Lack of Originality
Unfortunately, a lot of guys havent gotten the memo. Youre still trying to use moves that have been used before. Sadly, these are moves the girls youre trying to get back together with already know about too.
Your ex doesnt want you to copy something thats been done before. If youre going to make a move to get her back, it had better, at the very least, be original. It needs to be something she hasnt seen before. It also needs to be something that you would do. It needs to appear sincere. Using movie lines as your guide makes her feel as though she isnt
important enough to you for something original.
Not Appropriate for Your Situation
Every relationship is different. Every breakup is somewhat unique. You can be having the same arguments as 10,000 other couples around the world, but there are things about the two of you and your situation that make those same arguments and situations
unique.
No matter what the reason for the breakup was, your situation is different than Harry and Sallys (When Harry Met Sally), Joe and Kathleens (Youve Got Mail), Maverick and Charlies (Top Gun), and Pat and Tiffanys (Silver Linings Playbook). You need to take the time and make the effort to come up with something unique and specific to your romantic situation. More importantly, it needs to be something that will matter to her and melt her heart.
Alternative Endings Worth Considering
That is, of course, if youre going for movie magic effects. However, you could do something else altogether. Something she may even find curious and shocking. You could let her go -- at least for a little while. Instead of going after the girl, give her a little time to think things through.
Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. Then, after a little time has passed, chances are you wont need to call her. Shell call you. When that happens, you can both enjoy a happy ending thats much better than anything Hollywood could come up with because its the story that belongs to the two of you and no one else.
No matter what the reason for the breakup was, your situation is different than Harry and Sallys (When Harry Met Sally), Joe and Kathleens (Youve Got Mail), Maverick and Charlies (Top Gun), and Pat and Tiffanys (Silver Linings Playbook). You need to take the time and make the effort to come up with something unique and specific to your romantic situation. More importantly, it needs to be something that will matter to her and melt her heart.
Alternative Endings Worth Considering
That is, of course, if youre going for movie magic effects. However, you could do something else altogether. Something she may even find curious and shocking. You could let her go -- at least for a little while. Instead of going after the girl, give her a little time to think things through.
Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. Then, after a little time has passed, chances are you wont need to call her. Shell call you. When that happens, you can both enjoy a happy ending thats much better than anything Hollywood could come up with because its the story that belongs to the two of you and no one else.
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