Dating can, and should be, a lot of fun, and most of the time things go pretty well on a date. However, there are a few mistakes that men just cant seem to help making when entering the dating game. Following are some of the more important ones that youre going to want to avoid:
Making negative first impressions: You may think theres nothing you can do about this but you couldnt be more wrong. The main rule of thumb here is to be yourself. Dress nicely and behave respectfully to her, of course, but dont pretend to be something youre not. That doesnt give off naturalness and shell know youre trying to fool her.
Making negative first impressions: You may think theres nothing you can do about this but you couldnt be more wrong. The main rule of thumb here is to be yourself. Dress nicely and behave respectfully to her, of course, but dont pretend to be something youre not. That doesnt give off naturalness and shell know youre trying to fool her.
Dont go too fast: If youre using a first date with someone as a way to have sex, youll most likely be sorely disappointed. Any meaningful relationship isnt going to be built on one date and instant sex. Not only that, if you push too hard, shell never want to see you again.
Leave the past in the past: If the girl youre on a date with spent a significant amount of time talking to you about her past relationships while on a date with YOU, youd probably be pretty unhappy about it. You also most likely wouldnt want to see her again. Keep that in mind if youre tempted to bore her to death with tales of your past horrible exes.
Stay sober: This is particularly true on your first date. You simply dont need to be drinking too much while on a date. It wont go over so well if you throw up on her shoes, pass out, or get pulled over for drunk driving.
Focus on your date: When youre out with a woman, its highly recommended that you focus only on her instead of gawking at the Amazon blonde with the Playboy Centerfold body that just entered the room. Chances are youll be spending the rest of the date alone.
Focus on your date: When youre out with a woman, its highly recommended that you focus only on her instead of gawking at the Amazon blonde with the Playboy Centerfold body that just entered the room. Chances are youll be spending the rest of the date alone.
Dont make assumptions about her likes and dislikes: This means that you let her order her own food at the restaurant unless she asks you to do it. Find out what sort of music she likes rather than getting concert tickets that YOU like and she hates. You get the picture.
Avoid sarcasm: While most women appreciate a good sense of humor, they really dont like sarcasm. Dry humor is also considered funny but making these sarcastic comments constantly throughout the date, youll find that shes going to stop laughing at some point and thats when youre done.
Its rude to keep your phone on during the date: If youre expecting a phone call thats so important that you need to keep your phone on during your date, then you need to reschedule your date. Nothing is ruder than answering your phone in the middle of a date.
Its rude to keep your phone on during the date: If youre expecting a phone call thats so important that you need to keep your phone on during your date, then you need to reschedule your date. Nothing is ruder than answering your phone in the middle of a date.
Insecurity: Women prefer confident men; not those that are terrified that women wont like them. Its just too icky.
Dont be possessive or controlling: Women hate being controlled and they dont like possessive men, either. If you start telling her what she can and cannot do, shell most likely tell you goodbye.
Avoid these severe dating stumbling blocks and youll have hope for greater dates.
Dont be possessive or controlling: Women hate being controlled and they dont like possessive men, either. If you start telling her what she can and cannot do, shell most likely tell you goodbye.
Avoid these severe dating stumbling blocks and youll have hope for greater dates.
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