Sometimes You Have To Leave To Be Happy

While more and more families are supporting their gay members, there are still quite a few that just refuse to accept the lifestyle that their relatives are involved in. Ignorance abounds when it comes to the many blows that are dealt to gay members of society. Most people still feel that being gay is something that is chosen, and they refuse to accept the reality that the majority of gay people were simply born that way, just as straight people are. Lately, a rather prominent actress stated publically that she “chose” to be gay, which isn’t helping the plight of kids that need to come out to their parents. However, there’s another option for many gay people that don’t get the support and acceptance they need. It’s rather simple, really. They find a great place to relocate to.

That’s right. These people that have failed to receive the love, support and acceptance from the ones that are SUPPOSED to be offering those things have chosen, instead, to seek out other areas where they may be able to find what they need as well as happiness. For instance, a young man living in a small southern town in the Bible Belt finally comes out to his parents only to be thrown out of the house right around the holidays. On top of that, they refuse to continue paying for his college tuition unless he renounces being gay. So he lives with various friends for a couple of years, supporting himself by working as a cook, and finally decides to just pick a destination and buy a bus ticket. His destination lands way on the other side of the country. However, as soon as he steps off the bus, he’s welcomed into the home of some online gay friends. Within six months, he’s not only got a great home, but a good job AND is involved with the young man of his dreams.

That’s a true story, by the way. He was sad to leave his friends behind but finally understood that the only way his life was going to move forward in a better direction was for him to make the necessary changes. Once he committed to doing that, everything turned around. His new partner’s family has embraced him and he’s happier than he’s ever been in his life. He would never have found all of that if he had remained where he was simply stomping his feet in a mud puddle.

It’s not easy to so drastically change your way of life. On the other hand, it could be one of the best decisions and moves you’ve ever made in your life. This is especially true if the city you choose to make your new home is “gay friendly.” There will be many other like-minded people just waiting to meet you and help to welcome you into your new life. When you’re in a place where you’re accepted and can be proud of the person you are, you’ll have found the type of peace that you’ve never enjoyed before.

If it´s the other way around and you need to stay and get ex back to be happy read the following letter that i got from my friend:

Hi,

T Dub here...

I get more email on a Sunday from good guys and

gals trying to fix a relationship than any other day.

Why?

Because Saturday nights are what I call "drama night".

Its a night of high drama for so many trying

to put the pieces back together in a relationship.

With that in mind...

This is darn good advice.

==>1 Thing you can do TONIGHT to re-attract your ex

...WITHOUT all the drama.

Theres more...

Pay special attention to the common mistakes which (almost) always push

your ex away. (most of them are made on a Saturday night)

==>Are you making one or more of these mistakes?

If you are...

Its okay.

You can "reverse" most of them...

==>Watch Here

Rooting for you

T Dub

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How To Know If Youre Ready To Get Married

With the approach of that all-important wedding month of June, more and more couples start to contemplate the thought of marriage. This is something that seems to affect more women than men because weddings are events that they love preparing for as well as having all of the attention turned onto them for just that one day. The problem is that too many couples spend so much time planning the wedding that they kind of miss the fact that there’s a marriage to follow.

Other couples may not be sure whether or not that they’re ready to make that trip down the aisle. If you fall into that group, whatever else you may do, you should not get married! While there may be a certain amount of nervousness surrounding a wedding, there should never be abject terror at the thought of becoming legally bound to another person. If you’re straddling that fence, though, and just aren’t sure whether or not you’re ready to get married, there are some questions you can ask yourself that will help you decide if should start making wedding plans or take a step back and re-evaluate your relationship.

First of all, you need to figure out how you feel about living with someone else day in and day out, having to answer to someone else and running things by them before making any decisions. If you’re already living with your intended and it doesn’t bother you, then this is probably not an issue. On the other hand, if you are still maintaining separate residences because you’ve been hesitant to give up all of your freedom and tend to be attached to “your space,” you probably don’t want to commit to living with someone all the time.

Making your own decisions without consulting someone else may be something that you’ve always done. When you get married, you must consider that any decision you may make will affect one other person besides yourself. That just might not be something you’re up for giving in to.

Now, on the other hand, if you adore living with your significant other and love coming home to him every day, chances are good that you’re ready to make that commitment. This is also true of including someone else in your decision making. If you’re already living together and talking over things before decisions are made, you’re probably more than ready to walk down the aisle and make some serious vows to each other.
Simply put, if you love being together to the point that you cannot imagine going through an entire day without seeing each other, then you’re certainly ready for something quite serious. In addition, if the two of you are already making plans together, that’s also a great sign. When you both get excited when talking about a future together while being equally involved in wedding plans, it’s time to turn those plans into something much more permanent.

The Big Day will dawn bright and beautiful when you’re both ready to say “I do,” whether it’s cloudy, raining, snowing, or sunny.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

Yeah?

And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?

So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

Crazy huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…

I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.

And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…

More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…

Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…

Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

WARNING: Unconventional Methods!

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Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Best Ways To Get Her Back Why do Men Cheat

Hi to you all this sunday. Todays article Why do Men Cheat? could perhaps also be the other way around because cheating is unfortunately not only done by men. But this article focus on that side of the problem and how women can deal with it in the best way possible. I think it is one of the hardest thing to forgive and forget when you love someone and it sure hurts really bad. I also think that true love is strong enough to conquer and survive any challenge if we stand side by side when there are difficulties within our relationship.

Love and Light

It’s an ages-old question. In the dawn of man, it was simple. It was a biological imperative. That’s why many religions in those times condoned and even encouraged men to have multiple wives, concubines, and consort. It was to assure survival of the species. We’re talking about a time where one in three children died before the age of one. Science and education have brought about many advances. However, women are still sometimes held hostage by biological clocks in the same way men are sometimes tempted to cheat — even when they are happy with their wives.

What does that mean for you?

It means you should take comfort in these next words. It’s not YOUR fault. No matter what preachers on television, mass media, or people selling gym memberships will try to tell you. He didn’t cheat because you’re not thin enough, beautiful enough, good enough in bed, or even because you don’t keep the house clean enough. Will changing these things make him happy? It’s quite likely that if you become the sexiest woman in the neighborhood and suddenly start cleaning house like Donna Reed he will be pleased with the results. However, doing all these things will not prevent him from cheating.

Think about it. Some of the most beautiful women in the world including former Bond girl Halle Berry, Sandra Bullock, Elin Nordegren, and Reese Witherspoon have all been cheated on by men who love them. It’s not always a matter of not being beautiful enough, rich enough, or anything else.

Does This Men all Men Should Get a Free Pass for Cheating?

Absolutely not! The thing about cheating is that it undermines the trust in the relationship at the most basic level. It’s not acceptable in today’s society where marriages are binding emotional contracts. Cheating, breaks that contract and leaves the wife doubting her beauty, her appeal, and her worthiness. It’s an act that is destructive on far too many levels to excuse.

That doesn’t mean, however, that cheating must be the end of the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. While celebrity couples that go through it often do not recover (largely due to the intense media scrutiny of the most intimate and painful details of their lives), it doesn’t mean that your relationship can’t survive if you’re both willing to work to make it happen.

The truth is that men cheat for all kinds of reasons. Very few of them have anything to do with the way the other woman looks. It’s more about how she acts and how she makes him FEEL. Now is the perfect opportunity to make the time to learn what you can do to make him feel the same way the other woman does.

Together, through the Save The Marriage System , we can save your marriage!  Save The Marriage will give you an understanding of what happened to your marriage, how to save it, and how to start creating the marriage of your dreams. You will benefit from my, nearly, twenty years of working with clients, in person, and literally, thousands of couples in various settings. Don’t expect hundreds of pages that just reiterate what everyone else has already said. Instead, I have made the ideas and information readable and easily understood. No “psycho -babble” here, just the facts, ideas, and actions you need to save your marriage. I will tell you what went wrong, what to do to change it, and how to do it. Starting tonight. . . in fact, in the next 10 minutes, you can start saving your marriage and moving toward the marriage relationship you always dreamed about. Can you imagine how wonderful it feel to, finally, eliminate the fear, anxiety and stress that currently envelopes you. . . and replace it with feelings of love, joy and contentment? You don’t have to imagine it. . . because, with the secrets and strategies you will find with the Save The Marriage System, you will be solidly on the path from marital frustration to marital bliss!

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Monday, May 23, 2016

How Do You Know When to Give Up On Getting Your Ex Back

Welcome to sundays article How Do You Know When to Give Up On Getting Your Ex Back? You really cant know that for shure but this article may give you some good advice. I have been in the situation myself of hoping to long for my ex to be back without any luck. It was that first romance and first love that are so hard to forget about. It is like a battle between your heart and your mind with yourself somewhere in the middle. Love is strong and those bounds last forever even if the physical bounds disappear.

With Love

You’ve been fighting the good fight to get your ex back for a long time now. No matter how hard you try or how long you fight, you just can’t seem to get the result you’re looking for. You know you still love your ex. There’s no doubt about that. But, you’re beginning to wonder if you should just give up. You’re starting to think you should try to move on with your life. How do you know when it’s time to move on?

“Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, ‘It might have been.’” — Kurt Vonnegut.

Sometimes, the best choice is to move on. But, if you’re not ready to make that choice (in your heart, mind, and soul); it’s one that will leave you haunted with questions for as long as you live. You’ll always have this niggling doubt of “what if?” lingering in the back of your mind.

Before you give up on getting your ex back, perhaps it’s time to change your approach.

What have you done to get your ex back?

You say you’ve tried everything and that nothing is working. Have you tried nothing?

I know it sounds completely counterintuitive to do nothing and expect results, but if what you’ve been doing isn’t working and you’re already contemplating giving up, what does it hurt to make it appear as though you have?

The amazing thing about human nature is that we want what we don’t have. As long as you’re trying to get your ex back, your ex knows that he (or she) has you. You’re going to be there if your ex calls and asks for help or just needs a friendly ear — and your ex knows it. Let your ex get a taste of what life is truly like without you in it.

That’s when your ex is going to begin to realize what was lost when the relationship ended. As long as you’re calling, texting, coming by, and lending support in countless other ways, your ex hasn’t lost anything. Your ex hasn’t felt the loss of the relationship because your ex is still receiving the benefits of the relationship.

Make yourself scarce, if not completely absent from your ex’s life and see how long it takes your ex to come to you. Don’t let this time go idly by. Use it wisely to develop a plan of action for what you’re going to do and say when you’re ex does decide to pick up the phone to see how you’re doing. I can help you with that!

There Are NO Impossible Situations

Now, what I have noticed in helping so many folks, is that there are UNDERLYING REASONS and MOTIVES as to why their exes take them back…that lay hidden from sight of most people…

And once you know and UNDERSTAND and are given just a little guidance on what to do and when to do it…it is like being handed “the recipe” for love if you will…

Because not only will you be able to get your ex back, you also will be much better equipped to KEEP THEM long, long into the future…

Isn’t that great news?

Let’s talk about what’s inside The Magic Of Making Up and how it is going to help you:

When You Download You’ll Receive These Virtually Immediate Benefits…

How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up pain and depression…You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)

Do they still care? Discover the TELL TALE clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in their heart…and I don’t care what they say… This is all you need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)

Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)

Do you know the core reason why men leave women? …it is not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED most women can’t answer this question. Men desire this ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and they will be yours FOREVER.(Page 5)

What women crave the most… and if she doesn’t get it…it is only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by unscrupulous Don Juan’s use to steal married women.) (Page 6)

Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to your advantage. (Page 18)

Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the “clean slate” technique in conjunction with one other secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness in the shortest amount of time. (Special Bonus Included)

When to apologize and when you shouldn’t. In the right circumstance just one good apology will land you back in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in your face and hurt your future chances. (Special Bonus Included)

The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into their heart, mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive it may never occur to you. (Page 33)

Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the Clean Slate Method and “breaking the pattern” you can. Quickly and easily.

The Instant Reconnect Technique – I almost didn’t include this one because it may be too potent. It is “psychological judo” and will trick your ex lovers mind into thinking you are still together. This isSUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it. (Page 43)

Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)

The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome). This is relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it, let alone tell you how it is done. Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad. Onceyou own The Magic Of Making Up you will possess the power to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please useresponsibly!

Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation process. Both men and women get this completely wrong. Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly destroy your chances because you sleep with him too soon. (Page 46-48)

What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help put you in balance. Putting your relationship back together is hard enough,make sure you are eating foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)

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Thursday, May 5, 2016

How To Know That Hes Truly In Love With You

Hi and Welcome to mondays article How To Know That Hes Truly In Love With You. One great tips from the article is about talking, i can really relate to that. If you love someone it is almost impossible to stop your converstions. One thing is that you want to know each other but it is also something magical when you share thoughts with the one you love. Many times you also discover you have the same interests or opinions which make  it interesting to conversate. Otherwise i personally dont like to much talking. Enjoy todays article.

With Love

Wouldn’t relationships be so much simpler if you could indulge in just a bit of mind reading when it comes to your man? This is how you could see for sure how he feels about you. Of course, in some cases, it might not be the best idea to know without a doubt what he’s thinking about you and your relationship. Either way, it might be helpful if your dates came with a Magic 8 Ball or Crystal Ball so that you could get a little help to see what they’re thinking.

Sometimes, you just have to make guesses at what your man is thinking. This can be really dicey, especially at the very beginning of the relationship. It’s a time when you’re starting to get to know each other and there are many questions during this stage of a relationship. There ARE some ways you can tell how he’s feeling about you without the use of the supernatural. It’s just a matter of decoding what he says and does. They include:
He smiles at you a lot and not only when he’s trying to get you into bed.
He likes talking to you for a very long time. Men don’t typically like to talk unless they’ve found someone that they really care for.

He likes cuddling with you. When guys don’t love a girl, he’ll refuse to cuddle. On the other hand, when he likes cuddling with you that means something.
He sincerely cares for you. He’s interested in knowing everything about you. He asks about your likes and dislikes, your favorite movies, favorite music, favorite food and things that make you laugh.
He’s always going that extra mile to make you happy. The quirks you have that you think are irritating, he finds awesome. So that means that if you know it’s weird that you can’t ever run out of hand soap or you’re completely addicted to Diet Dr. Pepper, he doesn’t have an issue with that. In fact, he finds it kind of endearing and thinks you’re perfect the way you are.

The chemistry between you is explosive. You think alike and the heat you generate when you’re with each other is pretty combustible.
He loves the time you two spend together. He doesn’t care what you’re doing as long as you’re doing it together.

He gives you what you want even if both of you want your way and it’s totally different. In short, he’s willing to compromise in order to make you happy.
He starts talking to you about plans for the future he wants to have with you.
These are all pretty clear indicators that you’ve landed a keeper and that he feels the same way about you. He understands what he’s got with you and he wants to make sure that he doesn’t blow it. Pay close attention to these signs and you’ll know just how he feels about you. These signs don’t lie and you can depend on them to accurately measure what your guy thinks of you.

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If you’ll take my hand, I’ll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms – Especially if you are the only one trying…

The Secret you need to know to get your lover back! From the man that has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries to get back together again!

 

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