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Tuesday, May 17, 2016

5 Reasons Why You Ought To Let An NJ Mediator Deal With Ones Divorce Case

By Jennifer Mcgrevy


Plenty of people going through an annulment largely disregard the use of a NJ mediator as one of the means of making an attempt to solve their conflicts. Rather than use such a solution, lots of individuals going through an annulment choose to choose the tough method, through the use of the judicial system and getting the court straighten out some of the troubles. Then again, there are lots of motives why this is not an excellent idea. Once you consider it, using a NJ mediator is the right approach to look after a few of the problems that may come up through the divorce proceedings, and a few of them are discussed in the next paragraphs.

Initially, while you determine to handle your differences by means of the judicial system, you can find yourself subjecting your kids (when you have any) to plenty of dangerous exposure. This can be an exceptionally upsetting thing for them, and regardless that they might not exhibit it, it could scar them for life. If you use a NJ mediator, you basically show your kids that youre still pals with your spouse, and because of this, the divorce proceedings may have much less of an influence on them. Subsequently, the use of a NJ mediator is recommended when you really care for your kids and wish to shelter them from witnessing a protracted legal battle between you two.

The other advantage of using a NJ mediator instead of heading to trial is that its going to cost a smaller amount. This is both regarding cash and emotions. Whenever you visit trial to try and settle your problems, you typically are required to obtain some feelings that you would rather keep covered, and this could bring you quite a lot of anguish. Aside from that, using a NJ mediator is also a lot more financially viable. Youll use a great deal less if you make use of a NJ mediator versus the trial, for that youd have to pay a ton of cash regarding legal expenses.

Thirdly, using a NJ mediator as a substitute of going to court also has the benefit of being helpful so that you handle your issues with out exposing them to the community. If you attend trial, your divorce proceedings could obtain lots of notice from people like relatives and friends, and this is one thing that a lot of people will not be comfortable with. This is even more probable if youre a celeb or a recognized persona in your area. In those cases, it is a whole lot more easy to handle your conflicts in secret, and the one method to do this could be by means of the use of a NJ mediator.

With a NJ mediator, you also are offered the opportunity to have a lot more control over the outcome. You determine just how rapidly youll end up reaching a good-natured outcome. An additional advantage of using an NJ mediator is that the intermediary can even handle all the convoluted paperwork for you. The five advantages of using a NJ mediator discussed above are merely the parts that is readily foreseen; there exist a great deal more upshots that make it the very best technique to handle any disputes that you could have together with your spouse throughout the divorce.




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Let Family Solicitors Solve Your Domestic Problems

By Jack Wogan


We live in a world that constantly amazes us. Things do not remain the same for a long time as much as we would want them to. When we make our own family we would like things to be great all the time, without fights or conflicts. But when conflicts cannot be avoided any more, we should learn how to deal with them. Family solicitors will teach you exactly this. They will offer family law support for a series of issues related to divorce, parenting problems, pre-nuptial agreements, financial settlements, mediation, wills and probate.

Family solicitors are able to diminish family conflicts by finding legal solutions to your problems. They can do this by minimizing the damage that your children can experience when you fight for their custody with your partner. It is a well-known fact that children are most vulnerable to family feuds, so you should protect them from this as much as possible.

We all know that getting through a divorce can be difficult for all the family members, especially for the youngest ones. Therefore, you have to make sure that you will not leave permanent psychological scars in a dispute over who gets them. A family solicitor will advise you with regard to this matter and any other related problems.

Aside from custody battles, family members can argue over financial matters as well. Let us say that a distant relative has died, leaving behind a huge inheritance. It is only natural that the remaining relatives claim their right to get the goods left behind. Each member will claim that he deserves more than the other. The result will be a feud that can last for a good number of years. But the period can be shortened if you ask a family solicitor to make things clear. The expert in family affairs will analyze the data presented and will decide, in accordance with the legal procedures at hand, how the inheritance needs to be divided.

The mistake that many people make is to believe that they can solve the legal procedures related to family issues on their own. But they are wrong in believing so. Special training is required in order to be able to untangle the domain of family law. Family solicitors have all this training as well as the necessary insight into the jargon of the area. Therefore, they will settle your family matters in a really effective way. They will inform you on all the legal procedures necessary to conclude the conflict in a way that can satisfy all the parts involved.

This article aimed to present the substantial contribution that family solicitors can bring to the well-being of your family. If you are going through rough times and you feel that you need advise in any aspect concerning the correct legal path for a family procedure, then hesitate no more. Consult with family solicitors right away!




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Wednesday, May 4, 2016

You Can Save Your Marriage If You Let Go Of The Pain

By Ahata Jeelta


Marriage is a sacred vow that binds a couple to love and hold each other till death. It is painful to find out that your partner recourse to infidelity for selfish reasons. You constantly question yourself how he could find refuge in another woman when you gave up everything to satisfy him. Normally there will be series of fights and confrontations regarding this issue making him walk out the door in just a snap leaving you in despair and depress. Frankly pick yourself up. You can save your marriage when you stop feeling sorry for yourself. He wants to leave. Make him feel sorry that he made that choice.

Saving a rocky relationship can be compared to a crystal ball. It will not easily break when dropped but you would see the cracks. Only time can tell when the pain will completely heals. But until such time comes, one must try to relive his or her former self.

Pamper yourself. Get a massage. Get a haircut. Go shopping. Go out with friends. Keep yourself busy. Get back to the circle. Never let yourself be in pain. It is not worth it. Remember that the reason he left you is because he feels that he found someone better, or so he thought.

Go to a spa. Treat yourself out. Dress up without any reason. Go out and enjoy yourself. Find a hobby. Do not waste your time trying to argue about it. Do not let him see you in pain. This is hard, I know. However making him see that you are in pain would only make him feel that he made the right choice.

Do not put your guard down. Forgive him but keep a distance for quite some time. Let him contemplate on his actions. He would certainly come around when he finds out that he has no longer a control over you. It would drive him crazy to find a better you.

The pain of infidelity is deep. However avoid feeling sorry for yourself. It does not help. Instead seek this moment to make up for the lost time. Find a hobby or go places. Whatever you try to do, just enjoy yourself heartily and relax. You owe it to yourself to be happy.




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Saturday, April 30, 2016

6 Ways to Let Him Know How Much You Care

Youve been in a relationship long enough to actually know that your boyfriend is your perfect soul-mate. Or maybe youre married to the most caring man and want to show him how much you also care.

In either situation, youre convinced beyond a reasonable doubt that hes the right man for you and youre ready to spend the rest of your life with him. If thats the case, then here are 6 ways to let him know how much you care:

1. Cook a meal for him 

This idea may be old fashioned, but every man adores a woman who can cook. The fact that you are willing to sacrifice your time to prepare a home-made meal makes it pretty obvious that you care. All you have to do is to find a good recipe and use it to prepare something special for him.

You can start preparing the meal before he arrives, just make sure the food doesnt get cold before he gets home. If he enjoys wine, another thoughtful touch would be to get him a favorite bottle to complement the dinner. Make the dinner experience even more special by adding candlelight and soft background music for a more romantic ambiance.

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2. Give him some space 

This may sound a little surprising, but most men enjoy having some time and space to themselves occasionally. As much as youd love to spend more time with your man, it creates a healthier relationship when you recognize and accept that he actually needs to spend some time on his own or with his friends.

Its important to know your man well enough to be there whenever he needs you, but try to keep yourself away when he needs to spend some time on his own. Let him have his spare time, and if possible, use that time to do something for yourself; get a massage or go out and have some fun with your girl friends.

3. Really listen to him when he talks 

Some women find it hard to keep their mouth shut when theyre having a conversation with their man. This is because a woman will almost always have something to talk about.

Men, on the other hand, typically dont talk as much. So when they do speak, you can show him how much you care and respect what he has to say by keeping quiet, listening attentively and offering relevant comments.



4. Dont be afraid to say "Im sorry" 

One of the biggest mistakes you can make in your relationship is being unwilling to admit when youre wrong. We all make mistakes, and by owning up to them rather than trying to hide them, it lets your partner know that its okay for him to make mistakes too. It will instill trust and respect for you in your man, and your relationship will become even stronger.

5. Embrace his shortcomings 

One of the best ways to show someone you care is to make sure they know that you love them exactly as they are, "warts and all", as they say.

That just means you acknowledge their flaws but accept them anyway and love them unconditionally. Its important that your man knows that you love him for who he is and not for who you want him to be.

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6. Give him a "just because" gift 

Being the lady in a relationship doesnt mean youre the only one who appreciates gifts. Surprise him from time to time with something you know he likes. Listen carefully, he probably leaves plenty of clues by talking about things hed like to have.
You dont have to wait for a special holiday to give him a "just because" gift, and they dont have to be expensive. The realization that you cared enough to give him a gift for no other reason than because you love him will mean the world to him.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine…
What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…
I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…
More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…
Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

WARNING: Unconventional Methods!

At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear…he DOES IT… And next thing you know… he’s back home, laying back on the couch and watching HOUSE with his fiance on Monday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just don’t believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt…
I mean, what’s a more valuable experience?…Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddy’s girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivvies out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I don’t know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now, if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have “relationship troubles” too? If you do…I think I can help…

Here’s how I can help you…

If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I can’t talk too or be with everyone, I just don’t have enough time…but I have
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Thursday, April 14, 2016

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Sunday, March 27, 2016

Its Over So Get Over It

So you are sitting in a dark room with a tub of ice cream in your lap and tissues piled up next to you on the bed because you found out he was talking to his ex on Facebook. That is something that happens to a lot of people these days, especially when you consider how popular social sites have become. But that doesn’t mean you have to let it take you into a pit of despair. Sure, its going to hurt for a bit but you will eventually get over him and move on with your life like it never happened.

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Moving on from a relationship is a hard thing to do most of the time. Even when your partner has done something so completely stupid that you have no issues walking out the door, the days that follow will be filled with sleepless nights and all the good memories that the two of you shared together. Guys and gals alike will go through things like this at the end of a relationship no matter what happened to cause it to end. The bad thing is that there is no one set way of making things return to normal.



Some people may think going out to parties and drinking a lot will help them move on with their lives. For some of them, it might help, but everyone knows that when you start drinking to forget something like a relationship, you end up doing something even more stupid than you did to end it all. The fact is you will try to get even with that person by sleeping with someone you never would have slept with if you were sober, and that is not the way to go about things.

You have to look at the end of your relationship much like a death in the family; you have to give yourself the time you need to mourn and grieve for what has been lost before you can find the willpower to recover from it. If you allow yourself to slowly come to the realization that what you had is gone and in the past, then you can move forward and find a new path that you can walk down. Hopefully, this time it will be with someone that ends up being a lot better than the idiot you just caught talking to his ex on Facebook.

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Now that may not seem like a very constructive way of handling things to most people, but the truth is everyone handles things like this differently. The one thing you don’t want to do is go out and do something stupid that you are going to regret later on. You can go out with your friends and have some fun, but don’t get so drunk that you cant remember which members of the football team you went home with. That is counterproductive and can end up causing even more problems in your life than just sitting at home eating ice cream with a close friend and thinking about how you are going to get through all of this.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…
And it’s okay…let me ask?
Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?
I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?
Think about it for a sec…
Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine…
What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…
What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.
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Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…
I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…
More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…
Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

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