10 Things You Should Do To Get Your Ex Back After A Breakup

Ok, so your relationship with that special someone has come and gone but somehow you still want them back. Heres how to turn that ex-boyfriend, girlfriend or lover into your significant other once again.

1.      Consider why it is you broke up in the first place. It is crucial that you think back on the reasons you broke up in the first place. Was your relationship abusive in anyway? Were any or both of you controlling, mean, or possessive? Did one or both of you cheat? If any of these things happened in your relationship, you may have to think long and hard before headin right back into that kind of relationship.

2.      Be the person your ex fell in love with. Your ex was most likely attracted to you because he or she felt good with you, and you were fulfilling his or her emotional needs. Think on how you may have changed and take definite steps to correct any bad habits and mistakes.

3.      The first thing that you say to your ex is extremely important. Say the wrong words may cost you the chance to ever get your ex back. Never respond to your ex’s request for a breakup by crying and begging them to come back. This more often that not does not work and drives them further away. You need to understand that even though your ex initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that they still harbor good feelings for you.

4.      Use the past to your advantage. If your ex has ever complimented your outfit, wear it again. Or, share a light-hearted memory with them. If you have a chance to meet, do it at a familiar place you used to hang out together.

5.      Listen carefully to your ex’s choice of words. If he or she ever uses an unusual or uncommon word, casually slip it into your conversation again. This subconsciously tells your ex that you are similar due to exclusive and similar ways of talking.

6.      If your break up is less than a couple weeks, completely ignore your ex. Your ex will call you if he or she likes you. If that doesn’t happen, nothing you say or wear will change that. This usually works unless you are dealing with an ex that thinks that if you arent coming after them, you dont care. Sometimes, ignoring your ex makes them feel like you are perfectly fine without them and are moving on, which is the exact opposite of what you want when you are trying to get back them. Be sure you know exactly what kind of person you are dealing with when trying to get your ex back.

7.      Let your ex know you were thinking about them. Remember that one time you two went to dinner at that great new restaurant and had a wonderful time? Leave your ex a short email telling saying you ate there recently and thought of them. And, by the way, how is he or she doing? This is a non-threatening way to have a light conversation, and also, a small request for a reply back.

8.      Pay a little attention to your appearance if you have been neglecting yourself in that department.

9.      Casually ask if your ex would like to do something non-committal. Have a drink with friends, play miniature golf, play tennis or do some other things that friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun. Skip out on the serious talks for now. Youll have plenty of time to talk about that later. If your ex initiates it, follow their lead but dont go heavy.

10.    Find other things to focus on. If you focus your attention on a new activity, you will have less time to miss your ex and you’ll ultimately feel stronger and more in control of your life. And if you are still in contact, your ex will notice that you have "moved on". This will make you more desirable to him or her.

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Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship

I Hope you are having a lovely friday. Todays article Signs Youre Not Ready For A Relationship will help you understand yourself and your intentions regarding relationships. It is not always easy to do the right thing and what seems to be right in the beginning could end up totally different. How we feel and think about ourselves also has a great impact on our relations with others.

Best Wishes

Many people are so busy focusing on finding someone to be in a relationship with that they miss the fact that they’re not actually ready to be involved with anyone right then. It may seem that anyone would realize that they don’t really want to be involved with someone, but that’s not always true. There may, instead, be a craving of sorts to have someone in your life and someone that you can share things with. That’s not, however, the same thing as being ready to be in a relationship.

One sign that you’re not ready for a relationship is in the guys that you keep being drawn to. Time after time, the guy you’re attracted to is in no way the one that you need to be with. Even though you’re warned that he’s a huge player or a loser, it doesn’t stop you from latching onto him. It also doesn’t take very long to realize that you’ve made a big mistake.

If you must have a man in your life in order to feel happy, that’s another sign that you’re not ready to be involved in a relationship. When you’re invited to a social event, unless you have a date to escort you, it’s likely that you’ll make up an excuse to not attend. This is never a good reason to jump into a relationship. You need to learn how to be happy with yourself first.

Some women feel they’re saviors and will look for a guy that can be their project. What this translates to is that they need drama in their lives so they find someone that’s so dysfunctional that it will keep them quite occupied in saving him. Being a therapist isn’t the same thing as being a girlfriend.
On the flip side of that, you want someone to save you. If you’re constantly talking about what a mess your life is in, you need to fix all of that before you’re ready for a real relationship. What you’ll most likely do is attract a man with all of your same issues so that neither of you can get better.

You feel you need a man to “complete” you. While this sounds great in a movie or in a book, reality is a bit different. There should be no completing. In fact, you might consider looking for a guy that will complement you. That makes you look a lot less needy.
If you’re spending more time looking for love than enjoying the interests you have, you’re not ready to be in a relationship. Granted, you do need to be out there in social situations if you ever plan to meet the right guy, but don’t plan all of your outings around The Hunt. It’s not normal.
Deal with any leftover emotional baggage that you may have before jumping into a new relationship. That’s also known as the rebound effect and is rarely successful. Another man isn’t necessarily going to take your mind off of your ex.

Last, but not least, if you feel you can’t be yourself around a new man, then keep looking. There’s no need to turn yourself inside out to make sure you’re exactly what he wants. Be more concerned about whether or not he’s what you want, instead. If you are struggling with your relationsip or with mending a broken heart i suggest Dr. Love himself Mr. T W Jackson who is the creator of the magic of making up which has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries with their relationship problems.

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Dutch Dating

For centuries, whenever a date occurred, there were some very specific and accepted rules in place. The first one is that the guys always did the asking. Only a few times was it acceptable for girls to do the asking. These were events like Sadie Hawkins Day and simply social events that were set up by high schools, churches and various community organizations where the girls asked the guys they wanted to attend these events with them. The next rule is that the guys always paid for the date. Again, the only exception to this is when the girls were also the ones doing the asking. The guys provided the transportation and picked up the girls at their homes. Girls could do this when they were involved in one of those switching events. 

That may have made sense years ago when people had decent jobs, made adequate money at them, and the prices for entertainment wasn’t so high. These days, unless you happen to work as a doctor, lawyer, or CEO of a large company, you probably have to save up your money in order to afford asking a woman out on a date and paying for it. Due to the economy, it’s become the accepted practice of “Dutch Dating.” This means, basically, that when on an expensive date, the man pays for his half and the woman pays for hers. 

  
While this can get a bit sticky at times, there are actually new rules that govern Dutch Dating. When a couple is dating where each one makes pretty much the same amount of money, it’s acceptable for each partner to pay their own way. In this away, the couples get to do much more exciting things on dates than just having burgers at a fast food restaurant and watching a rented DVD at home. Now, there’s certainly nothing wrong with doing those things sometimes on dates, but who wants to do them all the time? 

If you want to do something special for someone that you’re dating, then you can save up some money for an event such as a birthday or anniversary. When you do the asking for something like this, you should expect to pay for all of it. This can be a nice thing to do for someone you care about. 

There’s also a rule about the person that makes the most money paying for the date, or at least paying for a larger portion of it. Again, this rule changes around depending on who did the asking and who planned the type of date it would be. There’s nothing wrong with women paying for the entire date sometimes, either. In fact, many couples switch back and forth as to who will foot the bill for dates. For instance, the guy pays for one and the woman pays for the next one and so on. This can work out pretty well. 
One rule that should always be in place is the first date rule. When a guy asks a woman out for the first time, he should be prepared to pay for the entire date. If the couple continues dating, they can make their own rules as they go along. 

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3 Things You Should Tell Your Husband Often

I can really relate to one thing in todays article 3 Things You Should Tell Your Husband Often; that I am not much of a talker. I dont know if im wrong but i think that women generally speaks more then men do. That may cause troubles in the relation because communication is of great importance. I also think this article tips is essential for both men and women. We really have to give our partner signs of our love and commitment on a dalily basis to keep the love alive. 

Love and light

Your husband is probably not much of a talker. Most men aren’t. It’s the one common complaint women have about them. They don’t talk about how they feel. Sometimes, women take that to mean they have a different emotional depth than women do. The truth of the matter is that men do feel things. In some ways, men feel even more deeply than women who wear their emotions on their sleeves quite often.

Because they don’t talk about their feelings, though, women often feel like it’s a waste of breath to discuss how they feel about their husbands with their husbands. Unfortunately, their husbands need to hear these words of affirmation. These are three of the things your husband NEEDS to hear from you as often as possible.

1) How Much You Respect Him – Respect is important to your husband. He may never demand it. He’ll almost certainly never ask for it. But, it means a lot to him. Of all the people in the world, he wants your respect the most — and that’s something he may never even admit to himself. Let him know that you respect him and make sure you tell him WHY you respect him while you’re at it.

2) That You Still Find Him Attractive – No matter how many years you’ve been together he still needs hear that you still believe he’s the most handsome man on the planet. He needs to know that you only have eyes for him. Most importantly of all, he needs to feel like you mean it when you say these things.

3) How Much You Love the Way He Makes You Feel – Think about all the little things your husband does for you – to protect you, to make you happy, and to keep you safe. He’s trying to take care of you. He’s showing you how he feels by doing those things and this should make you FEEL cherished, loved, and even adored by him. Let him know that he does make you feel all these things and more.

Bonus – Actions speak louder than words any day of the week. Telling him how you feel is great. It will mean a lot to him. However, if you combine the telling of these things with actions that reinforce the message you’re trying to convey it will be much clearer for him. Acts can be touching him, rubbing his shoulders, scratching his back, making his favorite meal, or going out of your way to make the house look extra nice and tidy. Whatever it is that pleases him most – after all, you know him best.

You don’t have to buy expensive gifts to make your guy feel loved and appreciated by you. Simple gestures sometimes get the greatest mileage. But, when you tell your husband these things often, you’ll have a happier, healthier marriage in a home that’s filled with love and affection.

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Why power is so destructive to relationships and how to change it.

How to deal with problems involving sex or money.

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Things Women Really Love from their Men

I hope you are having a lovely weekend, here in Sweden it is snowing and the winter is really here which make´s cosy evenings with candle lights perfect. Things Women Really Love from their Men are those small signs of love as described in the article. A foot massage could really be appreciated of most women after a stressful day, it also gives a romantic feeling to each other.You really dont have to catch the moon to make her happy. 

With Love

Relationships are a series of good times and bad. The key is in making the good times exceptional and brief.

Doing this makes the bad times increasingly rare, briefer every time, and helps to maintain a little bit of brightness when they arrive.

Small Tokens of Affection

No, you don’t have to break the break. We’re not talking about tokens along the lines of Ertha Kitt’s infamous Christmas list.

The big gifts in life might light a fire in the eyes of the woman you love. But, it’s the little things that melt her heart and bind her to you in ways no sable coats ever will.

Cuddle Time

Women like to cuddle. Not as a form of foreplay, but simply as a sign of affection. Holding hands, cuddling on the couch, and laying with her feet (or head) in your lap are perfect.

They are all signs of casual intimacy and love that MATTER to her in a really big way. It’s a small gesture on your part that carrier massive weight in her heart.

Hearing those Three Magic Words

You know what they are. You’ve probably said them to her dozens of times. You’ve probably not said them to her even more. The thing is, she NEEDS to hear them.

Those words mean the world to her because they reinforce her position in YOUR world. Tell her “I love you!” and watch how her face just lights up at the reminder.

Your Approval

The other thing your woman needs from you more than you’ll ever know or understand is your approval. Give it to her.

Tell her she looks great tonight. Even if she “dismisses” it with something along the lines of a questioning “This old thing,” she is secretly tickled and extremely pleased to hear it.

She works hard to look good for you, prepare good food for you to eat, and keep your house in great shape. Acknowledge her efforts and you’ll be rewarded with a very happy girlfriend, wife, or partner on your hands.

Being Asked on a Date

When was the last time you threw caution to the wind and asked her out on a date? Not asking her, “Do you wanna go do something?” But, asking her on an actual date. A date you’ve planned out ahead of time?

Have you ever done this?

If not, now is the time. It will rock her world and melt her heart even more. Try it! You’re going to love the results!

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How to use the law of attraction to have more material things in life

Having material things in life seems to be what everyone is interested in. however the truth is that you do not need to have material things in life to be happy. You do need to have love and ambition and this can lead to having more material things as you go. When you are trying to gain more material things you will need to use the law of attraction to make them happen.
It is important to be serious about your life and the things that you do. Never treat your life as something that does not matter. When you are looking to be happy and have the best life possible you need to use the law of attraction to be as successful as possible in just about any category. Thinking of the things that you could have when you are successful is going to keep you on the right track to being as good at something as you can be.
When you are successful at your profession and you make the money that you know you deserve you will be happier and feel better about yourself. Think of the things that you would like to do. Are there travel plans in your future that you would love to take advantage of? This is all part of the way that the law of attraction can help you gain more material things in life.
It is all about the way that you think. When you have control of your mind you will be better able to make clear choices for yourself. These choices can be anything from your personal to your business life. You need to think about the things that you want the most and how to find them. Being positive in life and keeping good thoughts about life is going to help you achieve your dreams and make it possible to live the life that is exciting to you.
Having material things may be something that you have thought about all your life. If you are thinking about the things that you want and need you will have the ability to work hard and make them a reality. Taking precautions in life is something that you should do but when you are looking for the great path to follow sometimes you need to take risks. This is the only way that you can truly live the life that you were meant to.
Never give up on your dreams. Do not think about the impossible. When you want to have material things in life and you want to be successful you need to think about the way that you are living your life. Just like anything you will have to work hard and have a positive outlook so that you are able to build your confidence and know that you are important. When you are always thinking on the bright side you will have a better chance at getting what you want.
It all about the way that you think. Having confidence is going to be one thing that no one can take away from you. With the confidence levels high and your ambition going strong you will have more chances in getting yourself on track and having the power and success in life to have as many material things as you want. You just never know what your limitations are. There is nothing wrong with wanting something huge in life. When you live life to the fullest you will be happier and able to gain the material items that you have dreamed of. This is all made possible with the law of attraction.

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What Are You Looking For In A Relationship

Thursdays article What Are You Looking For In A Relationship is a question which answer seems obvious to many of us. But if we are honest to ourselves there are more to a relation then what meets the eye. We have an advantage if we are clear on those issues prior to a new relationship. Falling in love sometimes happen suddenly and then it´s no time for those questions so be prepared by following the advice in this article.

Love&Light To You

For most people, it’s important to have a really great relationship in their lives. This relationship needs to be solid as well as meaningful if it’s going to help you stay happy and successful. It’s this connection with that special someone that gives you comfort when you need it, intellectual and mental stimulation when you want it, and the return of the love that you offer. A good relationship lets you have your needs met and lets you meet the needs of your partner.

That’s why it’s so important that you have a nurturing relationship in your life. It goes a long way to keeping you psychologically well. The way you interact with your significant other can affect the amount of stress and anger you carry around with you. It can also affect how happy you are. It’s been proven that when you have a great relationship, the less likely you’ll be to develop depression.

Everyone needs someone special in their lives. When you develop a quality relationship, you feel prosperous. The more you branch out to connect with someone in a meaningful way, the happier you’ll be. However, it must be the type of relationship that’s right for you. It’s important to know what you’re looking for in a relationship. Therefore, you need to examine what you want from your relationship.
Ask yourself some questions like:
What are your relationship goals?

Do you want and need for the connection between you and your partner to become stronger in all areas?
Are you interested in being part of a couple that gets along well with others or do you feel that your time is better spent with quality people?
Do you want to be with someone that likes to expand your circle of friends for both business and personal reasons, and do you need help moving past your shyness?

If any of those are true, next you need to figure out why you want those things in your relationship. Do you just want to get more fun out of life? Are you trying to protect yourself from feeling lonely? Is it possible that you just want to build your personal confidence levels higher?

You can add your own questions to this list, but before you start adding to it, you should probably try figuring out the answers to these first. The more clear you are about what you expect from your relationship, the stronger your intentions will be to make these things happen for you. When all of these things flow together, you’ll know that you’ve got the best relationship for you.
Now it’s time to sit back and make the decision of what you want to accomplish in your relationship and the reasons for that. All it takes is to choose a particular target to begin with. Then, decide how that will help you in strengthening the relationship that you need in your life. When you focus on a positive outcome, that’s what you’ll get in your relationship.  If you need help to strenghten your relationship my advice is to look at this video.

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Works For Long Distance Relationships Too…

Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. I followed the [your guide] after a very bitter breakup of a two-year plus relationship (my first since my divorce from a21-year marriage). It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life and after the initial two weeks I started feeling stronger each day and better about myself. My ex sent me an apology email three weeks in …By now, I had the strength to actually “sleep on it” and sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your program still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.
Thanks again,
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Dating Again!

Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up. Yesterday was that all important First Date and it was absolutely fantastic… i just had an email from him saying what a great time he had and how he can’t believe how cool it was to be together. Also back when we split up, your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier. I’m still going to take things slowly with my ex (I’m not at the end of your plan yet!!) but I can’t believe how well life is going only 2 months after I felt like I was half dead. Thank you so much.
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Ex POPS The Question…

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Talking Again…

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Me and my ex are talking now. The letter thing worked, even though I thought it wouldn’t….

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You are the best!!! After one day, again one day, my changed attitude had my ex calling and wanting to see me. I won’t take his calls but this showed me that the changes you showed me, worked…you have helped me more than you will ever know…

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Casey gets his girl back!

I have good news, my ex did get back with me! She said to me the guy she went out with before was a cover up and she was lying to herself the whole time. Thanks for the support.

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Married Again…

got him back we were married again on the 25th of January ….

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