All men are inherently hunters. They all possess a natural instinct to hunt and track down what they desire before they go for the kill. Its been this way since the beginning of time and will likely never change.
And even though today our world is filled to the brim with technology, our DNA remains unchanged at the core level. Therefore, men are naturally compelled to hunt whether its animals or women.
Some women dislike the fact theyre viewed as prey and therefore turned off by predatory men. But the fact remains the same; a man is a man period.
So, if a female wants to catch a man thats actually worth catching, the trick is to let him think you are his prey. The following ideas offer a few suggestions on how to successfully turn the tables so that you can boost your chances of landing the perfect man.
1. Always Look Your Best
Men are visual creatures. Whether we like or not, men desire women who look good, especially these days.
While a man isnt necessarily looking for a perfect supermodel type of woman, he is however trying to find the ideal woman who meets his standards in terms of shape, size, intellect, and age.
So, that means wherever you go, you should try to look your best in case you run into Mr. Right. Men are greatly influenced by first impressions. Who knew?
2. Get Social
You must get out there and socialize if youre ever going to be hunted down by a worthy hunter. First, let men notice the extraordinary creature you are so theyll want to pursue you. In other words, draw out his baser instincts.
Dont be afraid to engage in interesting conversation, smile, and have fun interacting with men. For some women, this is stepping out of their comfort zone. How are you going to find the perfect man if you never leave the house?
3. Beware of the Player Hunter
You dont want the player hunter. Opposite of a player, a real man wants to settle down and spend his life with a caring woman and likely start a family.
Its important to note you should never try to force any man to settle down. Some men take longer than others to sow their oats. Although a player hunter will not want to settle down with you, he still may be interested.
Hes the type that will ignore you for a day or so and then suddenly sweep you off your feet the next. Beware. This is not the kind of man you want to give your heart away to.
Hes a user and a womanizing manipulator. Hell hold onto you until the next best thing comes along; and when it does, youll quickly be shuffled to the back burner. Guard yourself against the player hunter. You are worth so much more.
4. A Man in Love Shows It
When a man falls in love and decides youre the one, he will treat you like a queen, climb mountains for you, and bend over backwards to put a smile on your face (assuming hes a decent man).
Hes all about the follow through as well. He calls when he says hes going to call, shows you off to his family and friends, and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. He is the (good) hunter and you are his prize.
Keep the faith. Mr. Right could be around the next corner, so be ready. And remember, let the man pursue you its supposed to be fun.
If you are in pain and confused?
Heres some good news
Did you know that most relationships CAN be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason
infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse
even the worst situations you can imagine
like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even Ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!
There is hope
Now I can almost see you shaking your head in disbelief
And its okay
let me ask?
Dont you know couples that have gotten back together? A girl that has taken a guy back?
or vice versa?
I bet you do
and heres the strange real clincher
Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair
or unfaithfulness
or worse even?
Think about it for a sec
Sure! And I bet you know of
or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that REALLY should not have
you know the ones I am talking about
(and I know this is kind of dark)
the girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.
Now, that is some really dark stuff and I am not recommending to anyone to take someone back if the relationship was abusive
I am using it as a point that almost NO SITUATION is unsalvageable
Couples reunite every day REGARDLESS of the situation!
Seriously, Doesnt that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together
under even some horrible circumstances
that there could be somehidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?
Now
I am not saying they were holding some secret love spell book and doing weird chants
not at all
at the same time somehow, by MOSTLY accident they said and did the RIGHT THINGS at the RIGHT TIME
and won back the heart of their lover
or at least created the circumstances where their ex gave them a second chance.
Allow me to repeat
they did this by mostly ACCIDENT!
Imagine
What if? What they said
and what they did
could be bottled so to speak? And then you could unbottle it and put it to use? To erase old hurts
to reignite passion again
to turn back to a time when your relationship was fresh, new and exciting.
Yes A Magic Love Recipe in a sense
You see there IS a recipe for love as well as a recipe for winning back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love
What they did by accident can be repeated over and over on PURPOSE!
And you know what?
If I were you
I would be somewhat skeptical right now
thats totally fine! I am going to show you some concrete proof. Just bear with me okay?
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do
what happens? P-A-N-I-C
defensiveness
arguments
and then it gets really nasty.
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasnt really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
and of course with every word we utter, regardless of our intention, the more and more defensive, angry and distant they become.
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