Speak To A Number Of Child Custody Lawyers Before Picking One To Help You

By John Jones

It is never a painless thing whenever a family separates, and family court issues definitely dont make this issue any simpler or more enjoyable. Its embarrassing and upsetting to drag family matters, like custody issues or child support issues, through the court system, but at times this is a necessary evil.

However, when you are dealing with family court issues, you should always look out for yourself. Even if you never thought that your family would require child custody lawyers and child support lawyers, sometimes it is in your best interest to get an attorney to take care of your case.

Although every family wants a peaceful and stress-free separation, sometimes each side is wishing for a different outcome, and an attorney will help you with your case. Child custody lawyers will help you maintain custody of your children during and after a seperation or divorce. You alone are familiar with you and your childrens circumstances and relationship with the other parent, but consider working out appropriate arrangements, with your child custody lawyers assistance, for your child or children to spend time together with their other parent.

It is also suitable in a child custody case for an absent parent to employ a child support lawyer, to take care of child support Houston or anywhere. The courts will most likely still require the absent parent pay child support, but the reason for a child support lawyer is so the absent parent is not treated unfairly. For instance, on many occasions, the "absent parent" may pay a doctors bill or provide the custodial parent a non-court ordered check. The job of the child support lawyer handling child support Houston is to monitor these payments and ensure that the judge in child support court or the custodial parent is giving them credit.

Its always best when a family can handle these sorts of situations as painlessly as possible, and in most situations, employing an attorney is your best bet.

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How To Know If Youre Ready To Get Married

With the approach of that all-important wedding month of June, more and more couples start to contemplate the thought of marriage. This is something that seems to affect more women than men because weddings are events that they love preparing for as well as having all of the attention turned onto them for just that one day. The problem is that too many couples spend so much time planning the wedding that they kind of miss the fact that there’s a marriage to follow.

Other couples may not be sure whether or not that they’re ready to make that trip down the aisle. If you fall into that group, whatever else you may do, you should not get married! While there may be a certain amount of nervousness surrounding a wedding, there should never be abject terror at the thought of becoming legally bound to another person. If you’re straddling that fence, though, and just aren’t sure whether or not you’re ready to get married, there are some questions you can ask yourself that will help you decide if should start making wedding plans or take a step back and re-evaluate your relationship.

First of all, you need to figure out how you feel about living with someone else day in and day out, having to answer to someone else and running things by them before making any decisions. If you’re already living with your intended and it doesn’t bother you, then this is probably not an issue. On the other hand, if you are still maintaining separate residences because you’ve been hesitant to give up all of your freedom and tend to be attached to “your space,” you probably don’t want to commit to living with someone all the time.

Making your own decisions without consulting someone else may be something that you’ve always done. When you get married, you must consider that any decision you may make will affect one other person besides yourself. That just might not be something you’re up for giving in to.

Now, on the other hand, if you adore living with your significant other and love coming home to him every day, chances are good that you’re ready to make that commitment. This is also true of including someone else in your decision making. If you’re already living together and talking over things before decisions are made, you’re probably more than ready to walk down the aisle and make some serious vows to each other.
Simply put, if you love being together to the point that you cannot imagine going through an entire day without seeing each other, then you’re certainly ready for something quite serious. In addition, if the two of you are already making plans together, that’s also a great sign. When you both get excited when talking about a future together while being equally involved in wedding plans, it’s time to turn those plans into something much more permanent.

The Big Day will dawn bright and beautiful when you’re both ready to say “I do,” whether it’s cloudy, raining, snowing, or sunny.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

Yeah?

And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?

So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

Crazy huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…

I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.

And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…

More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…

Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…

Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

WARNING: Unconventional Methods!

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Monday, May 9, 2016

Signs That Your Online Date May Be THE ONE

Greetings this new week with the article Signs That Your Online Date May Be THE ONE. It would be lovely to meet The One some day, the one that you can relate to at all levels of your being and depend on in every situation. I think it is as possible online as it is “offline” and this article will be the first step in that direction.

Have a blessed day

Online dating sites have become a huge business over the last few years for many reasons. Some of these dates that come from online contact have been very successful, even going on to culminate in a marriage while others continue to be one failure after another. Many people start feeling as if they should just give up. But before you do that, consider that there are some ways to tell if your online date might possibly be The One.

First of all, he’s not there one minute and gone the next. People online can be quite good at vanishing. You can be in the middle of a chat with him and he suddenly disappears without a word. There’s no contact for weeks and then he suddenly resurfaces like he just talked to you yesterday. If you’re chatting with someone that keeps up frequent and dependable communication, it’s a good thing. They’re probably not talking to anyone else and they’re ready to find someone that will be important to them.

Next, you both decide that you’re ready to meet at the same time. This means that you’re both on the same page and you’re ready to take that next step. There’s a great chance that, if you agree on when you should meet, you’ll agree on many other things as well.

You both start emailing each other regularly about little things that happen throughout the day. Not only that, but you’re both thrilled to get emails from each other. It kind of makes your day. This is great because the majority of life’s little details aren’t really all that important, yet you both love hearing about them.

Another promising sign is that both of you agree on how long someone should be single following the ending of a relationship. The timing also tells you how happy this person is with his life. A fulfilled person won’t feel it’s necessary to jump right back into a serious relationship, whereas an unhappy person will need to find another relationship as soon as possible.

You can share the serious aspects of your life and find humor in them. So what if your dad can’t seem to keep it in his pants and cheats on your mom constantly, and you have a cousin in jail for robbery? It really has nothing to do with you. Someone that gets that and can actually make you laugh about it is someone you definitely want to know better.

Both of you have the same ideas as to what a partner is. It doesn’t matter if you feel that a partner should be a best friend as well as a lover, as long as you both view it the same way, you should give him a chance. Talk this over a bit so you can be sure you’re on the same page.

Last of all, you both decide at the same time that you can delete those dating profiles because you feel you’ve met The One. This is, possibly, the most important sign of them all. You’ve both reached the decision that you only want to spend time with each other, and what could be more perfect than that?

If you have met your beloved in life but struggle in your relationship or if you miss your ex and want her or him back watch this video below.

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Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Why Should One Hire The Services Of A Divorce Law Firm

By Roberto Sinaez

The conflicts faced within a family, especially those that can cause much pain and emotional distress, can make it difficult for family members to remain objective over legal matters dealt with in family law cases. There are various attorneys who work within a divorce law firm who will help in such cases.

An experienced lawyer not only knows the law in matters of divorce, but is also sensitive to the needs and emotions of family members during this trying time. They are able to, for the most part, handle the cases with genuine care and concern, while seeking the best for their clients.

Professional lawyers are experienced enough to understand their clients. Hence, they make it a point to deal carefully with such cases which are deeply emotional.

Divorce papers may be filed by either of the parties. Services of an experienced attorney, however, are essential in both cases. The attorney needs to be retained till the end of the proceedings.

Legal separation or annulment may form part of divorce. Childrens custody becomes an important issue in such cases. The attorney will argue for the clients rights including legal custody, physical custody, maintenance, and visitation. These issues are ideally finalized in the presence of, and with the help of an experienced attorney.

Many attorneys have websites through which, they offer free counselling in the initial stages. Family law experts are never businesslike, but rather sympathetic and compassionate. Therefore, it is easier to discuss these private issues with them.

Trying to reach a consensus between the spouses is always best. Hasty decisions can lead to huge court costs and the matter getting dragged for ages.

Attorneys will think of the best for the children while helping out the parents in the situation. Most parents would like the child to continue feeling the bond, and also participate in their childs future. The object in such cases is keeping the childs world intact, and simultaneously safeguarding the childs financial interests. In addition to each parents continued presence in the childs life, issues such as child support, visitation, and physical custody will also be determined.

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Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Dating As A Single Mom

As more and more single mothers start re-entering the dating arena, there are some tricky situations to maneuver through. These can be mothers that are either divorced or those that are single because they chose to be. For these women, dating can involve some pretty large hoops to jump through unless you’ve got live in help or a relative that just loves to babysit your kids for you. Actually, babysitting is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to coordinating all of the things that need to be taken care of before you can enjoy a night out on the town with a date. 

However, in spite of all the preparation for a date, single women continue to have a very successful social life that also includes dating. The first thing to remember is that any man who may be around your children at any point in time is someone that you need to be very sure about. You need to be certain that he’s safe and that he doesn’t have any sort of criminal history. It’s also a good idea to find out how he feels about kids before you start dating him. All of these things are very important and should be thoroughly checked into before ever going out on that first date. The last thing you want is to bring someone into your life and that of your children who has a less than stellar background. 

A problem that many single moms face when dating is dealing with a child that doesn’t want to share their mom with someone new. Now, obviously, you don’t want to upset your child that may already be dealing with the fallout from a divorce or death of a father. However, you do need to set some clear boundaries. It’s important for your child to understand that you’re more than just a mom and that you deserve to have some privacy of your own to get out and have some adult fun. You need to explain that you’ll always be there for them, but that there’s also a part of your life that belongs only to you. If all else fails and these problems escalate, you probably want to consider having your child speak with a counselor.

Last, but not least, if it begins to look as if a certain relationship may be heading down a path to something more permanent, start incorporating your child into your dating life. Once you feel that someone may become a serious part of your life, he needs to spend some time with your child so that they can become better acquainted. This needs to be done well ahead of time before making any such serious decisions as moving in together or getting married. If your child and your man get along well, the transition will be so much easier because they will have had time to get to know one another and won’t be strangers.  
As you can see, it’s much simpler to adjust to dating life as a single mom than you may have ever thought it would be. 

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Sunday, April 10, 2016

Should you ever have a one night stand with your ex

To most people a one night stand is like a trophy. Being able to sleep with someone for just one night and then separate without any attachment whatsoever is a tricky task. 

You get to indulge in the finer things in life without having to deal with the complicated process of forming a relationship. But where do you draw the line when it comes to one night stands?

Of all the people you could have a one night stand with, an ex is one of the most complicated. In the heat of the moment you may find yourself about to hook up with someone you thought you were never going to be with again. 

If all goes well, it can be quite the treat. There is always the possibility however, that it will not. To avoid unnecessary drama in your life, there are a few things you should consider before hooking up with an ex, even for "old times sake".

Is Anything Clouding Your Judgement?

This is the first thing you should always ask yourself if you are considering this situation. Hooking up with your ex can lead to a landslide of regret the following morning if you realize its not something you really wanted to do. 

If you are under the influence of any drugs or alcohol your decision making skills take a back seat and impulse and desire take over the wheel. Many impaired people let their clouded judgement take control and forget to think over consequences.

If you know there is a possibility of hooking up with your ex, make sure you have considered it with a completely sober mindset first.

Consider Why You Broke Up To Begin With

It is hard to define whether or not you should have a one night stand with your ex since it is so circumstantial. Certain people have no problem doing it and with others it leads to turmoil.
 Analyze the way your relationship was and think about why it ended. Which one of you wanted to end it? Did you split up on good terms?

If you were the one that wanted to break it off, you should find out whether or not your ex still has feelings for you. They could be expecting something much different to come from the one night stand. 

You dont want to hook up with them if it means you will end up breaking their heart all over again. To solve this issue, make it clear that it is only a one night deal. If you are both mature about it with control of your feelings, it could be fine.

Think About What You Are Looking For

The last thing to do before you hook up with an ex is to find out why you are doing it. Analyze the motives behind your actions before making the big decision.

Do you want to do it purely for the sex? If this is the case than why did you choose your ex? There are plenty of other new experiences laying ahead of you that you could be exploring. 

If you are doing it purely for the comfort of being with someone you know, make sure you keep it strictly physical with minimal emotions.

But perhaps you are doing it for another reason. Is the one night stand motivated by a desire to be with them? If so, then why pick a one night stand? If the desire is strong enough, talk to your ex about your feelings and find out where they stand to see if your feelings match up. 

Just be aware, if they are looking for sex and you are looking for a relationship, you could end up getting hurt. With all this in mind, deciding whether or not to hook up with your ex will be a lot easier. Before you make a final decision, prepare yourself for the fact that one night stands can toy with emotions before making your decision. Analyze the motives of you and your partner and just to be safe, make a set of rules that define the night as a one time thing. 

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Thursday, April 7, 2016

What Does Your Kiss Mean

What Does Your Kiss Mean is obious when you love someone. The most common way to show your love is to kiss your lover. Love talk without words but with actions and feelings. You probably remember that first time when you fell in love and was to shy to show it, when you two finally kissed each other there was magic in the air. That magic is as close now as it was then if you dont forget to kiss each other.

Hugs&Kisses

Kissing has been an act that has been in existence since the beginning of time. A kiss conveys many different meanings depending on the person delivering the kiss and what the intent is. There are kisses given in greeting by way of either air kisses or kisses on the cheek. These same kinds of kisses are also delivered upon parting. Then there are the kisses between relatives such as parents and children, between siblings, and other family members. These fall into another group.

Then, there are, of course, kisses of a romantic nature. It’s these kisses that you need to think about before delivering them to someone because they will have different meanings as well as intensities.
To begin with, there’s the First Date Kiss. This one is a kiss that you give someone you’re going out with for the first time. It’s usually given at the end of the evening but it can also happen at other times during the date. A kiss granted on the first date can show that you really like this person and had a great time. It also conveys that you would love another date.

Next, there’s the Make Out Kiss. These are the kisses that get really hot and heavy while sitting on your sofa, or wherever you’ve started the make out session. These kisses don’t have to lead up to a Happy Ending, but they definitely hold more promises than the First Date Kiss. Make Out Kisses can go on for many delicious hours. These are usually more popular with women than men because the men tend to use kissing as the means to an end.
Finally, there’s the Happy Ending Kiss. This is the most serious kiss of all because of the destination it promises. Happy Ending Kisses are deep and tongue involved. They can also become almost devouring as they heat up and build to the most passionate of encounters.

There are some occasions where all three of these kiss types happen in the same day. The First Date Kiss can lead into the Make Out Kiss, which is then followed with the Happy Ending Kiss. However, this is usually not recommended as you could easily end up with having no more kisses with that guy afterward.
What you need to convey to your date or the person you’re going to be kissing is which of these kisses you’re giving. Men may not always read signals very well because most of them only want the kiss to end one way, but if you make up your mind which kiss you’re giving, you can be sure that you leave no doubt as to where it will lead, or won’t lead, and what it means. It’s very important that you know which kiss you’re going to choose ahead of time. In that way, you can keep from giving the wrong impression and being accused of teasing because the way you choose to give your kiss will leave no doubt as to what your intentions are.

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Friday, April 1, 2016

10 Ways to Embrace Square One

You’re moving along on the relationship game board, fairly well into the game, when all of a sudden you’re thrown back to square one: the relationship is over. Regardless of who is to blame, it’s done. 
The dust has settled, all of the “You left this at my house” items have been returned (or trashed depending on how the breakup went) and you are left sitting alone. 

Knowing how to move forward in your life and how to navigate the minefield of starting a new relationship isn’t always obvious, especially when you’re mid-breakup. 

If you’re in a wonderful relationship that is going to last forever, keep these tips for your poor friends who will most likely need it at some point. Plus, then you’ll have it in case you ever need it. Not that you will. But, in case.

1. Let it go. Not just the catchy tune from an animated movie, these three little words can save you a world of hurt. Let go of the relationship and free yourself from its clutches. 

If you were the “breakee”, don’t go and beg the “breaker” to take you back. Rarely does this work, and if it did, the resulting second breakup is just worse somehow. Accept the reality and start to heal. 

2. Make peace. It is ok to have a tidal wave of emotions, and you will have them for a while. That’s ok! Give yourself permission to use all of your feelings – just don’t give yourself permission to act on them. Getting angry at the “breaker”? No problem. Smashing all the windows in breaker’s car? Not a good idea. 

3. Do something. Now is a great time to try something new. Always wanted to learn how to line dance? Take a class. Go on a weekend cruise with a couple of friends. Hike through the mountains.

10 Ways to Embrace Square One

4. Career boost. Pour yourself into your work. Offer to take on an extra project, or take a class or certification course that will help you advance in your workplace. Success at work will make you feel better about yourself, and will help your career advance. 

5. Get chatty. It’s not a good idea to discuss every detail of your sordid breakup story with everyone. (Plus, the cashier at the grocery didn’t want that much information when she asked “How are you today?”). 

Call up a trusted friend or schedule a counselling session with a trained professional to talk about your feelings and pain. Airing your emotions will help you recover from the breakup faster. 

6. Stay single. Often, the idea of being alone makes the breakup feel even worse, so women will rush into a new relationship to help ease the pain. Take some time to do a little soul-searching, and to evaluate what you are looking for in a relationship before jumping back into the dating world. 

7. Say no. Drowning your sorrows can seem like a very good idea when the pain of a breakup is still raw. Using drugs or alcohol as a way to forget your breakup or to dull the pain of losing your relationship seems like a good idea at the time. 

The long term consequences aren’t worth the few hours of forgetting. Hangovers, addiction and embarrassing behavior can all be the results of binge drinking. (Bitter, drunken woman doing karaoke is never good. Remember this.)

Square one is never a fun place to be, but eventually you’ll be ready to start the game again – just make sure you’re ready first. 

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Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Guide to a Successful Relationship

If you’ve ever been through a breakup or divorce, you may be a little gun-shy about your next serious relationship. You’re suddenly second guessing yourself and every decision that you make. It can be exhausting and a little (lot) frightening to consider starting over with someone new. 

What if the same things happen? What if the problems your last relationship had were all your fault and you bring them to the new relationship? What can you do to start your new relationship off on the right foot? Are there any strategies that you can use to help your new, fledgling relationship find its way towards lasting romance?

If you want to help your relationship start (and stay) strong, here are some Dos and Don’ts to get you going.

Do

Make new friends (but keep the old). The Girl Scouts have it right – you need to keep your girls around. Just because you have a new relationship in your life, you don’t have to get rid of your old friendships. Friends add color, stability and flavor to your life. Maintain your relationships with your friends – even after you and your guy are an established couple. 

Guide to a Successful Relationship

Encourage your new guy to keep his friendships as well. Plan some activities that you can do with each other’s friends and begin to make friends that are new to you both as well. Having friendships outside the relationship is a healthy way to make sure you aren’t solely relying on your partner for your emotional needs. 

Stay true to yourself. Changing who you are and the things that make you unique just to please your partner is one of the worst things you can do. Not only will it lead to resentment (yours) and anger (his), you’re changing the person that your man fell in love with. He loved you for who you were - you shouldn’t have to change to keep that love. 

Don’t

Lying to your partner is a surefire way to erode the trust in your relationship. Even lying by omission is harmful and should be avoided. Sometimes you have to say things that you know will hurt the other person, so you want to lie to spare them the pain. Don’t. Just use the ‘rip the bandaid’ off mentality and tell them the whole, ugly truth. The pain may be sharp, but it will fade. The pain of lying has long term consequences. 

Talking about problems with your relationship with someone of the opposite sex is another big no-no. When you use another man’s shoulder to cry on, sometimes you start to develop an attraction for those big, strong shoulders that so easily carry the weight of your burdens. Stay away from this situation by keeping your mouth closed – and only cry on your girlfriend’s shoulders. 

Using another person to make your partner jealous is not only juvenile, it’s dangerous. Manipulating your partner’s emotions may get you the attention you want, but the result may be a breakup. 
There is no guarantee about relationships. You can only do your part to be the best partner possible and choose someone who feels the same way. Your next relationship can be wonderful!

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Monday, March 14, 2016

How To Know Hes Not The One

There may be times when you’re in a relationship that the guy is just so perfect that you really want it to work out between the two of you. The only problem is that there just seems to be something missing and you can’t quite put your finger on it. If this sounds like you, it may come as a relief to know that there are ways to tell whether or not the guy you’re with is the one for you.

One of the first signs is that you kind of bypass the honeymoon phase of the relationship. This is the part where, in the beginning, you live to see each other. You spend the time you’re not together talking on the telephone or computer. Butterflies are something that you should have, especially in the beginning, and if you don’t feel that at all, you may be mistaking comfort for love.

Another thing you may want to consider is how long your conversations are with each other. If you have pretty short chats because you want to, then there’s something wrong. Couples that are really into each other can’t talk enough. They enjoy having stimulating conversations. Many times, they never want to hang up the phone if that’s how they’re chatting.

Unless you’ve both got high powered careers or you live miles away from each other, there should be the desire to spend plenty of quality time together. If you’re choosing not to spend much time together in person, instead favoring telephone communication or chatting online, you should rethink things. All couples that really care about each other want to spend time together in person rather than just chatting on the phone or online. Something definitely isn’t quite right when don’t want to be together at least some of the time.

If he forgets important information and/or dates, he’s probably not really that into you. Granted, some men just seem to have memories like sieves. They can’t remember what day of the week it is let alone things like your birthday or anniversary. On the other hand, if a man really doesn’t care that much about you, then what you’ve got going on in your life isn’t going to be overly important to them. If this is true of your guy, he’s probably not the right one for you.

A really telling fact that your relationship isn’t meant to be is that you haven’t discussed your future as a couple. This is true whether it’s you that hasn’t brought it up, or he hasn’t. If the subject doesn’t come up ever, then it’s probably not going to last.

One last thing to consider is that if he’s never around when you really need him, chances are he’s not going to be around at all for that much longer. Couples are supposed to be able to turn to one another when they’re having a great day or a bad one. It doesn’t matter which it is, but when you really care about someone, you’re going to ask the questions and be there for the answers. People that don’t care that much won’t be checking to see what’s going on in the lives of each other.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

Yeah?

And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?

So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

Crazy huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…

I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.

And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…

More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…

Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…

Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

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