Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship

I Hope you are having a lovely friday. Todays article Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship will help you understand yourself and your intentions regarding relationships. It is not always easy to do the right thing and what seems to be right in the beginning could end up totally different. How we feel and think about ourselves also has a great impact on our relations with others.

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Many people are so busy focusing on finding someone to be in a relationship with that they miss the fact that they’re not actually ready to be involved with anyone right then. It may seem that anyone would realize that they don’t really want to be involved with someone, but that’s not always true. There may, instead, be a craving of sorts to have someone in your life and someone that you can share things with. That’s not, however, the same thing as being ready to be in a relationship.

One sign that you’re not ready for a relationship is in the guys that you keep being drawn to. Time after time, the guy you’re attracted to is in no way the one that you need to be with. Even though you’re warned that he’s a huge player or a loser, it doesn’t stop you from latching onto him. It also doesn’t take very long to realize that you’ve made a big mistake.

If you must have a man in your life in order to feel happy, that’s another sign that you’re not ready to be involved in a relationship. When you’re invited to a social event, unless you have a date to escort you, it’s likely that you’ll make up an excuse to not attend. This is never a good reason to jump into a relationship. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself first.

Some women feel they’re saviors and will look for a guy that can be their project. What this translates to is that they need drama in their lives so they find someone that’s so dysfunctional that it will keep them quite occupied in saving him. Being a therapist isn’t the same thing as being a girlfriend.
On the flip side of that, you want someone to save you. If you’re constantly talking about what a mess your life is in, you need to fix all of that before you’re ready for a real relationship. What you’ll most likely do is attract a man with all of your same issues so that neither of you can get better.

You feel you need a man to “complete” you. While this sounds great in a movie or in a book, reality is a bit different. There should be no completing. In fact, you might consider looking for a guy that will complement you. That makes you look a lot less needy.
If you’re spending more time looking for love than enjoying the interests you have, you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Granted, you do need to be out there in social situations if you ever plan to meet the right guy, but don’t plan all of your outings around The Hunt. It’s not normal.
Deal with any leftover emotional baggage that you may have before jumping into a new relationship. That’s also known as the rebound effect and is rarely successful. Another man isn’t necessarily going to take your mind off of your ex.

Last, but not least, if you feel you can’t be yourself around a new man, then keep looking. There’s no need to turn yourself inside out to make sure you’re exactly what he wants. Be more concerned about whether or not he’s what you want, instead. If you are struggling with your relationsip or with mending a broken heart i suggest Dr. Love himself Mr. T W Jackson who is the creator of the magic of making up which has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries with their relationship problems.

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5 Signs He May Be Cheating On You

It is never an easy feeling to find out your loved one is cheating on you. But, if you find out he has been doing something behind your back, the best thing for you to do may be to simply leave him. Not every relationship is worth salvaging.

Boyfriends who tend to cheat on you do not deserve you, and there are simply no excuses for why he should do that. If he has cheated on you once, there is a great chance he will cheat on you again. The best thing for you to do is break up with him fast, so he doesnt hurt you even more in the future. 

Here are the best signs that can seriously indicate if he is cheating on you or doing something behind your back.

You caught him lying before
Pathological liars are among the worst kind of people and  you simply cannot trust them. People who tend to lie frequently are often hiding something, and there is a great possibility that he lies to you about cheating. 

If you were already slightly suspicious about him doing something behind your back, and he simply wont admit anything to you, there is a good chance that he is actually cheating on you. You simply cannot be trustful of guys who are prone to lying.

He hides his calls
If you realize that lately he has been going out of the room to make few calls, or just not answering certain phone calls when he is around you, then something is clearly wrong. 

5 Signs He May Be Cheating On You

You need to pay attention to his cell phone habits, especially if they have drastically changed recently. If you suddenly realize he makes a lot of secret phone calls, then something is probably wrong, and it is one of the first signs of cheating.

He has history of cheating
If he has cheated on you once already, there is a bigger possibility he will cheat on you again. Also, if you know about previous relationships where he admitted to you that he cheated on other women, then you should be more careful, because he could certainly do the same thing to you.

He spends less time with you
One of the best signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you is by finding out that he suddenly wants to spend less time with you. 

For example, if he is constantly on the computer while youre watching TV, or he simply finds more excuses to not go somewhere with you, then he could be having an affair with someone. 

People who are cheating always have something else to do, and suddenly start to have less time to hang out with you.

He is a narcissistic person
People that have certain traits of narcissism sometimes feel like they are somehow entitled to get away with more than other people. They are far more likely to actually cheat on you, since they do not like to play by the rules.

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Being There Helping Your Partner Come Out To Their Parents

A great many gay people these days are becoming more and more comfortable with being public about their sexual orientation, but there are still a multitude of families that harbor traditional values. If you find yourself in a relationship with a gay man or woman that is still in the closet, there are a few things you can do to ease the situation and handle it with maturity.

The most important thing for you to do is not push your lover too hard to out themselves. Business in the bedroom really is personal. Much how a young person wouldn’t want to, or need to, tell their parents that they lost their virginity, being homosexual really isn’t that different. It’s personal. If you really find it important for them to come out to their parents, then tell them why. Tell them how you want to be with them openly, without having to hide or feel like an embarrassment. Let them know that it makes you feel small and unwanted to sneak around or pretend to be a “friend.”  The first step is talking about it and how you feel.
If they decide to come out, the next step is keeping drama to a minimum. You may find yourself offended, or even intimidated by the views of the family, but if your partner wants you to be there, stay strong and confident.

You want to be friendly regardless of any harsh or hurt words that may be thrown your way. Some families come to terms with it easier, as it is becoming more modern and accepted, but you need to be aware that some families can over react a good bit. It may be hard to remain cool and collected under certain pressure or criticisms, but the best thing you can do is try.
If your partner decides to do it alone, and you are concerned about how the family will react, stay close to them. Keep your phone on you in case they need you, and stay within a close distance of their home. Their family may not react too poorly, but it never hurts to be cautious. Some families are just better off handling it alone.

There’s really not a wrong way for your partner to go about it, because once it’s said, that’s it. As soon as the words are out there, there’s no taking them back. So be sure your partner knows that there won’t be any going back when it’s all said and done.
One of the hardest things about being in a relationship with someone who is still in the closet is if they decide to stay there. If you talk to your partner about your concerns and you tell them how it makes you feel, but they still decide to stay hidden, then you’re going to have to make a choice. Would you be able to hide with them, or would you need to live out loud? That’s the decision you’ll have to make.

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Things Women Really Love from their Men

I hope you are having a lovely weekend, here in Sweden it is snowing and the winter is really here which make´s cosy evenings with candle lights perfect. Things Women Really Love from their Men are those small signs of love as described in the article. A foot massage could really be appreciated of most women after a stressful day, it also gives a romantic feeling to each other.You really dont have to catch the moon to make her happy. 

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Relationships are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times exceptional and brief.

Doing this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.

Small Tokens of Affection

No, you don’t have to break the break. We’re not talking about tokens along the lines of Ertha Kitt’s infamous Christmas list.

The big gifts in life might light a fire in the eyes of the woman you love. But, it’s the little things that melt her heart and bind her to you in ways no sable coats ever will.

Cuddle Time

Women like to cuddle. Not as a form of foreplay, but simply as a sign of affection. Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, and laying with her feet (or head) in your lap are perfect.

They are all signs of casual intimacy and love that MATTER to her in a really big way. It’s a small gesture on your part that carrier massive weight in her heart.

Hearing those Three Magic Words

You know what they are. You’ve probably said them to her dozens of times. You’ve probably not said them to her even more. The thing is, she NEEDS to hear them.

Those words mean the world to her because they reinforce her position in YOUR world. Tell her “I love you!” and watch how her face just lights up at the reminder.

Your Approval

The other thing your woman needs from you more than you’ll ever know or understand is your approval. Give it to her.

Tell her she looks great tonight. Even if she “dismisses” it with something along the lines of a questioning “This old thing,” she is secretly tickled and extremely pleased to hear it.

She works hard to look good for you, prepare good food for you to eat, and keep your house in great shape. Acknowledge her efforts and you’ll be rewarded with a very happy girlfriend, wife, or partner on your hands.

Being Asked on a Date

When was the last time you threw caution to the wind and asked her out on a date? Not asking her, “Do you wanna go do something?” But, asking her on an actual date. A date you’ve planned out ahead of time?

Have you ever done this?

If not, now is the time. It will rock her world and melt her heart even more. Try it! You’re going to love the results!

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Dealing With A Partners Controlling Mother

In a perfect world, everyone would have mothers that knew when to let go of their babies. However, it’s not a perfect world and there are many more of these controlling mothers around than you would have ever thought possible. That’s why the chances are really good that when you hook up with someone romantically, you’re going to also be taking on his very controlling mother.

Now, it’s not all bad. In fact, some mothers aren’t really controlling so much as they really do just want their sons to be happy. With those mothers, you’ve got a chance because, while they might be a bit distant initially, once they see that you adore their “little boy,” they’ll warm right up to you because the two of you have a common goal. All you have to do is show this mother that you do, indeed, love her son and she’ll become your best friend.

Next up are the controlling mothers that feel no woman is good enough for their sons. It wouldn’t matter if you came from royalty and are next in line for the throne. Unless these women have personally handpicked the women for their sons to be with, it’s pretty much a lost cause. Now, if you’re lucky, your guy will understand that his mother is unreasonable and he’ll be the buffer between the two of you. If you’re lucky, he may even agree to move to another state so that you don’t have to be around her and her dislike of you all the time.

The worst of these controlling mothers are something like you probably have never encountered at any point in your life. These women will do anything to keep their sons with them because their belief is that no one on this planet can look after their sons as well as they can. Nothing you do is ever going to be good enough or right, for that matter. Worst of all, she will expect to be included in all parts of your life. If your man can’t say no to her, she’ll be going with you on all trips you take. Every time you and your man have Date Night, she’ll tag along. You’ll probably find her at YOUR house more than at her own. Hopefully, your partner isn’t “mommy whipped” so that he can set boundaries for her and make her keep to them.

The signs are usually there soon enough so that you’re don’t get involved with a guy that’s overly attached to his mother. When you spot them, just cut your losses and run. On the other hand, if you had no warning that you’re inheriting one of these horrible women by getting involved with what you thought was a great guy; you may experience some pain before extricating yourself from the situation. If she’s being unreasonable and trying to act like his wife, attempt to have a talk with him about it. Tell him how that you feel as if you’re married or involved with BOTH of them and that you’re not happy with the arrangement.

She may end up not being an entity you can battle. If that turns out to be true, then the only solution may be to move across the country from her. However, if your man seems unwilling to cut those apron strings, you may just have to walk.

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The Top 5 Mistakes people make when a crisis arises.
The “real” secrets to a healthy, stable, loving marriage.
How to assess the stage of your crisis (there are 8).
How to address any stage of a crisis and turn it around.
What to do, what to say, and what to avoid in order to save your marriage!
Why “hard work” on the relationship isn’t always the answer.
How marriage counseling can be dangerous to your marriage’s future.
Why “low mood therapy” is destined for failure and how “high mood relating” makes the difference.
How to move beyond emotions and take action!
How to find the North Star of your relationship, and why it matters.
Why true intimacy is a lot closer than you think–and how to get there!
What “the TIE Elements of Communication” are, and how they can transform your communication.
How to change the momentum of a relationship, sometimes instantaneously!
What the Practices of Marriage are, and how they can transform your relationship.
Why arguing is a waste of time — and the amazingly simple secret to get around it.
How to become a team, even if you feel like opposites.
Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.
How to deal with problems involving sex or money.
Why anger and resentment are so dangerous, and what to do about it , regardless of whether you or your spouse is angry or resentful
How to make paradigm shifts (literally, quantum leaps!) in the relationship.
Much, much more about how to transform your relationship.
How to begin saving your marriage beginning in less than an hour, maybe in less than 10 minutes!
In short, how to have the marriage of your dreams .
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What Women Shouldnt Tell Their Friends About Their Relationships

Introduction

As much as your friends are supposed to be there for you at all times to exchange stories/ideas and help you get through tough times in life, there is a limit as to how much you should tell your friends when it comes to your personal relationship with your boyfriend or husband. 

This is simply because numerous research studies have revealed that friends do more harm than good when it comes to relationships. If you happen to be interested in safeguarding your relationship with your boyfriend/husband as well as keeping your relationship with your friends healthy, below is a list of 4 most important things you shouldn’t tell your friends about your relationship.

1. Your sex life: This is one of the most important details you should withhold from your friends. Although you might have friends who are exhibitionist storytellers, sexual intimacy in your relationship is strengthened when your sex life is kept a closely guarded secret between you and your partner only.

Keeping your sex life a secret also avoids curiosity which prevents problems like infidelity and mistrust when one of your friends starts showing interest in your partner because of the juicy stories you have told them.


2. Anything your boyfriend or husband doesn’t know: You should also avoid telling your friends anything your partner doesn’t already know because it is simply none of their business. Relationships should be between two people only. 

Your friends shouldn’t know things about your relationship before your partner does, otherwise you have to question why youre in the relationship in the first place. 

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Healthy relationships are built on trust and total openness. If you can’t trust and open up to your partner before your open up to your friends, there is no point of being with your partner in the first place.


3. How much money he makes: This is another important detail you should leave out about your man when talking with your friends. Omitting this detail is important because it avoids instances where your friends start judging you or weighing in on your relationship. 

For instance, you avoid negative energy in case your man earns less than you do. You also avoid being judged or being called a gold digger if he is earning way more than you. The bottom line is, its just none of your friends business to know how much your man makes. If he wants them to know, let him be the one to tell them.


4. Every single argument you have had: This is another necessary omission you should consider when conversing with your girlfriends. Although it is not advisable to keep things bottled up inside, it is not advisable to share everything with your friends especially every single argument you have or have had with your man. 

This is simply because it does more harm than good. Although your friends may offer you all the support you need, they can’t help but start detesting your partner which will eventually hurt your relationship when they start telling you things like; dump him, he is not good enough for you, and other biased suggestions which may or may not be the right solutions for you.

In summary, the above information should guide you in the right direction about how much you should tell your friends about the details of your relationship. 

It is important to note that there may be other topics that should also be considered off-limits to your friends. This article should therefore be used as a basis for further research. You may also find it helpful to have this discussion with your partner so the two of you can agree on whats acceptable to share and what isnt.

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