5 Signs He May Be Cheating On You

It is never an easy feeling to find out your loved one is cheating on you. But, if you find out he has been doing something behind your back, the best thing for you to do may be to simply leave him. Not every relationship is worth salvaging.

Boyfriends who tend to cheat on you do not deserve you, and there are simply no excuses for why he should do that. If he has cheated on you once, there is a great chance he will cheat on you again. The best thing for you to do is break up with him fast, so he doesnt hurt you even more in the future. 

Here are the best signs that can seriously indicate if he is cheating on you or doing something behind your back.

You caught him lying before
Pathological liars are among the worst kind of people and  you simply cannot trust them. People who tend to lie frequently are often hiding something, and there is a great possibility that he lies to you about cheating. 

If you were already slightly suspicious about him doing something behind your back, and he simply wont admit anything to you, there is a good chance that he is actually cheating on you. You simply cannot be trustful of guys who are prone to lying.

He hides his calls
If you realize that lately he has been going out of the room to make few calls, or just not answering certain phone calls when he is around you, then something is clearly wrong. 

5 Signs He May Be Cheating On You

You need to pay attention to his cell phone habits, especially if they have drastically changed recently. If you suddenly realize he makes a lot of secret phone calls, then something is probably wrong, and it is one of the first signs of cheating.

He has history of cheating
If he has cheated on you once already, there is a bigger possibility he will cheat on you again. Also, if you know about previous relationships where he admitted to you that he cheated on other women, then you should be more careful, because he could certainly do the same thing to you.

He spends less time with you
One of the best signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you is by finding out that he suddenly wants to spend less time with you. 

For example, if he is constantly on the computer while youre watching TV, or he simply finds more excuses to not go somewhere with you, then he could be having an affair with someone. 

People who are cheating always have something else to do, and suddenly start to have less time to hang out with you.

He is a narcissistic person
People that have certain traits of narcissism sometimes feel like they are somehow entitled to get away with more than other people. They are far more likely to actually cheat on you, since they do not like to play by the rules.

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Do You Really Want Him Back

Whether he made the choice to break up with you or you made the move to break up with him, the process of making it through a breakup can be a truly heart wrenching experience. 

But maybe you start to miss him and part of you wants him back. You get the idea that rekindling the romance could benefit both of you. Yet, something you should consider is that possibly you do not really want him back, you just do not want anyone else to have him.

There is a strong difference between jealousy and wanting to get back into a relationship with someone you once dated. To be sure of your feelings you should not rush back into a relationship with him. Give yourself some much needed time to think the situation through in order to figure out what it is that you really want. Moving slowly is key. 

If you make the choice to get back into a relationship with him, and it turns out youre not really interested in him anymore, it is going to be tough to break things off once again. But sometimes it works out in the favor of love, and the romance is rekindled.

It is completely natural to not want any girl to have your ex-boyfriend after a breakup. You spent a lot of time with this man and made a lot of memories with him; thinking of another girl basically taking your place can be a hard thing to face. 

You need to keep in mind that the past is the past, and even though this chapter of your life is over, brighter things lay ahead. If he can find someone, you can easily do the same - you just need to let go of the past first.

Do You Really Want Him Back

Many women have a hard time distinguishing between wanting to get back with their ex and just not wanting another girl to have him. There are several questions you can ask yourself to help you figure out what you really want. Some of these questions include:

- Can you picture yourself in a relationship with him again?
- Were you happier in the relationship or out of the relationship?
- Do you have thoughts of him being with someone else?
- Would you rather be with him or without him?

Your answers to the previous questions can help determine the move that you want to make. Typically, the feeling that most girls are experiencing is just jealousy. It is completely normal to not want your ex-boyfriend to be spending his time with another girl. 

Do not act on these feelings. Jumping into a relationship or telling him you dont want him with anyone else is going to complicate the situation for the two of you. This door of your life has closed but many more have opened in its place. 

Leave the past behind you and put your jealousy aside. Do not let a little bit of jealousy keep you from finally moving on and seeing that the grass *can* be greener on the other side. 

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Are Your Friends Poison to Your Relationship

Sometimes, friends can get in the way of your relationship in a really big and lethal way. Its hard to find balance between life, love, family, and friends. Everyone wants a little bit of your time. 

You must work to find that perfect balance without inadvertently placing your relationship on the back burner. Keeping a safe line of demarcation between friends and your lover, can be a crucial secret for long-term success in your relationship and/or marriage. These small changes will make a big difference.

Stop Telling Your Best Friend Everything

While she is your best friend and you want to share the ups and downs of your life with her, the truth is that she doesnt love your man -- but she does love you. Shes going to hold a grudge against him for the things youve told her long after youve kissed, made up, forgiven, and forgotten. 

Shes going to still be hopping mad at him for some slight thats old news and completely gone with the wind as far as youre concerned. Shes going to remind you, constantly about how he isnt good enough for you, doesnt deserve you, and isnt treating you right. The problem is youre eventually going to begin believing her and start carrying grudges of your own.

Put Your Friend after Your Partner

Its true that your friend may have been there for you long before your partner. However, that doesnt change the fact that he needs to come before your friends if youre going to have a successful and long-lasting relationship.  

Your relationship needs to be a priority in your life not some afterthought that gets the leftover attention after everyone and everything else has had its share. Its hard to make time for everyone on your list of people to see, but sometimes its necessary.

Show Loyalty to Your Man

If you really want to make a favorable impression with your friend and the man you love, be loyal to him. Dont talk about the negatives around other people. Discuss any problems you have with him and present a wall of solidarity and support to the world. Youll never know how much of a difference it makes to him and how he feels about your relationship.

Incorporate these small changes into your relationship and see for yourself what a difference they make. Youll be surprised at how noticeable the changes in warmth, love, and affection are in the aftermath of a few small adjustments like these. 

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Are your friends hurting your relationship

Most of us want to find a suitable partner with whom we can fall in love and ultimately share our lives. When we finally find that special person and commit to a relationship, we want it to last forever. However, unlike romantic novels and movies, not all stories have a happy ending and all couples have to face the bumpy ride at some point. Sometimes, the friends with whom we share our closest secrets and whose advice we seek while facing a troubled relationship might become the cause of a sour relationship.

Seeking a friend’s advice on a relationship may not be the best solution

Every couple is bound to have clashing opinions, as being different individuals, there will be difference in opinion and priorities. When things go out of hand and we do not find a solution, we depend on our friends for advice. We fail to understand that we might end up with a biased opinion, as our friend only gets to know our part of the story. No matter how consoling the advice may be, but it may act like sugar to a diabetic person. We must first acknowledge that there is a problem and then make mutual efforts towards solving it and should rely only on professional assistance if need arises. Visiting a marriage counselor together is a better option, as the he/ she gets to know the view of both the parties and can thus figure out a solution.

Are your friends hurting your relationship?

Neglecting a relationship makes things worse

The foundation of a happy relationship is a healthy friendship. Sometimes, however we do not understand that our partner can be our best friend and some very happy moments can be created together by sharing in each other’s passions and interests. Paint a canvas, read a book, bake and decorate cookies together; there are ample fun activities which help us connect better.  But at times we prefer to spend more time with our bunch of friends at a beer bar, baseball match or shopping and may end up neglecting our partner. It is essential for all couples to spend quality time together and be each other’s close friend.

Striking a healthy balance between relationship and friendship

Friends hold an important place in everyone’s life but you cannot afford to hurt a healthy relationship at the cost of friendship. So there is a need to strike a balance between both. Your best friends may sometimes cause hurt in if you fail to recognize that their advice in your relationship may not be the best one and you need to exercise your own judgment and take time out to understand your partner’s point of view.

A friendship, if it is too demanding may not be worth keeping and sometimes you just need to draw the line. Realize that in a relationship only the two of you can iron out the differences by putting your egos aside and going past the surface level connection.

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Getting Over A Breakup Friends To The Rescue

It is not easy to cope when a marriage or an important relationship ends. The whole world seems upside down and there is a lot of emotional trauma and unsettling feelings. It is also believed that it is tougher for women to get over a breakup than it is for a man. You must, however, remember that it is not the end of the world and the agony caused by a breakup is not insurmountable.

Lean On Your Friends

Friends often prove very helpful in making you feel better. We tend to feel lonely after a breakup and sharing our feeling with a close friend might ease the emotional burden. Hang out with friends; watch a TV show or a movie and it will work wonders. Don’t stop your tears in front of an understanding and patient friend as it is the best way to let go of the emotional burden and pain.

Your friends are aware of your personality and understand what you are going through. So true friends will always stick close to you in this terrible time and also help you get out of it as they know what will make you happy.

Sometimes you blame yourselves for whatever has happened and suffer from immense guilt. A true friend will never let you fall into that trap and will make you realize that whatever happened was not your fault. 

Getting Over A Breakup: Friends To The Rescue

Take Up New Interests

When you are in a relationship you tend to lose your social circle, so now it is the right time to get it back. You must catch up with old friends and make an effort to reach out to new people. This will make you emotionally more secure and boost your courage. You can also join a dance class or any activity class with a friend who shares your interest as it will prove to be helpful in keeping you busy and your mind will drift from the painful memory of your ex.

Grow and Learn

At the time of this emotional crisis you should search for an opportunity to grow and learn. A vacation with friends is another great idea, as it will temporarily take you away from the things that will remind you of your partner. Besides this, a vacation is always rejuvenating for your mind and soul.

Gain Back Your Confidence

It is very hard for us to deal with breakup and we also tend to find faults with ourselves and tend to suffer from inferiority complex. Some of us might think that they are unattractive and this may be a reason their partner has dumped them. Sharing complexes with friends is very important because they know your inner beauty and will make you feel beautiful by their words and actions. At the same time if you neglected yourself and your fitness, now is the best time to bounce back. Hitting a gym with a best friend will make you look wonderful and bring back the confidence in you.

Do not let the breakup shatter the real you. Instead try your best and take help from family and friends, who help you get over turbulent times with their warmth and love.

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Growing Stronger

While the idea of sequestering yourself away with your true love (and any accompanying kids) on a farm (or a tropical island if that’s more your style) seems like a good idea in theory, it isn’t a very realistic way to deal with the pressures of maintaining a healthy relationship. 

If you’ve been in a relationship for longer than three days, you are well aware that every relationship needs work to be successful. The world seems to offer a constant barrage of things that will weaken your relationship – how can you keep the life you’ve built together strong and true? 

Let’s look at some strategies you can start using today to get (and keep) your relationship on solid ground. 

• Use words. We’ve all heard that communication is a key in any relationship. Most of the time, however, when a relationship starts to fall apart, communication is one of the first things that crumble. 

We can talk to our friends about everything but often fall silent when sitting with our significant other. Make sure that the communication between you is strong. Fill him in on the details that are going on in your day: the new grill you’d love to buy him, the problems the new secretary is giving you at work. 

Don’t exclude him from what goes on in a day – that helps to keep the lines of communication going between you and makes you a stronger couple. 

• Use actions. Remember when your relationship was new? You did sweet things to show how much you love the other person. It’s easy to let that type of action fade away over time – after all, they should know how much you love them by now, right? Yes, they should know. 

Growing Stronger

But it’s always good to keep reminding them – and remind them that you love them as much now (if not more) than you did back then. 

By continuing to show love through actions, you are recommitting yourself to the relationship every day. Each time you go out of your way to do something kind, it’s a silent way of shouting, “I love you!”

• Use time. Make your relationship a priority. You don’t have to look very hard for something to take you away from home: friends, family, trips – it’s entirely possible to schedule something every day and fill your calendar with activities. While you’re scheduling, make sure that a majority of your time goes to your relationship.

• Use love. Love is not easy. It requires work – hard work – and often seems like it is too much to bear. 

Think about your job. No matter how great your job may be and how much you really like it, there are some days where you would rather be on a beach than at the office. 

But, you’ve made a commitment to your employer, so you drag yourself in and google vacation beach rentals on your lunch break. 

Your relationship can be the same: some days it seems easier to walk away. Commit yourself to the relationship – and to loving your partner – even when you don’t feel like it.

Working on a relationship can be exhausting, but can lead to a relationship that other people can only dream about. It’s not easy – but nothing of value ever really comes easily. Put your best in to the relationship if you want to get the best out of your relationship. 

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What Women Shouldnt Tell Their Friends About Their Relationships

Introduction

As much as your friends are supposed to be there for you at all times to exchange stories/ideas and help you get through tough times in life, there is a limit as to how much you should tell your friends when it comes to your personal relationship with your boyfriend or husband. 

This is simply because numerous research studies have revealed that friends do more harm than good when it comes to relationships. If you happen to be interested in safeguarding your relationship with your boyfriend/husband as well as keeping your relationship with your friends healthy, below is a list of 4 most important things you shouldn’t tell your friends about your relationship.

1. Your sex life: This is one of the most important details you should withhold from your friends. Although you might have friends who are exhibitionist storytellers, sexual intimacy in your relationship is strengthened when your sex life is kept a closely guarded secret between you and your partner only.

Keeping your sex life a secret also avoids curiosity which prevents problems like infidelity and mistrust when one of your friends starts showing interest in your partner because of the juicy stories you have told them.


2. Anything your boyfriend or husband doesn’t know: You should also avoid telling your friends anything your partner doesn’t already know because it is simply none of their business. Relationships should be between two people only. 

Your friends shouldn’t know things about your relationship before your partner does, otherwise you have to question why youre in the relationship in the first place. 

Friends

Healthy relationships are built on trust and total openness. If you can’t trust and open up to your partner before your open up to your friends, there is no point of being with your partner in the first place.


3. How much money he makes: This is another important detail you should leave out about your man when talking with your friends. Omitting this detail is important because it avoids instances where your friends start judging you or weighing in on your relationship. 

For instance, you avoid negative energy in case your man earns less than you do. You also avoid being judged or being called a gold digger if he is earning way more than you. The bottom line is, its just none of your friends business to know how much your man makes. If he wants them to know, let him be the one to tell them.


4. Every single argument you have had: This is another necessary omission you should consider when conversing with your girlfriends. Although it is not advisable to keep things bottled up inside, it is not advisable to share everything with your friends especially every single argument you have or have had with your man. 

This is simply because it does more harm than good. Although your friends may offer you all the support you need, they can’t help but start detesting your partner which will eventually hurt your relationship when they start telling you things like; dump him, he is not good enough for you, and other biased suggestions which may or may not be the right solutions for you.

In summary, the above information should guide you in the right direction about how much you should tell your friends about the details of your relationship. 

It is important to note that there may be other topics that should also be considered off-limits to your friends. This article should therefore be used as a basis for further research. You may also find it helpful to have this discussion with your partner so the two of you can agree on whats acceptable to share and what isnt.

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