But in reality theyve probably been thinking about it for quite awhile. If a man decides he wants to end a relationship, this decision may happen in his head long before he actually takes action on it.
In the meantime, he may start acting out of character and quite different from the man you fell in love with. Until a man gets enough courage to tell you its over, youre somewhat left in the dark and constantly left to guess whats going on with them. But the signs are there. You just need to know what to look for.
Hes not as talkative as he used to be and generally keeps to himself when youre around.
Men tend to be quiet when theyre uncomfortable around certain people. Youve probably noticed he doesnt talk about his day like he used to or divulge much information about his life in general anymore.
When youre in his company, he gets very quiet. But as soon as his cell phone rings and he answers, his personality and charm pop back to life and hes suddenly his old self again.
He rarely texts you anymore or has stopped altogether.
At first, he text you about everything, but now youre lucky if you get one text a day. Men usually text on a whim about whatever theyre feeling or thinking at the time.
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Once this stops, it indicates youre no longer in his thoughts or priority one. Does he talk to you as if youre a stranger on the phone? This is a red flag that hes probably already moved on, at least in his mind.
Hes working longer hours just to stay away from you.
Several men love their jobs and go the extra mile in an effort to further their career. Were not talking about those men.
Were talking about men who voluntarily take on more work and longer hours just so they can avoid seeing less of you. Hurts, doesnt it? Youll notice the change in them as compared to their previous behavior.
He would rather watch sports than to have sex with you.
If your man is constantly coming up with excuses, especially sports-related ones, about why hes too busy to have sex with you, thats an even bigger red flag.
Men are programmed to think about sex and want sex practically anytime, anywhere. So, if hes consistently turning you down, something has changed, and not for the better.
He doesnt bring you around his friends anymore.
When you two first got together, he couldnt wait to introduce to his friends and family. But if hes going out with his friends more frequently now and leaving you at home while hes out doing whatever, he probably wants the two of you to end.
When relationships fall apart, its never easy no matter how long youve been together, how old you are, or what reasons led to the breakup. Its just plain hard. How you leave a relationship though will determine the class of person you are. If its truly over, leave with your dignity intact.
Theres something better waiting for you in your future.
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