In either situation, youre convinced beyond a reasonable doubt that hes the right man for you and youre ready to spend the rest of your life with him. If thats the case, then here are 6 ways to let him know how much you care:
1. Cook a meal for him
This idea may be old fashioned, but every man adores a woman who can cook. The fact that you are willing to sacrifice your time to prepare a home-made meal makes it pretty obvious that you care. All you have to do is to find a good recipe and use it to prepare something special for him.
You can start preparing the meal before he arrives, just make sure the food doesnt get cold before he gets home. If he enjoys wine, another thoughtful touch would be to get him a favorite bottle to complement the dinner. Make the dinner experience even more special by adding candlelight and soft background music for a more romantic ambiance.
2. Give him some space
This may sound a little surprising, but most men enjoy having some time and space to themselves occasionally. As much as youd love to spend more time with your man, it creates a healthier relationship when you recognize and accept that he actually needs to spend some time on his own or with his friends.
Its important to know your man well enough to be there whenever he needs you, but try to keep yourself away when he needs to spend some time on his own. Let him have his spare time, and if possible, use that time to do something for yourself; get a massage or go out and have some fun with your girl friends.
3. Really listen to him when he talks
Some women find it hard to keep their mouth shut when theyre having a conversation with their man. This is because a woman will almost always have something to talk about.
Men, on the other hand, typically dont talk as much. So when they do speak, you can show him how much you care and respect what he has to say by keeping quiet, listening attentively and offering relevant comments.
4. Dont be afraid to say "Im sorry"
One of the biggest mistakes you can make in your relationship is being unwilling to admit when youre wrong. We all make mistakes, and by owning up to them rather than trying to hide them, it lets your partner know that its okay for him to make mistakes too. It will instill trust and respect for you in your man, and your relationship will become even stronger.
5. Embrace his shortcomings
One of the best ways to show someone you care is to make sure they know that you love them exactly as they are, "warts and all", as they say.
That just means you acknowledge their flaws but accept them anyway and love them unconditionally. Its important that your man knows that you love him for who he is and not for who you want him to be.
6. Give him a "just because" gift
Being the lady in a relationship doesnt mean youre the only one who appreciates gifts. Surprise him from time to time with something you know he likes. Listen carefully, he probably leaves plenty of clues by talking about things hed like to have.
You dont have to wait for a special holiday to give him a "just because" gift, and they dont have to be expensive. The realization that you cared enough to give him a gift for no other reason than because you love him will mean the world to him.
If you are in pain and confused?
Heres some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason
infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse
even the worst situations you can imagine
like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief
And its okay
let me ask?
Dont you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?
or vice versa?
I bet you do
and heres the strange real clincher
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair
or unfaithfulness
or worse even?
Think about it for a sec
Sure! And I bet you know of
or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have
you know the ones I am talking about
(and I know this is kind of dark)
the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive
I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable
Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!
Seriously, Doesnt that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together
under even some horrible circumstances
that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now
I am not saying they were holding some secret love spell book and doing weird chants
not at all
at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME
and won back the heart of their lover
or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat
they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine
What if? What they said
and what they did
could be bottled so to speak? And then you could unbottle it and put it to use? To erase old hurts
to reignite passion again
to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.
Yes A Magic Love Recipe in a sense
You see there IS a recipe for love as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love
What they did by accident can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you
I would be somewhat skeptical right now
thats totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do
what happens? P-A-N-I-C
defensiveness
arguments
and then it gets really nasty.
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasnt really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
Please know
this is not your fault! You werent taught this in school. You probably werent taught this by your parents
and there is no get your ex back night school
Yeah?
And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?
Money?
Clothes?
ALGEBRA?
So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship
manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?
Crazy huh?
And now as you will soon see
all that has changed.
T Dub Discovers His Love Recipe
Please allow me to introduce myself
My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird
its a long story
you can just call me T Dub
I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru
In fact I royally piss off the academic types and Ill tell you why in a second
I have been a military brat
or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience Ive had dozens of homes
in 11countries
and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.
And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid
I had to learn
and learn REALLY FAST
how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo
or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas redneck buddy of mine
makes no difference
More importantly
I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them tick and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.
In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the go to guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of people problem
I kind of felt like the male version of Dear Abby
Maybe you even know someone a little like me?
someone that you go to when you have people problems
Anyway
I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together
and putting them back together after they had come apart
because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.
WARNING: Unconventional Methods!
At this point, I must WARN YOU
STRONGLY WARN YOU
my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50 to $100 an hour (sometimes for months and even years) and I can whisper just one of my methods in my friends ear
he DOES IT
And next thing you know
hes back home, laying back on the couch and watching HOUSE with his fiance on Monday nights.
Now you are free to make up your own mind about me. I just dont believe that any amount of sitting in a classroom can make up for the REAL WORLD experience that I have under my belt
I mean, whats a more valuable experience?
Listening to a lecture on libido? Or BEING THERE when my buddys girlfriend is chucking his clothes and skivvies out the bedroom window because she thinks he was with some tart the night before?
I dont know about you, my money is on the guy with the real world experience any day.
Now, if you are hanging out with me here today, I am guessing you have relationship troubles too? If you do
I think I can help
Heres how I can help you
If you have broken up and want to get your guy or gal back, obviously I cant talk too or be with everyone, I just dont have enough time
but I have
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