Sometimes You Have To Leave To Be Happy

While more and more families are supporting their gay members, there are still quite a few that just refuse to accept the lifestyle that their relatives are involved in. Ignorance abounds when it comes to the many blows that are dealt to gay members of society. Most people still feel that being gay is something that is chosen, and they refuse to accept the reality that the majority of gay people were simply born that way, just as straight people are. Lately, a rather prominent actress stated publically that she “chose” to be gay, which isn’t helping the plight of kids that need to come out to their parents. However, there’s another option for many gay people that don’t get the support and acceptance they need. It’s rather simple, really. They find a great place to relocate to.

That’s right. These people that have failed to receive the love, support and acceptance from the ones that are SUPPOSED to be offering those things have chosen, instead, to seek out other areas where they may be able to find what they need as well as happiness. For instance, a young man living in a small southern town in the Bible Belt finally comes out to his parents only to be thrown out of the house right around the holidays. On top of that, they refuse to continue paying for his college tuition unless he renounces being gay. So he lives with various friends for a couple of years, supporting himself by working as a cook, and finally decides to just pick a destination and buy a bus ticket. His destination lands way on the other side of the country. However, as soon as he steps off the bus, he’s welcomed into the home of some online gay friends. Within six months, he’s not only got a great home, but a good job AND is involved with the young man of his dreams.

That’s a true story, by the way. He was sad to leave his friends behind but finally understood that the only way his life was going to move forward in a better direction was for him to make the necessary changes. Once he committed to doing that, everything turned around. His new partner’s family has embraced him and he’s happier than he’s ever been in his life. He would never have found all of that if he had remained where he was simply stomping his feet in a mud puddle.

It’s not easy to so drastically change your way of life. On the other hand, it could be one of the best decisions and moves you’ve ever made in your life. This is especially true if the city you choose to make your new home is “gay friendly.” There will be many other like-minded people just waiting to meet you and help to welcome you into your new life. When you’re in a place where you’re accepted and can be proud of the person you are, you’ll have found the type of peace that you’ve never enjoyed before.

If it´s the other way around and you need to stay and get ex back to be happy read the following letter that i got from my friend:

Hi,

T Dub here...

I get more email on a Sunday from good guys and

gals trying to fix a relationship than any other day.

Why?

Because Saturday nights are what I call "drama night".

Its a night of high drama for so many trying

to put the pieces back together in a relationship.

With that in mind...

This is darn good advice.

==>1 Thing you can do TONIGHT to re-attract your ex

...WITHOUT all the drama.

Theres more...

Pay special attention to the common mistakes which (almost) always push

your ex away. (most of them are made on a Saturday night)

==>Are you making one or more of these mistakes?

If you are...

Its okay.

You can "reverse" most of them...

==>Watch Here

Rooting for you

T Dub

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Sometimes You Just Have To Move On

Tuesdays article Sometimes You Just Have To Move On has some ideas about the ending of a relationship. Although it may be the end of your life toghether it is not the end of your own life. First and foremost there may be a chance to make up instead of break up when the smoke has settled. If not you will recover with help from supportive friends and relatives. Don´t just take all the blame on yourself for the breakup, remember it takes two to build a sustainable relationship with love and honesty. I hope todays article will help to heal your bleeding heart! I also urge you to take a look at the magic of making up which has helped over 50 000 people from 77 countries to get back together or to mend a broken heart.

Light&Love

Dick Scott

When the breakup of a relationship happens and you not only didn’t want it to happen, but you never saw it coming, you may spend a lot of time trying to figure out what went wrong. A huge part of this thinking is done because you want so much to have your ex back in your life. You want to fix things so that your relationship will be back on track and thriving again.

To begin with, trying to figure out what happened if you truly don’t know is a great way to start the healing process. It’s certainly an important one because you may absolutely have no idea what ended your relationship. You may have thought that everything was going along swimmingly and had no clue that there was anything out of whack. At least, you didn’t know until the day that your ex came to you and said he was leaving. Could you have really been so oblivious to any problems in the relationship that it was like being hit with a baseball bat that you never saw coming? It’s very possible for that to happen. In fact, it happens a lot and you shouldn’t feel badly if you fall into this category.

It’s important, though, that you learn to become more cognizant so that your next relationship doesn’t suffer the same consequences. If you were so caught up in such things as work or hobbies, you probably didn’t know that your partner was unhappy and feeling neglected. Of course, the smart thing would have been for him to approach you about this to see if it could be worked out. However, what probably happened is that he went searching for someone that was more willing to pay more attention to him than you were.

The next thing you may want to focus on is how to get him back. While it’s true that, in many instances, a relationship can be resurrected, it’s also true that many of them stay broken. If you’re positive that you want your ex back, there are things you can do to see if he will come back to you. On the other hand, if he’s already dating someone else, chances are slim that he’s going to return. In this case, the best thing you can do for yourself is to learn from your mistakes and don’t repeat them in the future.

Sometimes, it’s just better to move on with your life and not look back wishing and wondering what could have been. Once something has passed through your life and exited on the other side, it’s usually smart to simply take the knowledge the experience imparted to you and file it away so that you don’t make those same errors in the future. You’ll have time to figure out what’s really important to you and that’s going to help keep your next relationship intact. Deal with your pain, heal, and move forward. That’s the way to build a positive future relationship.

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Sometimes It Really Is Just About Sex as physical attraction is a big part of a relation and what often is the initial feeling. Nowadays i think more and more people really are aware of that a solid relation should be on all different levels of our beings and not just on the physical plane. On the other hand is the physical attraction the fuel that keep the fire burning when we agree in other levels as well. I hope you will get inspiration from this article to improve your relationship on all levels.

Have A Great Weekend

Many times when two people meet, there’s an almost palpable chemistry between them that anyone else in the room can also feel it. This is a sensation that’s almost impossible to ignore. It’s all totally physical at that moment. You look at each other and all you really want to do is start tearing off your clothes. This is a feeling that can hit before you even know each other’s names.

Lots of times these couples just leap into bed, or the back seat of a car, or the nearest public restroom. They give into the instant gratification and don’t bother to say much more than Hello. This is very often a mistake because they’re not on the fast track to anything other than a lot of “one night stands.” They have nothing in common and they don’t wait long enough to find that out. Instead, they give into those physical urges and soon find themselves in a somewhat empty relationship.

If you manage to stay together at least a couple of months, you’ll find that the only time you’re not fighting is when you’re having sex. You may also find that you have sex just to keep from fighting. Having sex may be a way to cure the boredom between the two of you. There’s not a lot more to your connection than the physical one.

You start to wonder how this can happen. Oddly enough, sometimes it really is just about sex. Hormones can wreak all sorts of havoc with your body and an unexplainable attraction is one of the ways that happens. Sometimes it’s all you can do to resist this attraction. So, in many cases, you don’t resist. The only thing is that it doesn’t take away the lust after just one time.

As to whether or not you should walk away from a situation like this, it depends on what sort of person you are. If you’re capable of an unemotional attachment such as this, go for it. You’ll be able to take whatever good things you can from it and then move on. On the other hand, if you’re more of an emotional or sensitive type, you might want to stay away from an attachment such as this. Your emotions will get all tangled up with your physical attraction which means that you’ll keep getting your feelings hurt. Also, you won’t understand why nothing about this relationship is working except for the sex.

Many times, unfortunately, people that are attached to others will experience these sexual connections. This is difficult because if this happens to you, it will start to confuse you about the relationship that you’re already in. The best way to resist the temptation is to understand you may find yourself attracted to others but that doesn’t mean you’re not still in love with your partner.
You just need to learn how to understand what’s happening to you if you do meet someone that sends an inner flame from your toes to the top of your head. Understanding will help you to move on from it without any mistakes made. The ultimate relationship guide for improvment or getting your ex back is here to help you if neede.

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Works For Long Distance Relationships Too…

Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in …By now, I had the strength to actually “sleep on it” and sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.
Thanks again,
Denise

Dating Again!

Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic… i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can’t believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier. I’m still going to take things slowly with my ex (I’m not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can’t believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.
Alice

Ex POPS The Question…

…just an email to say thanks for all the support and knowledge. my boyfriend has just proposed. we are the happiest we have ever been. wedding booked for 2011.

many thanks,
Jenna

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Talking Again…

Just wanted to say THANKS!!

Me and my ex are talking now. The letter thing worked, even though I thought it wouldn’t….

-Delois

Best Money Ever Spent…

You are the best!!! After one day, again one day, my changed attitude had my ex calling and wanting to see me. I won’t take his calls but this showed me that the changes you showed me, worked…you have helped me more than you will ever know…

Thanks and keep up the good work. Best money I ever spent!!!

Melissa

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Casey gets his girl back!

I have good news, my ex did get back with me! She said to me the guy she went out with before was a cover up and she was lying to herself the whole time. Thanks for the support.

Casey

Married Again…

got him back we were married again on the 25th of January ….

Linda

Not A Scam…

I am beside myself that something actually came of this…
I was SO skeptical putting in $39 to an e-book. I was positive it would be a waste of money, and there wouldn’t even be a book as promised.
PLEASE make it clear somewhere on your page that this is NOT A SCAM and that there are 62 PAGES FOR THIS BOOK, PLUS BONUSES.
I was beside myself.
Thank you so much…
Sara

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Things Women Really Love from their Men

I hope you are having a lovely weekend, here in Sweden it is snowing and the winter is really here which make´s cosy evenings with candle lights perfect. Things Women Really Love from their Men are those small signs of love as described in the article. A foot massage could really be appreciated of most women after a stressful day, it also gives a romantic feeling to each other.You really dont have to catch the moon to make her happy. 

With Love

Relationships are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times exceptional and brief.

Doing this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.

Small Tokens of Affection

No, you don’t have to break the break. We’re not talking about tokens along the lines of Ertha Kitt’s infamous Christmas list.

The big gifts in life might light a fire in the eyes of the woman you love. But, it’s the little things that melt her heart and bind her to you in ways no sable coats ever will.

Cuddle Time

Women like to cuddle. Not as a form of foreplay, but simply as a sign of affection. Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, and laying with her feet (or head) in your lap are perfect.

They are all signs of casual intimacy and love that MATTER to her in a really big way. It’s a small gesture on your part that carrier massive weight in her heart.

Hearing those Three Magic Words

You know what they are. You’ve probably said them to her dozens of times. You’ve probably not said them to her even more. The thing is, she NEEDS to hear them.

Those words mean the world to her because they reinforce her position in YOUR world. Tell her “I love you!” and watch how her face just lights up at the reminder.

Your Approval

The other thing your woman needs from you more than you’ll ever know or understand is your approval. Give it to her.

Tell her she looks great tonight. Even if she “dismisses” it with something along the lines of a questioning “This old thing,” she is secretly tickled and extremely pleased to hear it.

She works hard to look good for you, prepare good food for you to eat, and keep your house in great shape. Acknowledge her efforts and you’ll be rewarded with a very happy girlfriend, wife, or partner on your hands.

Being Asked on a Date

When was the last time you threw caution to the wind and asked her out on a date? Not asking her, “Do you wanna go do something?” But, asking her on an actual date. A date you’ve planned out ahead of time?

Have you ever done this?

If not, now is the time. It will rock her world and melt her heart even more. Try it! You’re going to love the results!

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How To Know That Hes Truly In Love With You

Hi and Welcome to mondays article How To Know That Hes Truly In Love With You. One great tips from the article is about talking, i can really relate to that. If you love someone it is almost impossible to stop your converstions. One thing is that you want to know each other but it is also something magical when you share thoughts with the one you love. Many times you also discover you have the same interests or opinions which make  it interesting to conversate. Otherwise i personally dont like to much talking. Enjoy todays article.

With Love

Wouldn’t relationships be so much simpler if you could indulge in just a bit of mind reading when it comes to your man? This is how you could see for sure how he feels about you. Of course, in some cases, it might not be the best idea to know without a doubt what he’s thinking about you and your relationship. Either way, it might be helpful if your dates came with a Magic 8 Ball or Crystal Ball so that you could get a little help to see what they’re thinking.

Sometimes, you just have to make guesses at what your man is thinking. This can be really dicey, especially at the very beginning of the relationship. It’s a time when you’re starting to get to know each other and there are many questions during this stage of a relationship. There ARE some ways you can tell how he’s feeling about you without the use of the supernatural. It’s just a matter of decoding what he says and does. They include:
He smiles at you a lot and not only when he’s trying to get you into bed.
He likes talking to you for a very long time. Men don’t typically like to talk unless they’ve found someone that they really care for.

He likes cuddling with you. When guys don’t love a girl, he’ll refuse to cuddle. On the other hand, when he likes cuddling with you that means something.
He sincerely cares for you. He’s interested in knowing everything about you. He asks about your likes and dislikes, your favorite movies, favorite music, favorite food and things that make you laugh.
He’s always going that extra mile to make you happy. The quirks you have that you think are irritating, he finds awesome. So that means that if you know it’s weird that you can’t ever run out of hand soap or you’re completely addicted to Diet Dr. Pepper, he doesn’t have an issue with that. In fact, he finds it kind of endearing and thinks you’re perfect the way you are.

The chemistry between you is explosive. You think alike and the heat you generate when you’re with each other is pretty combustible.
He loves the time you two spend together. He doesn’t care what you’re doing as long as you’re doing it together.

He gives you what you want even if both of you want your way and it’s totally different. In short, he’s willing to compromise in order to make you happy.
He starts talking to you about plans for the future he wants to have with you.
These are all pretty clear indicators that you’ve landed a keeper and that he feels the same way about you. He understands what he’s got with you and he wants to make sure that he doesn’t blow it. Pay close attention to these signs and you’ll know just how he feels about you. These signs don’t lie and you can depend on them to accurately measure what your guy thinks of you.

NEW! Now You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection…Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless!

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How To Know Hes Not The One

There may be times when you’re in a relationship that the guy is just so perfect that you really want it to work out between the two of you. The only problem is that there just seems to be something missing and you can’t quite put your finger on it. If this sounds like you, it may come as a relief to know that there are ways to tell whether or not the guy you’re with is the one for you.

One of the first signs is that you kind of bypass the honeymoon phase of the relationship. This is the part where, in the beginning, you live to see each other. You spend the time you’re not together talking on the telephone or computer. Butterflies are something that you should have, especially in the beginning, and if you don’t feel that at all, you may be mistaking comfort for love.

Another thing you may want to consider is how long your conversations are with each other. If you have pretty short chats because you want to, then there’s something wrong. Couples that are really into each other can’t talk enough. They enjoy having stimulating conversations. Many times, they never want to hang up the phone if that’s how they’re chatting.

Unless you’ve both got high powered careers or you live miles away from each other, there should be the desire to spend plenty of quality time together. If you’re choosing not to spend much time together in person, instead favoring telephone communication or chatting online, you should rethink things. All couples that really care about each other want to spend time together in person rather than just chatting on the phone or online. Something definitely isn’t quite right when don’t want to be together at least some of the time.

If he forgets important information and/or dates, he’s probably not really that into you. Granted, some men just seem to have memories like sieves. They can’t remember what day of the week it is let alone things like your birthday or anniversary. On the other hand, if a man really doesn’t care that much about you, then what you’ve got going on in your life isn’t going to be overly important to them. If this is true of your guy, he’s probably not the right one for you.

A really telling fact that your relationship isn’t meant to be is that you haven’t discussed your future as a couple. This is true whether it’s you that hasn’t brought it up, or he hasn’t. If the subject doesn’t come up ever, then it’s probably not going to last.

One last thing to consider is that if he’s never around when you really need him, chances are he’s not going to be around at all for that much longer. Couples are supposed to be able to turn to one another when they’re having a great day or a bad one. It doesn’t matter which it is, but when you really care about someone, you’re going to ask the questions and be there for the answers. People that don’t care that much won’t be checking to see what’s going on in the lives of each other.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

Yeah?

And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?

So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

Crazy huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…

I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.

And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…

More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…

Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…

Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

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