Some of the hottest and most passionate relationships usually take place between couples of teenage years. Nothing is more lustful than two teenagers in love. It also hurts the most when it ends. Many times, if the ending happens for reasons other than the couple is just tired of each other and ready to move on, the love becomes unrequited. Even though these two individuals may move forward in life and even go on to marry other people, they never forget their first love. This love is something that may never leave them no matter how far they travel.

That’s why it’s very tempting to rekindle an old flame if the opportunity presents itself. You’ve probably heard many tales of how couples that have been separated for years suddenly find themselves back together and realize they still have the same feelings for each other as they did when they were a couple the first time around. Those are very possible and very heartwarming stories. However, it doesn’t always turn out that way. Many times, it’s just the fervent wish to revisit a time in life where the feelings were exciting and the couple was beautiful.

There has to be a better way to tell if you should rekindle an old flame or not, and there IS. First of all, put away your feelings from long ago. Then be very honest about how your NEW feelings are at seeing your old love from so long ago. This step is true whether it’s been 3 years or 30.  You can’t allow those past feelings to completely rule decisions you make in the present. So Rule Number One is to deal with your feelings in the present and don’t be overly influenced by the past.

Now that you understand Rule Number One, it’s going to be confusing to learn what Rule Number Two is because that rule tells you to remember the moments of your past relationship with your old flame. Some of those moments can be very important, particularly if these are warnings of why you shouldn’t become involved with him again. Were you mistreated by this old flame in the past? Did he cheat on you? Did he abuse you in some way? If that’s the case, it’s very important to recall those moments because chances are slim that he’s changed much over the years in that regard.

Once you get past Rule Number One and Rule Number Two satisfactorily, you move into Rule Number Three. That one has you paying close attention to how you feel when you come face to face with your old flame. Is that spark truly still there for both of you? If so, and the conditions are right, then you should definitely test the waters a bit and see how they feel. That doesn’t mean that you should hop into bed with him immediately. It means that you should be open to exploring whether or not things can actually go somewhere this time around. It may be the best decision you ever made.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know…this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents…and there is no “get your ex back” night school…

Yeah?

And it is really a shame too because what could be more important than love?..Cars?…Money?…Clothes?…ALGEBRA?

So why? Are there all kinds of books, magazines and help on fixing a car,managing money and all the latest fashions, yet very little USEFUL information on how to fix a broken relationship…manage your emotions or getting the love of your life back?

Crazy huh?

And now as you will soon see…all that has changed.

“T Dub” Discovers His “Love Recipe”

Please allow me to introduce myself…My name is T.W. Jackson, I know kinda weird…it’s a long story…you can just call me “T Dub”…I want to say right off the bat, that I am not a psychologist, Doctor or some relationship guru…In fact I royally piss off the academic types and I’ll tell you why in a second…

I have been a military brat…or in the military for a majority of my life. In fact I joined the US Navy when I was a ripe old 17 years of age. Because of my life long military experience I’ve had dozens of homes…in 11countries… and lived long term in 5 states in the U.S.

And because I have lived in so many places and changed schools so often as a kid…I had to learn…and learn REALLY FAST…how to get along with people. And people from ALL WALKS OF LIFE. I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…

More importantly…I became really good at reading people, understanding what makes them “tick” and even got to a point where I could influence their behavior and actions.

In fact, I got quite good at doing this, so good in fact that I was the “go to” guy whenever my friends had just about any kind of “people problem”…I kind of felt like the male version of “Dear Abby”…

Maybe you even know someone a little like me?…someone that you go to when you have “people problems”…

Anyway…I got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is MUCH HIGHER than average.

WARNING: Unconventional Methods!

At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…my advice and methods are VERY unconventional. I get relationship counselors and the like REALLY ANGRY because they are charging $50

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Dating Online

I hope you are all feeling well this sunday and have had some holidays to enjoy over the christmas and new year.  Todays article will be about dating online. Its possible these days to meet a great partner through online dating. I have a couple of friends myself who finally has met someone this way. But as with everything else there are some pitfalls to avoid which you can read about in todays article Dating Online. 

To Your Success in Love and Life

Dick Scott

There once was a time when you had to go out in public in order to find a date, but these days, it’s usually done online rather than out in public. Social networking sites and chat rooms have taken over the dating pool that used to be in bars and clubs and moved it right into the Twenty First Century. In this way, you can stay at home and be comfortable while still finding people that you can go out with over the weekend. Now, that can actually sound interesting to some younger individuals out there, it can be a bit of a letdown for the older generations.

The first thing you are going to need to understand is that you have no idea who you are actually talking to online. For all you know, it could be a 60 year old man talking to you on the other end of the computer. Even though you can ask for a recent picture, they can be faked fairly easily these days, so you still won’t be able to guarantee the person you are talking to is real or not. The internet is a great place to exaggerate about yourself as well, and many people tend to do that.

One thing that you can do to make sure who you are talking to isn’t lying about themselves is to use a web cam together. In this way, they can see you and you can see them, so there is no hiding who you are talking to. Of course, you don’t want things in the background to let people know where you might be. This will make sure that the person you are talking to isn’t a stalker that’s out to get you or something. Things like that happen mostly in the movies, but you never know who you might come into contact with these days.

Online stalking has become quite an issue in the last decade or so, and that is something that can cause you some problems. You have to make sure that the person you are talking to doesn’t have bad intent towards you, but it’s hard to do that when you don’t actually know them. Now, you can check out some people online through free websites that do a basic background check, although you need to have some personal information in order to make sure you get the right details.

Finding people online is a great opportunity these days because you have a greater chance of meeting someone that might be in a different area than you. This opens up the relationship pool quite a lot, whereas before, you were stuck with the people that were in your local area. Playing the odds might give you the best possible chance of happiness, but you have to be extra careful with who you are talking to and what kind of information you give to them. Being happy is important, but giving out personal information online to people you don’t know could come back to bite you later on.

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Best Ways To Get Her Back Dating Advice For Singles

For those people that are unattached and trying to get in the middle of the dating scene, there are some pointers that you may be able to use in trying to land a great dating partner. Most dating advice you’ll find is meant to help you become a part of a couple and no longer single. In addition, it’s mostly common sense stuff that you probably already knew but had simply forgotten. Dating in the 21st century is a lot different than in any other era, but it’s a lot of fun and can be the highlight of your life.

When you’re single, there are many doors that you can open in trying to meet that potential dating partner. However, the first thing you need to do before you start opening any of those doors is figure out what you’re looking for in a dating relationship. Then, you’ll know exactly where to look and how to make your approach to the person that interests you.

Typical places to find dating partners are through friends, at schools, churches and any other places that you may frequent. Now, your close friends that are in relationships will usually be thrilled to set you up with someone that they just KNOW is perfect for you. This can be an excellent idea or it can be a disaster. It kind of depends on just how well your friends actually know you.

If you’re religious, chances are you’re part of a church in your community. Many churches have groups for singles that allow them to mix and mingle with each other. People with the same beliefs and values are usually pretty good matches. You’ll already have something major in common and religious views are usually very important in relationships.

Another way to meet potential dating partners is through the Internet. There are literally hundreds of thousands of dating websites these days to choose from. If you don’t want to join a dating site, there are also chat rooms set up for people to get to know each other. The websites are usually safer and offer a more organized way of meeting the right people, though.

A unique dating venue that’s been around for several years is that of speed dating. Organizations put together events for singles of all kinds to attend. The attendees are then given anywhere from 3 to 5 minutes with each other to get acquainted. Once everyone has spent some time together, the event is ended. Anyone that’s interested in being contacted by someone they chatted with will pass this information on to the organizers and that will be given to the person in question. What happens after that is in the hands of the chosen ones. This isn’t a free way of meeting dating partners but it can be a fun way to spend an evening.
Just remember that no matter how you choose to find your dating partners, be safe about it. Go slow at first and take all precautions. You’ll be happy you did.

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Talk It Out

One of the most important things to have in your relationship is good communication. There are going to be times in your life when communicating to your partner could end up saving you a lot of hassle and sleepless nights on the couch. You have to realize that if you don’t talk about your differences or issues in a conversational tone, you are going to end up making things even worse for a bit of time. Things like that happen way too often in relationships, and its up to you to put a stop to it so that the two of you can be happy gain.

How many times have you had the chance to tell your partner that they were doing something you didn’t like and it ended up in a heated argument? This type of thing happens to everyone, and there is no way of telling when the next big blow out is going to happen. You just have to be prepared for anything that might be said and figure out a way of getting around the harsher aspects of that argument the best way that you can. But you shouldn’t let things sit inside and build up, either.

If you absolutely need to tell your partner how you feel about something, then you have to do it in a way that doesn’t cause them to become defensive. Defensiveness makes a conversation become one sided and that will get you nowhere fast. You will end up yelling at each other and throwing blame around like water on a house fire. The only problem is you will only have a tiny tea cup of water and that fire will continue to flame out of control every time you toss more water on it. You have to be able to stop an argument before it gets to that point.

 

There really is no reason for anyone to argue. Most civilized people are able to have a conversation and point out ways that things could be better for both parties. You have to think in those terms and realize that most of the issues you are having with your partner have something to do with the way you are acting as well. You need to take responsibility for the things that you are doing wrong and try to resolve them in a way that makes your partner happy before you start pointing fingers at them.

Everyone has failings with who they are, and there are a lot of couples that don’t agree on things in life. This is something that you are just going to have to accept and live with if you want your relationship to work out for the best. But that doesn’t mean you cant bring some things up that you would like your partner to change and ask them what you could change about yourself to make things a bit more even. Compromise is a key ingredient to communication and its something you are going to find yourself doing quite a bit of in the future if you want your relationship to work.

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Cheating Spouse Test

Cheating Spouse Test
by Sabrina Summerfrield

If you are wondering whats wrong with your spouse and why your marriage is in such a turmoil, just take the cheating spouse test. You will find answers to all your questions and more about your cheating spouse. By answering some simple question about behavior, habits and activities, you will know if you are living with a cheater.

Do not get depressed, talk to your spouse, ask questions. Question his work, his expenses, time spent and his actions. If they are something to hide, either they lie or try to make up stories. Probing is a proven method and you should try it. The other thing you could test is their behavior towards you. It may have grown more loving than normal and you know that its not true love. He/she is just trying to buy some time and trying to keep you away from things.

Watch their behavior towards you, their work and friends. This can tell you a lot. If something feels strange or not like them, investigate further carefully without letting them know.

The other common one is the contacts test, where you investigate on all the contacts made by them. This could be through phone, emails and do not forget the personal visits. Every time he/she leaves home without you, you should be behind them.

Try to listen when they are on the phone or talking to a friend. Follow them around, but you have to do it smartly. Try and get answers to all the questions you have over a few months. You cannot rush, you will spoil the whole show.

Cheating Spouse Test

A sarcastic way to judge their conscience is to ask them about cheating spouses. You may watch them struggle by calling them out on their secret. The way they answer you could answer a number of questions.

Figuring out their past could tell you a number of things. If they have a history of cheating in the past, you may know more about how they are likely to act now.

Another method is the behavior testing. Watch his behavior closely, with you, his friends, with your close friends, in bed, in the shopping centre. Look at what he does and what he talks.

If you want it bold, confront him/her and do a polygraph test. You need the consent first though. Very extreme cases resort to this test as its already broken by this stage.

None of these tests or all of them may work for you. Point to keep in mind is that its more of a test for you than the other person. You must be prepared and have a strong will to do it.

All or none of the parts of the Cheating Spouse Test may work for you. It really ends up being more of a test about you than the other person and how willing you are to accept what may be reality. You have to have a strong will and you have to decide if you are ready to know the truth.

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How to Get your Ex Boyfriend Back After Hes Moved On

Did your boyfriend suddenly leave you and now you realize you want him back? Theres still a chance. Dont obsess or worry yourself sick about it, thats not going to help the situation. 

Heres a bit of advice and some clever tips to help you learn what you can do to get your ex back into your arms; even if hes found another woman and seems to have lost all interest in you.

1. Show Him Youre the Goods

Subtly show him that his life will be infinitely better if youre in it. Unless he is 100% repelled by you (which hes probably not), there are several things you can actually do starting at that point forward. 

But if your relationship was deeply serious, thats something you neednt worry about because you two truly cared for one another and likely shared a strong history together.

2. Make Friendship the Basis of Your Relationship

If youre smart, try to be a friend to him. Show him you can be a really great friend and that you understand what makes him tick. Let him see that you can be in his company without creating any drama or causing a scene. 

Joke with him and make him smile. When he realizes that in spite of your breakup, youre still the same interesting, friendly, funny, pretty and smart woman that he was originally attracted to in the first place; it will spark his interest and perhaps rekindle the fire. The bottom line is to just be yourself.

3. Initiate Conversation and Keep Your Cool

When you have a conversation with your ex, be civil and somewhat sweet, but do show him you have a little bit of backbone as well. After all, you dont want to be his doormat do you? 

You want him to want you, but you also want to give the impression that he may have to work a bit in order to get you. Youre a prize. Just naturally let the conversation flow and dont try to force a point. If the two of you are meant to be together, youll be together. Just let nature take its course.

How to Get your Ex-Boyfriend Back After Hes Moved On 

4. Let Him Know Youre Available

Try to come off with a little bit of attitude, but not too much that hell be put off by you - just enough to pique his interest and draw him to you. 

Let him know youre available in a clever sort of way but that at any moment the man of your dreams could snatch you away forever. Jealousy in small bits will work in your favor, but too much and youll just make him mad.

5. Never Seem Desperate

Whatever you do, never appear desperate, needy, or too emotional in front of him or it will send him running in the other direction full speed. Thats the opposite of what men want to see in a woman. 

Just play it cool no matter how you feel inside. Let him know you couldnt be better regardless of your painful breakup. Youre a great catch for any man, and he should consider himself extremely lucky for ever having you once. 

Show him youre not afraid to move on without him. Men are attracted to confident, self-assured, happy women. 

However, if you appear desperate in front of him, you can pretty much kiss your chances good-bye of ever getting back together with him.

If possible, casually bring up fun times the two of you once shared together along with fond memories of a sweeter time. This will trigger his subconscious to associate your presence with the feeling of happiness. 

At all costs, keep the conversation light-hearted and it will give you a stronger chance of winning him back. And if you dont, theres more fish in the sea. Fish with bigger and shinier scales just waiting for you to catch them!

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Dutch Dating

For centuries, whenever a date occurred, there were some very specific and accepted rules in place. The first one is that the guys always did the asking. Only a few times was it acceptable for girls to do the asking. These were events like Sadie Hawkins Day and simply social events that were set up by high schools, churches and various community organizations where the girls asked the guys they wanted to attend these events with them. The next rule is that the guys always paid for the date. Again, the only exception to this is when the girls were also the ones doing the asking. The guys provided the transportation and picked up the girls at their homes. Girls could do this when they were involved in one of those switching events. 

That may have made sense years ago when people had decent jobs, made adequate money at them, and the prices for entertainment wasn’t so high. These days, unless you happen to work as a doctor, lawyer, or CEO of a large company, you probably have to save up your money in order to afford asking a woman out on a date and paying for it. Due to the economy, it’s become the accepted practice of “Dutch Dating.” This means, basically, that when on an expensive date, the man pays for his half and the woman pays for hers. 

  
While this can get a bit sticky at times, there are actually new rules that govern Dutch Dating. When a couple is dating where each one makes pretty much the same amount of money, it’s acceptable for each partner to pay their own way. In this away, the couples get to do much more exciting things on dates than just having burgers at a fast food restaurant and watching a rented DVD at home. Now, there’s certainly nothing wrong with doing those things sometimes on dates, but who wants to do them all the time? 

If you want to do something special for someone that you’re dating, then you can save up some money for an event such as a birthday or anniversary. When you do the asking for something like this, you should expect to pay for all of it. This can be a nice thing to do for someone you care about. 

There’s also a rule about the person that makes the most money paying for the date, or at least paying for a larger portion of it. Again, this rule changes around depending on who did the asking and who planned the type of date it would be. There’s nothing wrong with women paying for the entire date sometimes, either. In fact, many couples switch back and forth as to who will foot the bill for dates. For instance, the guy pays for one and the woman pays for the next one and so on. This can work out pretty well. 
One rule that should always be in place is the first date rule. When a guy asks a woman out for the first time, he should be prepared to pay for the entire date. If the couple continues dating, they can make their own rules as they go along. 

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Dating And The Failing Economy

Dating used to be something that all couples looked forward to years ago. The dating ritual usually consisted of going out to eat and to a movie. In those times, the guy always paid for the date. If you look back far enough, you’ll even learn about drive in movie theaters when admission covered an entire carload of people. So double dating was a big deal. The snack bar served cheap popcorn and other easy food such as hotdogs and French fries. It was easy to have a $10 to $15 date back then.

Now, that the number of drive in movie theaters have diminished greatly throughout the years, it’s not quite as easy to have a decent cheap date. Indoor movie theaters now charge such outrageous prices to get in and even worse prices to get simple snacks and a soda once inside. What used to be a reasonably priced evening out is now easily $50 and up.

It may seem to be an almost impossible task these days for ordinary people to actually go out on a fun day. Wealthy people have no issues but those of the more ordinary working class can find it difficult to afford the typical dating scenario. That’s when creativity and imagination is required.

To begin with, women of today understand all about the economy and usually expect to be footing their half of the bill on a date. So if money is stopping  you from asking out that hot woman that you’ve been dreaming of for so long, you might just want to go ahead take the plunge. Granted, the first date should be one that you can afford to pay for completely because it IS a first date. That doesn’t mean it’s impossible, though.
Save up as much money as you can to put aside for this first date. You can also use your imagination and create a different sort of date. Find out what she enjoys and build a date around that. Try doing something different. For example, if she enjoys riding bikes, plan an afternoon of bike riding in a nice location. You can even pack a picnic to enjoy in a special spot. Actually, picnics can be great ideas for many locations. The beach at night with a campfire can be a very romantic setting for a night time picnic. Just put your brain to work and you’ll come up with something.

Once the first date is past, it can become easier to plan more affordable dates because she may feel safer in having you over to her place or in going to yours. Each of you can cook dinner for each other and watch a rented DVD or play games. Basically, there are many things that can be done at home that are fun and affordable.

When you have formed a dating relationship with someone, it will most likely become quite common for her to offer to pay for her half of a date. In fact, SHE may even treat YOU on occasion. This is something that happens frequently when the lady does the asking.

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The Post Divorce Dating Game

The idea of starting to date after a divorce is enough to make a grown woman break out in hives. A divorce is a traumatic event and will take time to not only recover but to decide that you are ready for a new relationship. Especially if you are coming out of a log marriage, it can be overwhelming to consider going on a date with someone new. How can you survive the new world of dating after your divorce is final? 

1. Are you ready to start dating? Just because you are divorced, you don’t have to jump right back into dating. Give yourself time to move through the stages of grief before even considering entering the dating world. When you have reached the point of forgiveness for your ex, then you will know you are on the road to recovery. Once the idea of dating doesn’t make you want to run and hide, then you are more than likely ready to start dating.

2. It’s ok to be afraid. Someone once said that courage isn’t the absence of fear – it’s the knowing you’re afraid and doing something anyway. Dating after divorce requires courage of a whole different level. How do you let people know that you are ready to start dating? It is perfectly normal to be anxious about dating again – start slowly. Tell a few close friends that you’re looking to meet someone new start going to parties or social events – don’t feel like you need to be in a rush. 

The Post-Divorce Dating Game

3. What are you looking for? Determine what you’re looking for before you begin dating. Are you looking for another long term relationship? Do you just want to meet some new people or have fun? Once you can identify what you’re looking for, you will be able to steer your dating choices towards that goal. You may change your mind after a while, so remember to re-evaluate your dating goal periodically. 

4. Join the media revolution. Chances are good that online dating wasn’t an option when you first started dating. Now, it is a primary means of meeting and getting to know people who have similar interests. Check out one of the reputable online dating services to give you the opportunity to meet potential dates. A great way to avoid the awkwardness of meeting someone in a coffee shop or bar, online dating gives you a safe way to narrow down the options.

5. Date around. Finding the courage to date again can make you feel like the first person you date should just be the next relationship. Don’t fall into this trap! Date a few people and get an idea of what you want in your next relationship. Be upfront with the people you’re dating – let them know that you are seeing other people casually. 

Dating after divorce is a nerve-racking experience. The most important thing to remember is to be yourself – take this opportunity to explore new activities and meet new people. There is life after divorce – it may take time, but it will happen. 

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Best Couples Counseling Seattle Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Even If He Is Already Dating Someone Else

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Dating Patterns To Avoid

Many times women tend to fall into certain patterns when it comes to dating. 

Now, they don’t have to be negative ones, but they typically are. Once you know what to watch for, though, you’ll find that those patterns will dissipate in no time.

One of those patterns is to stop mistaking comfort for love or attraction. This happens when you meet someone that you feel comfortable with instantly. You already know what to say and not to say around them, what makes them laugh, and other things. What you’re missing here is that he’s a lot like your ex, and most of the exes before him. Stop letting history repeat itself.

Another pretty important thing you want to watch is keeping in touch with your ex. 

Yes, it may seem harmless and you hate to simply cut him off that way. You’ve probably got a thousand excuses as to why you keep texting or calling him. Something you need to remember is that you’ll never move on while your ex is still in the picture.

There’s a lot to be said for companionship, but how many times do you let companionship take hold and settle in while taking the place of excitement. Relationships should have at least some excitement in them so that you’ve got something to look forward to. If there’s too much comfort in your relationship, it won’t be long until it becomes really boring and not worth the effort.

Something else to remember is that you need to pace yourself when you’ve just ended a relationship with someone. 

This is particularly true if you were in a long term relationship.  Give yourself some time to heal before you dive right into dating someone new. Rebound relationships rarely work out.
Some women decide that they’re just dating the wrong types of guys. So instead of trying to figure out what went wrong in the last relationship, they start dating guys opposite from the type they usually date. This is a recipe for disaster.

Something else you should never do is pretend to be something that you’re not. Many women decide that they simply don’t want to feel anything anymore so they try to pretend to be players. Eventually, you’re going to really hurt someone and then you’ll feel awful.

Last, but not least, don’t lie to yourself about what’s really going on in your relationship. 

If he’s seeing other people, but you’re not allowed to, that’s not a relationship. He’s calling all the shots and you’re pretending that it’s all good. The problem is that it’s not all good and you need to stop lying to yourself. He doesn’t love you and you’re not in a true relationship if that’s going on.

Now, if you find yourself repeating any of these patterns over and over again, it’s time to take stock of what you’re really doing when it comes to relationships. Be ready to change what needs to be changed and stand up for yourself. You deserve a true relationship, but you’re not going to do it by repeating destructive patterns.

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Catch a Good Man by Being Good Prey

All men are inherently hunters. They all possess a natural instinct to hunt and track down what they desire before they go for the kill. It’s been this way since the beginning of time and will likely never change.

And even though today our world is filled to the brim with technology, our DNA remains unchanged at the core level. Therefore, men are naturally compelled to hunt whether it’s animals or women.

Some women dislike the fact they’re viewed as prey and therefore turned off by predatory men. But the fact remains the same; a man is a man – period.

So, if a female wants to catch a man that’s actually worth catching, the trick is to let him “think” you are his prey. The following ideas offer a few suggestions on how to successfully turn the tables so that you can boost your chances of landing the perfect man.

1. Always Look Your Best

Men are visual creatures. Whether we like or not, men desire women who look good, especially these days.

While a man isn’t necessarily looking for a perfect supermodel type of woman, he is however trying to find the ideal woman who meets his standards in terms of shape, size, intellect, and age.

So, that means wherever you go, you should try to look your best in case you run into Mr. Right. Men are greatly influenced by first impressions. Who knew?

2. Get Social

You must get out there and socialize if you’re ever going to be hunted down by a worthy hunter. First, let men notice the extraordinary creature you are so they’ll want to pursue you. In other words, draw out his baser instincts.

Don’t be afraid to engage in interesting conversation, smile, and have fun interacting with men. For some women, this is stepping out of their comfort zone. How are you going to find the perfect man if you never leave the house?

3. Beware of the Player Hunter

You don’t want the player hunter. Opposite of a player, a real man wants to settle down and spend his life with a caring woman and likely start a family.

It’s important to note you should never try to force any man to settle down. Some men take longer than others to “sow their oats”. Although a player hunter will not want to settle down with you, he still may be interested.

He’s the type that will ignore you for a day or so and then suddenly sweep you off your feet the next. Beware. This is not the kind of man you want to give your heart away to.

He’s a user and a womanizing manipulator. He’ll hold onto you until the next best thing comes along; and when it does, you’ll quickly be shuffled to the back burner. Guard yourself against the player hunter. You are worth so much more.

4. A Man in Love Shows It

When a man falls in love and decides you’re the “one”, he will treat you like a queen, climb mountains for you, and bend over backwards to put a smile on your face (assuming he’s a decent man).

He’s all about the follow through as well. He calls when he says he’s going to call, shows you off to his family and friends, and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. He is the (good) hunter and you are his prize.

Keep the faith. Mr. Right could be around the next corner, so be ready. And remember, let the man pursue you – it’s supposed to be fun.

If you are in pain and confused?

Here’s some good news…

Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason…infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse…even the worst situations you can imagine…like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

There is hope…

Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief…

And it’s okay…let me ask?

Don’t you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?…or vice versa?

I bet you do…and here’s the strange real clincher…

Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair…or unfaithfulness…or worse even?

Think about it for a sec…

Sure! And I bet you know of…or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have…you know the ones I am talking about…(and I know this is kind of dark)… the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive…I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable…

“Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!”

Seriously, Doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together…under even some horrible circumstances…that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?

Now…I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” book and doing weird chants…not at all…at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME…and won back the heart of their lover…or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.

Allow me to repeat…they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!

Imagine…

What if? What they said…and what they did…could be “bottled” so to speak? And then you could “unbottle” it and put it to use? To erase old hurts…to reignite passion again…to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.

Yes…A Magic Love Recipe…in a sense…

You see there IS a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love…

What they did by “accident” can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!

And you know what?

If I were you…I would be somewhat skeptical right now…that’s totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?

Do you have these symptoms?

-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry

-Loss of appetite

-Binge eating for comfort

-Calling your ex several times a day

-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)

-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called

-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call

-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you

-Feeling massively depressed

-Feeling urges to spy on them

-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said

-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them

…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-We try to convince them we are the love of their life

-We will apologize profusely for everything

-Promise to change for good this time

-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault

-Even beg with them to take us back

…and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.

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