To begin with, the Internet is one of the most anonymous entities youll find anywhere. People online can be anyone and anything they wish, whether its actually the truth or not. They can fool others into believing that theyre respectable and even wealthy when theyre actually borderline criminals with no job. Thats not the worst of it, though. The Internet has made it much easier for predators to find their victims, and thats why its vital to keep a safety plan in place.
NEVER agree to go out with someone that youve only JUST started talking to online. This is true whether its through a dating site or just a chat room. There are steps you need to take to ensure your safety. The first one of these is to spend some time getting to know this person youre drawn to. Try to get him to talk to you on a webcam because that will show you a lot about him. Its also a good idea to try to get as much information as you can about him without having to give him too much of yours. You can take that information and investigate him a bit.
Speaking of giving out information, dont tell him truly personal things such as your phone number and address. You want to keep him from finding you until youre sure that you trust him and youre ready to meet. Theres no way to keep yourself fully safe if youre giving him your full name, address and phone number right off the bat.
Once youve decided that hes probably ok, set up your first meeting with him in a very public place and during the daylight hours. Its also a great idea to take a friend along with you so that youve got an escape route if you need it. In addition, the guy youre meeting sees that someone else knows who youre with if you happen to disappear or turn up harmed. Also, go in your own car so that youre not stuck depending on him for a ride home. If everything is going well, then you can send your friend on her way.
These are all just common sense rules that everyone needs to follow when engaging in online dating. It doesnt matter how much you may be tempted to forego the rules, please dont do it. Consider that dangerous people dont always appear that way. There are many wolves wearing sheeps clothing and you dont want to be trapped by one of them.
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