Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship

I Hope you are having a lovely friday. Todays article Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship will help you understand yourself and your intentions regarding relationships. It is not always easy to do the right thing and what seems to be right in the beginning could end up totally different. How we feel and think about ourselves also has a great impact on our relations with others.

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Many people are so busy focusing on finding someone to be in a relationship with that they miss the fact that they’re not actually ready to be involved with anyone right then. It may seem that anyone would realize that they don’t really want to be involved with someone, but that’s not always true. There may, instead, be a craving of sorts to have someone in your life and someone that you can share things with. That’s not, however, the same thing as being ready to be in a relationship.

One sign that you’re not ready for a relationship is in the guys that you keep being drawn to. Time after time, the guy you’re attracted to is in no way the one that you need to be with. Even though you’re warned that he’s a huge player or a loser, it doesn’t stop you from latching onto him. It also doesn’t take very long to realize that you’ve made a big mistake.

If you must have a man in your life in order to feel happy, that’s another sign that you’re not ready to be involved in a relationship. When you’re invited to a social event, unless you have a date to escort you, it’s likely that you’ll make up an excuse to not attend. This is never a good reason to jump into a relationship. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself first.

Some women feel they’re saviors and will look for a guy that can be their project. What this translates to is that they need drama in their lives so they find someone that’s so dysfunctional that it will keep them quite occupied in saving him. Being a therapist isn’t the same thing as being a girlfriend.
On the flip side of that, you want someone to save you. If you’re constantly talking about what a mess your life is in, you need to fix all of that before you’re ready for a real relationship. What you’ll most likely do is attract a man with all of your same issues so that neither of you can get better.

You feel you need a man to “complete” you. While this sounds great in a movie or in a book, reality is a bit different. There should be no completing. In fact, you might consider looking for a guy that will complement you. That makes you look a lot less needy.
If you’re spending more time looking for love than enjoying the interests you have, you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Granted, you do need to be out there in social situations if you ever plan to meet the right guy, but don’t plan all of your outings around The Hunt. It’s not normal.
Deal with any leftover emotional baggage that you may have before jumping into a new relationship. That’s also known as the rebound effect and is rarely successful. Another man isn’t necessarily going to take your mind off of your ex.

Last, but not least, if you feel you can’t be yourself around a new man, then keep looking. There’s no need to turn yourself inside out to make sure you’re exactly what he wants. Be more concerned about whether or not he’s what you want, instead. If you are struggling with your relationsip or with mending a broken heart i suggest Dr. Love himself Mr. T W Jackson who is the creator of the magic of making up which has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries with their relationship problems.

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Best Ways To Get Her Back Why do Men Cheat

Hi to you all this sunday. Todays article Why do Men Cheat? could perhaps also be the other way around because cheating is unfortunately not only done by men. But this article focus on that side of the problem and how women can deal with it in the best way possible. I think it is one of the hardest thing to forgive and forget when you love someone and it sure hurts really bad. I also think that true love is strong enough to conquer and survive any challenge if we stand side by side when there are difficulties within our relationship.

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It’s an ages-old question. In the dawn of man, it was simple. It was a biological imperative. That’s why many religions in those times condoned and even encouraged men to have multiple wives, concubines, and consort. It was to assure survival of the species. We’re talking about a time where one in three children died before the age of one. Science and education have brought about many advances. However, women are still sometimes held hostage by biological clocks in the same way men are sometimes tempted to cheat — even when they are happy with their wives.

What does that mean for you?

It means you should take comfort in these next words. It’s not YOUR fault. No matter what preachers on television, mass media, or people selling gym memberships will try to tell you. He didn’t cheat because you’re not thin enough, beautiful enough, good enough in bed, or even because you don’t keep the house clean enough. Will changing these things make him happy? It’s quite likely that if you become the sexiest woman in the neighborhood and suddenly start cleaning house like Donna Reed he will be pleased with the results. However, doing all these things will not prevent him from cheating.

Think about it. Some of the most beautiful women in the world including former Bond girl Halle Berry, Sandra Bullock, Elin Nordegren, and Reese Witherspoon have all been cheated on by men who love them. It’s not always a matter of not being beautiful enough, rich enough, or anything else.

Does This Men all Men Should Get a Free Pass for Cheating?

Absolutely not! The thing about cheating is that it undermines the trust in the relationship at the most basic level. It’s not acceptable in today’s society where marriages are binding emotional contracts. Cheating, breaks that contract and leaves the wife doubting her beauty, her appeal, and her worthiness. It’s an act that is destructive on far too many levels to excuse.

That doesn’t mean, however, that cheating must be the end of the relationship. Nothing could be further from the truth. While celebrity couples that go through it often do not recover (largely due to the intense media scrutiny of the most intimate and painful details of their lives), it doesn’t mean that your relationship can’t survive if you’re both willing to work to make it happen.

The truth is that men cheat for all kinds of reasons. Very few of them have anything to do with the way the other woman looks. It’s more about how she acts and how she makes him FEEL. Now is the perfect opportunity to make the time to learn what you can do to make him feel the same way the other woman does.

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Why do men leave relationships

A new week with new possibilities. Todays article Why do men leave relationships? is also the other way around in my opinion. Because some of the reasons applies to both men and women. I started thinking of one thing related to the headline: some men and women do leave the relationship while still in it by not being present mentally and emotionally and that is even worse.  So be there for eachother in mind heart and soul while you still are together. 

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After a breakup, women are often left emotionally shattered and heartbroken because they simply do not understand why the man they had been dating could just leave. To get a better understanding of why men leave relationships, take the following reasons into consideration.

- Communication: Proper and healthy communication is essential to any successful relationship. It is important to keep in mind that communication isn’t just small talk at the end of the day, it is how the two of you interact, which even includes nonverbal communication.

Many men choose to leave a relationship because they feel there is no good, quality communication. A lack of communication or its poor quality can leave a man feeling a bit of discomfort. He may feel like the two of you no longer share much affection. Men need solid communication both verbal and nonverbal to remain satisfied in their relationship.

- Conversations and Interests: When a relationship first begins, the two of you are in the exciting phase of just getting to know each other. You begin to learn some of the small details about one another and that slowly evolves into a relationship.

But the truth of that matter is that these beginning butterflies that men feel during the kick off of a relationship usually go away as time proceeds. Most of the time it is nothing personal, it’s just the way he feels.

To keep this from happening women should not spill their whole life story right away – they should keep him intrigued by slowing letting them into their lives.

Interests are also important to men. If a woman does not share his same interests or shows no care in the world about his, that can be a major turn off for them.

Women should not be afraid to try new things, even if it means hopping on his surfboard or playing a couple hours of video games. A little bit of passion and interest goes a long way during a relationship.

- Friendship: Men like to feel as if their girlfriend is just that – their girlfriend. A certain chemistry occurs when a man likes a girl but sometimes that chemistry does not happen, so he may like her, but strictly as a friend, nothing intimate. If men look at their girlfriend more along the lines of a ‘football buddy’ or just a friend, he may begin to look for a way out.

- Trust: Men need to feel as if they are trusted and they need to be able to trust who they are dating. If he feels he can not trust his girlfriend, or the other way around, there is no way the relationship is going to work out. After all, most successful relationships are built on the foundation of trust.

- Praise: Men like attention, especially from their girlfriends. Simple and small forms of attention such as the touch of their upper arm or a sprinkling of compliments here and there shows a man that their girlfriend cares.

If they are not getting the praise or attention they need, they may feel unappreciated which could lead to feelings of frustration and overall disappointment in a relationship.

- Suffocation: Sometimes men leave a relationship simply because they feel suffocated. No man appreciates a girlfriend who is texting them every second of the day and bombarding them everywhere they go – Remember, men need space. Don’t forget to give him some. Watch this video by clicking on the banner below and you will get even more tips.

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Sometimes It Really Is Just About Sex as physical attraction is a big part of a relation and what often is the initial feeling. Nowadays i think more and more people really are aware of that a solid relation should be on all different levels of our beings and not just on the physical plane. On the other hand is the physical attraction the fuel that keep the fire burning when we agree in other levels as well. I hope you will get inspiration from this article to improve your relationship on all levels.

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Many times when two people meet, there’s an almost palpable chemistry between them that anyone else in the room can also feel it. This is a sensation that’s almost impossible to ignore. It’s all totally physical at that moment. You look at each other and all you really want to do is start tearing off your clothes. This is a feeling that can hit before you even know each other’s names.

Lots of times these couples just leap into bed, or the back seat of a car, or the nearest public restroom. They give into the instant gratification and don’t bother to say much more than Hello. This is very often a mistake because they’re not on the fast track to anything other than a lot of “one night stands.” They have nothing in common and they don’t wait long enough to find that out. Instead, they give into those physical urges and soon find themselves in a somewhat empty relationship.

If you manage to stay together at least a couple of months, you’ll find that the only time you’re not fighting is when you’re having sex. You may also find that you have sex just to keep from fighting. Having sex may be a way to cure the boredom between the two of you. There’s not a lot more to your connection than the physical one.

You start to wonder how this can happen. Oddly enough, sometimes it really is just about sex. Hormones can wreak all sorts of havoc with your body and an unexplainable attraction is one of the ways that happens. Sometimes it’s all you can do to resist this attraction. So, in many cases, you don’t resist. The only thing is that it doesn’t take away the lust after just one time.

As to whether or not you should walk away from a situation like this, it depends on what sort of person you are. If you’re capable of an unemotional attachment such as this, go for it. You’ll be able to take whatever good things you can from it and then move on. On the other hand, if you’re more of an emotional or sensitive type, you might want to stay away from an attachment such as this. Your emotions will get all tangled up with your physical attraction which means that you’ll keep getting your feelings hurt. Also, you won’t understand why nothing about this relationship is working except for the sex.

Many times, unfortunately, people that are attached to others will experience these sexual connections. This is difficult because if this happens to you, it will start to confuse you about the relationship that you’re already in. The best way to resist the temptation is to understand you may find yourself attracted to others but that doesn’t mean you’re not still in love with your partner.
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Things Women Really Love from their Men

I hope you are having a lovely weekend, here in Sweden it is snowing and the winter is really here which make´s cosy evenings with candle lights perfect. Things Women Really Love from their Men are those small signs of love as described in the article. A foot massage could really be appreciated of most women after a stressful day, it also gives a romantic feeling to each other.You really dont have to catch the moon to make her happy. 

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Relationships are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times exceptional and brief.

Doing this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.

Small Tokens of Affection

No, you don’t have to break the break. We’re not talking about tokens along the lines of Ertha Kitt’s infamous Christmas list.

The big gifts in life might light a fire in the eyes of the woman you love. But, it’s the little things that melt her heart and bind her to you in ways no sable coats ever will.

Cuddle Time

Women like to cuddle. Not as a form of foreplay, but simply as a sign of affection. Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, and laying with her feet (or head) in your lap are perfect.

They are all signs of casual intimacy and love that MATTER to her in a really big way. It’s a small gesture on your part that carrier massive weight in her heart.

Hearing those Three Magic Words

You know what they are. You’ve probably said them to her dozens of times. You’ve probably not said them to her even more. The thing is, she NEEDS to hear them.

Those words mean the world to her because they reinforce her position in YOUR world. Tell her “I love you!” and watch how her face just lights up at the reminder.

Your Approval

The other thing your woman needs from you more than you’ll ever know or understand is your approval. Give it to her.

Tell her she looks great tonight. Even if she “dismisses” it with something along the lines of a questioning “This old thing,” she is secretly tickled and extremely pleased to hear it.

She works hard to look good for you, prepare good food for you to eat, and keep your house in great shape. Acknowledge her efforts and you’ll be rewarded with a very happy girlfriend, wife, or partner on your hands.

Being Asked on a Date

When was the last time you threw caution to the wind and asked her out on a date? Not asking her, “Do you wanna go do something?” But, asking her on an actual date. A date you’ve planned out ahead of time?

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