the truth is that she doesnt love your man -- but she does love you. Shes going to hold a grudge against him for the things youve told her long after youve kissed, made up, forgiven, and forgotten. 

Shes going to still be hopping mad at him for some slight thats old news and completely gone with the wind as far as youre concerned. Shes going to remind you, constantly about how he isnt good enough for you, doesnt deserve you, and isnt treating you right. The problem is youre eventually going to begin believing her and start carrying grudges of your own.

Put Your Friend after Your Partner

Its true that your friend may have been there for you long before your partner. However, that doesnt change the fact that he needs to come before your friends if youre going to have a successful and long-lasting relationship.  

Your relationship needs to be a priority in your life not some afterthought that gets the leftover attention after everyone and everything else has had its share. Its hard to make time for everyone on your list of people to see, but sometimes its necessary.

Show Loyalty to Your Man

If you really want to make a favorable impression with your friend and the man you love, be loyal to him. Dont talk about the negatives around other people. Discuss any problems you have with him and present a wall of solidarity and support to the world. Youll never know how much of a difference it makes to him and how he feels about your relationship.

Incorporate these small changes into your relationship and see for yourself what a difference they make. Youll be surprised at how noticeable the changes in warmth, love, and affection are in the aftermath of a few small adjustments like these. 

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Why You Must Control Your Jealousy if You Want to Get Your Ex Back

Jealousy can be a huge problems for relationships. The green-eyed monster is especially problematic when we live in a world that includes Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, text messaging, instant messaging, email and so many other ways for people to communicate with each other - including members of the opposite sex. 

More and more jobs expect professional employees to have ready access to information at all hours of the day and night and many people must go back into the office after hours on occasion, or never seem to leave the office on other occasions. It leaves the doors wide open for jealous spouses and lovers to leap to the wrong conclusions quite often.

Some Jealousy Can be Good for the Relationship

While your significant other is probably glad to know you care enough for the green-eyed monster to rear its ugly head on occasion, its important to avoid making scenes, jumping to conclusions, and levy accusations and allegations without proof. The key is to find balance. You want your partner to know you care, but avoid going overboard with displays of jealousy lest they alarm your partner and cause doubts about the relationship. Trust, after all, is also important. When jealousy is too "over the top" it leaves your partner feeling as though you lack trust.

Reigning in the Green-Eyed Monster

The key is to reign in your jealousy before it becomes problematic. Consider these actions to get your jealousy under control.

Jealousy

* Breathe deeply. Whenever your jealous thoughts are about to spiral out of control, take a moment to breathe in and out slowly and deeply. Focus all your attention on breathing for the next several breaths. This not only helps you calm your raging thoughts but also provides important seconds for clearer thinking to kick in.

* Speak calmly. This is not the time to incite violence or make threatening statements. Let your partner know youre uncomfortable and explain why in a reasonable tone. Most partners will show respect for your feelings, even if your partner believes they are unfounded, and attempt to get out of the situation if its possible. 

* Be proactive. When you feel the ugly head of jealousy making an appearance, start looking for thoughts and feelings that will cancel it out. The more active role you take in eliminating jealousy from becoming a problem for your relationship, the less likely it is to become one.

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